I am for the proper application of law,
That's a noble intent, but it's effectiveness is still dependent upon the threat of punishment... is it not?
The question is... is there a way of inducing moral/ethical behavior without the threat of punishment? Without the need for laws? This very thread would suggest that there is, because the OP seems to be concerned about what's morally/ethically correct... not about what's legal.
while you seem to think stealing is OK.
It's all a matter of perspective. For example, I'm about to pay my property taxes, which from an ethical perspective, would seem like a form of stealing. I assume that to you, since it's lawful, it's not stealing. So from some people's perspective you would be the one who thinks that stealing is okay, if one simply does it under the guise of being legal. Which would of course seem to make slavery ethical, if done within a system that deems it to be legal.
Personally, I decided many, many years ago to simply make it impossible for anybody to steal from me. I did this by simply deciding that whatever anyone wanted of mine, they were free to take it, and on rare occasions they have, something with which I'm perfectly fine, because if they had simply asked me, I'd of given it to them. This is actually a rule of mine which has been tested many, many times, mostly by people asking me for money, and I have never once failed to give it to them.
If I have it, and you're ethically comfortable with asking me for it, then I'll give it to you. One of two things will happen... I will have fulfilled someone's sincere need, or they will have learned a lesson in charity. Both of which, are in my eyes, favorable outcomes.
So whaddya think... which of us is more ethical?