If I gave you a coupon for free food at my restaurant, would you instantly have food at your home, 50 miles away from my restaurant? Or would you have to get in your car, remember your coupon, and present it at my restaurant for the receipt of the free food?
Salvation is the ticket, we must constantly remember it's a gift. We must work to obtain the blessings.
If you lost your coupon, or gave it away, how would you enjoy free food?
That's a very primitive understanding, mind you.
All will give an account of the lives we lived, the bible tells us. Will the Master be satisfied with how I spent my time here? I must work very hard (no one honestly tells you that at first...you know?) to control, contain, and condition myself to resist sin and temptation and do what's right. But nothing worth doing is easy, right? Someone like my sister isn't tempted toward substance abuse...whereas, I spent many years addicted. But even though it's easier for some people vs others to "be good" and "do what's right"....this doesn't mean that they don't work at their salvation. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Why would we fear and tremble? Fear the Lord thy God. Why? Even king David feared God. Why?
would you rather fear mankind who could harm your mortal self, or God Almighty who could not only harm your mortal self but your immortal self in hell?
We fear God because He is righteous, and our sin grieves Him. Not only that, but if I walked on your land uninvited, would I be in trespass? Sometimes we don't realize the things we do for ourselves trespass on others, not only humans but our Father. On His creation. We have to account for that trespass, much like an arrested person has to go to court typically (or jail) when they trespass.
Ok, so....God forgives us. Does that mean we should just walk all over Him? No. Not if we love Him. Not if we truly honor Him. Many claim Jesus, and that they "honor" God. Consider "Honor thy mother and father". Did it honor my father that i was a drug addict? Did he forgive me? yes. did it honor him and my mother? no. it put them to shame. it disgraced our family. Much in the same way, the family of God should resemble the Father, because we care about each other. We care that our Father cares. He cares that we are better than to defile ourselves and each other.
Natural consequence, like my being arrested for trespassing...happens with spiritual matters, too. Have you ever known someone who got a bad consequence from something they didn't really think was that bad? But why does consequence happen? Even science says every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Imagine someone curses at me for no reason, but they need a loan. I'm not wanting to be around them, because their words are ugly. How can they expect to borrow money when they've just cursed at me?
Ok, so God isn't an ATM, but He IS our Father. If I cursed out my earthly dad, he wouldn't want to loan me money, either. But he would forgive me. God forgives. That is how we live our lives with grace, in faith. We believe in Him, in His perfection, righteousness, grace, mercy, forgiveness. We believe that He is God, Creator, and He's right. We mess up, ask forgiveness, and try harder. He provides grace. Try again, Child. He gives forgiveness.