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I’m a Bible believing Christian. I would like to attend an actual church but I’m very confused on which one to attend since there are so many different denominations. There are a few different denominations in my area. What do I do? Can anyone offer me any advice? Thank you.
 

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I’m a Bible believing Christian. I would like to attend an actual church but I’m very confused on which one to attend since there are so many different denominations. There are a few different denominations in my area. What do I do? Can anyone offer me any advice? Thank you.
My suggestion would be to pray about it and look for a church that matches what the Bible says. I recommend studying the Bible for yourself and claim the promise of scripture that the Holy Spirit will teach us all everything God says John 14:26 (His Word). Have an open heart and be willing to go with what matches the Word of God. Maybe try a couple churches, but continue to pray earnestly. God bless!
 
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I’m a Bible believing Christian. I would like to attend an actual church but I’m very confused on which one to attend since there are so many different denominations. There are a few different denominations in my area. What do I do? Can anyone offer me any advice? Thank you.
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I’m a Bible believing Christian. I would like to attend an actual church but I’m very confused on which one to attend since there are so many different denominations. There are a few different denominations in my area. What do I do? Can anyone offer me any advice? Thank you.

SabbathBlessings gave good advice. Do any of your family or friends go to a church?

Do you have any questions about particular denominations? There are a number of folks here from different backgrounds that may be able to answer them.
 
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If you don't know anything about any of the denominations or churches, you might try visiting one or two Sundays in each of the churches in your area, to get a sense of their beliefs, practices, and styles of worship.

Do you have any idea at the moment of what your theological beliefs are, or what style of worship brings you close to God? If you have a sense of either of those, I might be able to suggest a denomination that's a good fit for you.
 
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SabbathBlessings gave good advice. Do any of your family or friends go to a church?

Do you have any questions about particular denominations? There are a number of folks here from different backgrounds that may be able to answer the
SabbathBlessings gave good advice. Do any of your family or friends go to a church?

Do you have any questions about particular denominations? There are a number of folks here from different backgrounds that may be able to answer them.
Well, I have been to Catholic, Lutheran, Methodist, Baptist, Nondenominational, Unity & Pentecostal churches in the past. However, I need to find something that’s close to me like within walking distance, and the only church that would be within walking distance is an Episcopalian church, which I have never been to to date. I’m extremely open to different denominations, but they all seem fine to me when I have attended them but then I start to wonder if these are churches are something I should be attending. I don’t want to attend something that I shouldn’t. Not trying to offend anybody who attends these churches it’s just that I have a great need to find something for me that feels completely right. I hope that this makes sense.
 
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SabbathBlessings gave good advice. Do any of your family or friends go to a church?

Do you have any questions about particular denominations? There are a number of folks here from different backgrounds that may be able to answer them.
Yes, this is great advice. I agree. I don’t really have any specific questions.
 
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My suggestion would be to pray about it and look for a church that matches what the Bible says. I recommend studying the Bible for yourself and claim the promise of scripture that the Holy Spirit will teach us all everything God says John 14:26 (His Word). Have an open heart and be willing to go with what matches the Word of God. Maybe try a couple churches, but continue to pray earnestly. God bless!
Thank you this is awesome advice.
 
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Well, I have been to Catholic, Lutheran, Methodist, Baptist, Nondenominational, Unity & Pentecostal churches in the past. However, I need to find something that’s close to me like within walking distance, and the only church that would be within walking distance is an Episcopalian church, which I have never been to to date. I’m extremely open to different denominations, but they all seem fine to me when I have attended them but then I start to wonder if these are churches are something I should be attending. I don’t want to attend something that I shouldn’t. Not trying to offend anybody who attends these churches it’s just that I have a great need to find something for me that feels completely right. I hope that this makes sense.

If that is the only church within walking distance, and you need a church within walking distance, then it sounds like you should try it.

If after attending you do not feel it lines up with Scripture, or the Lord leads you otherwise, you can go from there.
 
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If you don't know anything about any of the denominations or churches, you might try visiting one or two Sundays in each of the churches in your area, to get a sense of their beliefs, practices, and styles of worship.

Do you have any idea at the moment of what your theological beliefs are, or what style of worship brings you close to God? If you have a sense of either of those, I might be able to suggest a denomination that's a good fit for you.
It’s a tossup because I like the style of a Catholic Church. I like the feeling because I was raised Catholic BUT I also like the Lutheran style AND also at the same time, I like more of a strict Bible believing church BUT I like the Pentecostal music. I’m confused about what church I should attend based on all those leanings. That’s about as much as I can think of at the moment.
 
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If that is the only church within walking distance, and you need a church within walking distance, then it sounds like you should try it.

If after attending you do not feel it lines up with Scripture, or the Lord leads you otherwise, you can go from there.
Yes, I think that would be a good idea for me because I’m very open minded when it comes to denominations. I do enjoy going to different churches but now I’m very limited on where I can go since I will be walking. I also feel like I need to find a church that I can just go to and feel comfortable at and be OK with everything that I’m looking for in a church does that make sense?
 
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It’s a tossup because I like the style of a Catholic Church. I like the feeling because I was raised Catholic BUT I also like the Lutheran style AND also at the same time, I like more of a strict Bible believing church BUT I like the Pentecostal music. I’m confused about what church I should attend based on all those leanings. That’s about as much as I can think of at the moment.
Episcopal churches can vary, but you may well find a lot to like. They are historically from the anglican churches, which have similarities to Catholics. But they also share some characteristics with protestant churches.

On the other hand, there is a wide variety between different episcopal groups, so you may not know until you go. You might check out the website first to see if there is anything that seems to go against Scripture.
 
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I’m a Bible believing Christian. I would like to attend an actual church but I’m very confused on which one to attend since there are so many different denominations. There are a few different denominations in my area. What do I do? Can anyone offer me any advice? Thank you.
I like the denomination that I attend - but in general the principle is the same - find a church that teaches correct Bible doctrine.

"you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free" John 8:32
"sanctify them in Thy Truth - Thy Word is Truth" John 17:17
 
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Episcopal churches can vary, but you may well find a lot to like. They are historically from the anglican churches, which have similarities to Catholics. But they also share some characteristics with protestant churches.

On the other hand, there is a wide variety between different episcopal groups, so you may not know until you go. You might check out the website first to see if there is anything that seems to go against Scripture.
Thank you that is what I have heard about the Episcopalian and since there’s one right up the way, I think next Sunday I will go up there and see what they are all about.

I do have a family member that attends a Baptist church but I don’t want to attend a church with a family member and their extended family member only because I want to just go & be myself if you can understand that. I’ve already told my family member that’s how I feel and they’re cool with that they understand.

I feel like the extended family member would try to sway me into going to that church because honestly that’s how that person is. They feel that their denomination is the best and only denomination and I don’t feel that way at all. I think all denominations have something to offer it’s just a matter of finding the right one that you vibe with. My family feels the same way as I do but there is that extended family member that does not.
 
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Thank you that is what I have heard about the Episcopalian and since there’s one right up the way, I think next Sunday I will go up there and see what day are all about.

I do have a family member that attends a Baptist church but I don’t want to attend a church with a family member and their extended family member only because I want to just go & be myself if you can understand that. I’ve already told my family member that’s how I feel when they’re cool with that they understand.

I feel like the extended family member would try to sway me into going to that church because honestly that’s how that person is. They feel that their denomination is the best and only denomination and I don’t feel that way at all. I think all denominations have something to offer it’s just a matter of finding the right one that you vibe with. My family feels the same way as I do but there is that extended family member that does not.

I can certainly understand why you would want to leave room for God to guide you instead of being pressured by those you know.
 
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You can also see if their website has archives of previous worship services so that you can get a feel before That is a great idea
You can also see if their website has archives of previous worship services so that you can get a feel before going.
That is a good idea. They do have a website so I will look and see.
 
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I like the denomination that I attend - but in general the principle is the same - find a church that teaches correct Bible doctrine.

"you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free" John 8:32
"sanctify them in Thy Truth - Thy Word is Truth" John 17:17
Yes, thank you
 
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I can certainly understand why you would want to leave room for God to guide you instead of being pressured by those you know.
Yes, as I said, I do enjoy going to many denominations. I like to learn about different denominations and their backgrounds-all of those things it’s how I was raised. Even though I was raised Catholic I was still raised this way and it’s something that has always stuck with me.

Maybe somebody is wondering why I don’t attend a Catholic Church today. Well, I have certain reasons for that although I do still find the whole religion beautiful I just have some minor issues with it as a whole now as an adult but I wouldn’t be opposed to still going to one here and there because again I’m open minded in that way, and it does give me a sense of familiarity and comfort.
 
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