In 1 Corinthians, Paul wrote of the church that some are the mouth and some the ears and some the hands or feet.
God did make us all different. Some he made to be ears, some he made to be hands, some he made to be a mouth and some he made to be feet.
If you are an ear, listen to people's problems and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are a hand, mow someone's law and weed their garden and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are a mouth, teach people and then tell them the Gospel.
If you are feet, walk to the parks or down the street and then tell people the Gospel.
We do have different giftings and abilities and with these, we should bring Glory to God. We should not use our gifts as an excuse not to give God glory.
I am a foot. I often choose to go to the parks and give God glory. Sometimes I am a hand and I share the Gospel. Sometimes I listen to people and then I tell the Gospel.
Each person who is serving God is excited to serve God in their own way. If you pressure someone to do personal evangelism when they aren't called to do so, they find themselves like a fish out of water. It's a good way to kill someone's excitement for the Lord.
Once again, we do have different giftings that God has given us.
Many people often say my gifting is one of helps. So, they are a hand. They spend year after year doing good deeds and then never speak about the awesome thing that God did for them. So, nobody knows what this person believes in. If God is not spoken of, their good deeds do not give glory to God. We need to learn to open our mouths to speak of His awesome sacrifice.
In saying this, many believers do not know how to say the Gospel clearly and effectively. So, if you truly believe that your neighbour is under God's wrath, take the time and prepare a defence for the hope that is within you. I had to do this and it took me months to be able to say it.
Telling someone what Jesus did for us is a testimony, not "sharing the gospel" in the way you suggest in your conversation. In addition to that, it is proper to "be ready to give account of your faith" if someone asks. Not be an activist to push your testimony on people who are not interested.
Gospel means, "Good Speil". Or Good Talk. Or as we now say it, Good News.
If we tell of Jesus' great sacrifice, and what He did for us, then we are talking about the testimony of Him. So, we are saying the Gospel. That is, we have sinned and deserve death, but He took our place by dying on the cross for us.
Many people only tell their own testimony. Your testimony is not the power of God unto salvation. It is only a reason for your belief in Him. For instance, a person may say, "I believe in God because I heard His voice late one night". This answers why the person believes, but it does not say who God is. The Gospel says who He is. He is our saviour.
He only ministered personally to people who showed some faith.
So we do not have to preach the Gospel to all creation? Who do I obey, you or Jesus? I will stick with what Jesus told us to do.
Some are evangelists, as indicated in
Eph. 4:11. Those without that gift should do other things, which they will be excited to do, once they get clear about how God has called them to serve.
In my town, everyone has taken the same approach as you and so for the last 40 years, nobody has taken the Gospel in the streets or parks. We have all just left the lost to be lost
Also, you missed the second part of Eph 4:11 because it continues to verse 12. The gift of evangelism is, "for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ". So, the gifting is for the saints. It is for the church so that we can equipped to go out and share the Good News. We are all to evangelise but someone with the gift of evangelism will have the ability to teach others to do so as well.
The Bible says "Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God." But you are saying "Everyone who is not a personal evangelist is not a child of God." You are proving the words of James who wrote "let not many of you be teachers, because he who teaches will incur greater judgment."
You should take great care about trying to teach something other than the grace of God for motivating assurance of salvation.
I do not believe that 2ndTim was saying that. He was saying that if you have a true belief, then it would be wrong not to share the Gospel. Even Charles Spurgeon understood this. He said, "
Have you no wish for others to be saved? Then you're not saved yourself, be sure of that!"
Our actions substantiate our true beliefs. People can fool themselves into thinking that they believe in something just by saying "I believe", when in fact, they don't truly believe. For instance. If you are going skydiving for the first time, while you are on the ground you may say, "I am not afraid, I trust my parachute." But then when it comes down to the crunch and you are up at 10000 feet about to jump, you may say, "On second thoughts, it is a long way down and I don't want to die." So, your actions substantiate your true beliefs. Those truly believe will act in accordance with that belief. So, if you truly believe your neighbour is under God's wrath, then you will act accordingly. You would warn them. It would be unloving not to warn them.
James 2:24 says "You see then that a man is justified by works, and not by faith only."