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Sure!!! If a Christian wife has a husband who, despite his lipservice to Christ, is a philanderer, then he should think twice when his wife commands him to stop his escapades. The sad thing will be when those same men turn around with audacity and think to re-command their own faithful wives to just accept the circumstance ...

In such an instance, she would have the right to divorce his philandering bootay! :dontcare:
Do you have some biblical example or instruction to Christian women regarding commanding their husbands?

Similarly with "the right to divorce".

Just so that we are sure we do not invent our own version of Christianity. I am pretty certain the Christian husbands in the time of the New Testament were not sinless, so such instructions or examples should be there, if valid.
 
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How real is our compassion, if we are not willing that it should cost us anything?
It's very real. Because compassion is not relegated to a single person. Sacrificing one person for the sake of another is not true compassion. Compassion is helping the person be ill. Compassion is helping the person, recognize they are ill and help them overcome their illness. You should know this. If someone came to you and said they had an addiction in compassion you would not help give them more of what they were addicted to. If someone is cutting themselves compassion is not giving them the knife and then telling society that they also have to provide the knives for them.

Costing me something would be my time, efforts, finances etc to help them get through their illness, overcome it or heal it if I can. It's not me altering my language, telling my neighbor women they have to shower with men. Where's the compassion for them and their distress?

You know as a mother many times "no" is very compassionate. Saying yes us sometimes the mist harmful thing you can do. As a minister you should also know this. Helping someone to remain sick and further be sick and telling everyone else they have to sacrifice themselves in the alter of helping someone maintain their illness is not compassion. The sick are in need of a physician not an enabler.
 
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There are 31 references listed, on topics ranging from "Cross-cultural differences in physical aggression between partners: A social-role analysis" to "Gender inequality, violence against women and fear: A cross-national test of the feminist theory of violence against women."

There's plenty there for you to explore.

No offense but you cited a study that claims to measure patriarchy by how many women are murdered despite men being murdered more often than women lol.

Only a bunch of feminists cite evidence that men suffer more, men have it harder, as evidence of a woman's problem.

It's a equality of rights movement that no longer helps anyone nor is needed in either of our countries.

As far as theory goes, it's exactly what you might expect from a bunch of gay women who hate men.
 
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Do you have some biblical example or instruction to Christian women regarding commanding their husbands?
I gave you one above already, brother myst ... the one in which it states that we "should submit to one another." Such a statement doesn't preclude men submitting at times (at least) ............ to women and wives.
Similarly with "the right to divorce".
Sure. It's implied in what Jesus said to His disciples in the Gospels. I think we all know where the pertinent passages are. The problem comes in our respective Hermeneutics, on which we can all disagree till we're blue in the face.
Just so that we are sure we do not invent our own version of Christianity. I am pretty certain the Christian husbands in the time of the New Testament were not sinless, so such instructions or examples should be there, if valid.

I'm pretty certain that spiritual authority and its maintenance depends upon one's faithfulness.

As for the tangent about "making up our own version of Christianity," we all do, each and every one of us. Maybe not in the way that folks might think you mean, but when the epistemology, philosophy of history, manuscript evidence, church traditions and hermeneutics are boiled down through substantive critical study................................we're all left with a multitude of choices about what we think we can believe about some made up entity we now call "the Holy Bible."

Let's not talk like our sacred books dropped directly out of Heaven and into our grubby little hands, giving us authority to rule over others with clarity and empowerment. We all know they didn't and they don't. This applies to, and includes, how and when we try to discernn various implications about the topic of submission between husbands and wives.
 
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I gave you one above already, brother myst ... the one in which it states that we "should submit to one another." Such a statement doesn't preclude men submitting at times (at least) ............ to women and wives.
The verse is about the people in church. The instructions to men, women, parents, children begin after.

But still, commanding somebody is another level than husband-wife leadership/submission and I cannot recall any Christian women to command a man or to be encouraged to do so, in the Bible.

I'm pretty certain that spiritual authority and its maintenance depends upon one's faithfulness.
Not sure how this "spiritual authority" relates to general authority, but regarding loosing the general authority, it does not sound biblical:

a) corrupt religious leaders:
"So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach."
Mt 23:3

b) unbelieving husbands:
"Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words..."
1Pt 3:1

c) slavery:
Slaves, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh
1Pt 2:18

And similarly with evil governments etc.

There is no biblical example or instruction to "rebel or usurp authority over somebody who is not faithful or good". Instead, the opposite is given as an example for us:

"But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps....
When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly"

1Pt 2:20

I understand its hard for our individualistic and entitled society (me included) to hear such words or even to obey them, but this is the biblical teaching. Its very pacifistic and about self-sacrifice.
 
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Because if what you want is for trans people to be accepted socially as people of the opposite sex, without question, then language and space use would need to reflect that.
Wait what? Accepting people as the opposite sex? That's biological. Yes this is what is happening. They want to be accepted as the opposite biological sex even though they are not. Without question.

A complete and utter denial of reality is what is demanded. And not just a denial but also a demand of society to completely be turned on its head for them.

It's the only mental illness that requires all of society to change in order for them to feel better. Instead of healing themselves or going through therapy to work it out. They take drugs which don't fix it, they get surgeries, which don't fix it. They do all kinds of things that dont really fix it and the more they demand and more is given, the more demands are made. It's like they are searching, really trying to be happy and feel good and nothing does. It is so dependant on others and EVERYONE altering their language and behavior, jobs, education, private spaces for them.
 
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I think patriarchy is a result of the fall, and human sinfulness; not what God intended.

Or it could be the fact that men do everything. The reason why you have a society can be traced back to a decision made by some men, can it not?

No, it's things like when you want to work full time but can only get part time work.

So underemployment of men is also a problem?


The question is: who commits those murders? Overwhelmingly, men.

Why is that the question?

If the problem is being murdered...men face the bigger problem, by a lot. If you genuinely consider it a problem, we should focus on how to make it better for men. In you country alone....women would have to make up 20%+ more of the murders before they even face the same problem that men do.

Men kill men, and men kill women. Specifically, men kill women who are or have been their partners. That's a very particular issue to work on.

Women have it easy compared to men. Men are far more likely to be murdered than women. If we are concerned about who is getting murdered...we should focus on men.


This is not about hating men. It's about changing these statistics:

"Prevalence

According to the 2016 Personal Safety Survey conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics, since the age of 15:

  • 1 in 2 women has experienced sexual harassment in their lifetime.
  • 1 in 3 women has experienced violence by a partner, other known person or a stranger since the age of 15.
  • 1 in 4 Australian women has experienced intimate partner violence since the age of 15.
  • 1 in 4 Australian women has experienced emotional abuse by a current or former partner since the age of 15.
  • 1 in 5 Australian women had experienced sexual violence since the age of 15.
  • 1 in 6 women and 1 in 9 men experienced physical and/or sexual abuse before the age of 15.

Again, are we concerned about murder or are you completely changing topics?

If you're concerned about violence, men are almost always more often the victims of violence.

Women are most likely to experience physical and sexual violence in their home, at the hands of a male current or ex-partner (ABS PSS 2016). Of women who had children in their care when they experienced violence from an ex partner, 68 per cent reported that the children had seen or heard the violence (ABS PSS 2016).

Additionally, 23 per cent of women in Australia have experienced sexual violence in their lifetime including childhood sexual abuse and/or sexual assault since the age of 15 (ABS PSS 2016). However, the true prevalence of sexual violence is likely to be higher as we know that many incidents of sexual violence go unreported. According to the 2022 ABS Sexual assault – Perpetrators release, 97 per cent of sexual assault offenders are male."


Men are the victims of crime more than women by almost every single category. That's both violent crime and property crime.

To demonstrate how easy women have it compared to men, I need only point out that you're far more concerned about women....and cherry picking the one category of crime where they're the victims more often than men.....and you consider that a real argument for something.

It's not a real argument for anything.

If you cared about equality, or equity, or outcomes....you should be far more concerned about the welfare of men. Again, feminism isn't needed by your nation or mine.
 
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...........hhhhhmmmmm, sometimes Christian husbands are somewhat dim-witted, especially where relational and sexual issues are concerned.

So, when the wife says to her husband, "Don't listen to Hugh Hefner or Mr. Bossy Boss and his ilk or be playing with that Tinder app," Christian wives should be able to hear the husband comply with a gentle, "ok, Honey. You're right!," and then follow through with that verbal compliance.

Let's not pretend that Christian men have it all together these days, because typically they don't. So, we should see many cases where even Christian husbands encounter the need to submit to wives, at least sometimes ............................................................................... (Ephesians 5) :dontcare:
The bible was not written to perfect people but by and too flawed people. The commands in scripture were not for perfect people or people who had it all together and didn't apply only to them. The commands are there to guide flawed and dimwitted people.who find themselves doing what they know they shouldn't or not doing the things they know they should.

Christian wives are just as dimwitted as the husbands. We all need a savior and all need Christ. We all need the Bible to guide us and tell us what God commands from us. For our own good. That's why God assisted in writing to men to live their wives in the same way Christ lives and is head over the church. He commanded wives to submit and respect their husbands. Husbands need to love their flawed wives and despite their flaws. Wives are to submit themselves to and respect their flawed husbands. Both recognizing they they too are flawed and don't have it all together.
 
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Sorry, you have lost me. It sounds like you're saying that if people argue that one thing is wrong then they are indifferent to another. It sounds like that, but it's such a ridiculous suggestion that you must mean something else. But it's got me beat.
I tried to compare the morality that the moral law Paul spoke of was the same under Moses and Christ. The difference being that mercy was to be practiced between humans and God would judge transgressors ( no more stonings). I said his sense of those deserving of death in God’s judgment was based on a social level of depravity. I believe he was addressing those who sexually, physically, abused & sacrificed children, those who left unwanted infants to die in the streets etc. Much of the homosexuality in Greece & Rome involved abuses of children as objects. While he would consider gay relationships sinful, I believe his indignation was directed at greater depravity on a greater anti social level like crime etc. Actually any sexual relationship outside of heterosexual marriage is adultery in Christianity but obviously how it is seen & how people live is highly fluid ( I am hardly qualified to be preachy on this but that really is true Christianity).

Next I made a comparison to depravity that exists today and noted that child sacrifice still happens to an alarming rate today. Is Paul so unreasonable in his indignation on such matters?

The Lord is always there for us to repent ( Revelation 3:20).

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The verse is about the people in church. The instructions to men, women, parents, children begin after.
I'm going to have to disagree with you; I think you're squelching the implications of the previous passages that Ephesians 5:21 provided a general summation. What you're doing is claiming a context that doesn't actually fully present itself in the text to make a faux-distinction about one part applying to the church and the other to families.

In my view of the texts, there is no such distinction between the concept of "church" and living daily lives with daily relationships and family. It's ALL Church ..............................................................................

I think that Ephesians 5:5-6 puts the kibosh on anyone (or any "Christian" man) asserting that he can be sinful habitually and gainfully and still think he has some sort of 'Kingdom Authority' over his wife. He doesn't. And he won't until he repents (if he repents).
But still, commanding somebody is another level than husband-wife leadership/submission and I cannot recall any Christian women to command a man or to be encouraged to do so, in the Bible.
I think you missed the part where my language admits nuanced meaning about how women might need to assert some authority during a time of urgency (such as when dealing with a sinful "christian" husband) ....
Not sure how this "spiritual authority" relates to general authority, but regarding loosing the general authority, it does not sound biblical:

a) corrupt religious leaders:
"So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach."
Mt 23:3

b) unbelieving husbands:
"Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words..."
1Pt 3:1

c) slavery:
Slaves, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh
1Pt 2:18

And similarly with evil governments etc.

There is no biblical example or instruction to "rebel or usurp authority over somebody who is not faithful or good". Instead, the opposite is given as an example for us:

"But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps....
When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly"

1Pt 2:20

I understand its hard for our individualistic and entitled society (me included) to hear such words or even to obey them, but this is the biblical teaching. Its very pacifistic and about self-sacrifice.

No, a Christian wife who is faithful has the right to divorce her husband if he's a philanderer ... The Gospels imply as much. She has the authority to do so if need be, and for her to do so wouldn't be "usurpring" her husband's authority.

Moreover, my reading and interpretation of the text has little to do (nothing to do, really) with my living in the U.S. I'm actually educated, knowing that the parameters of reality, human knowledge and numerous academic considerations curtail any notion of "individuality" I might be tempted to push too far. Don't mistake me for the typical American. ... I'm not!!!

I think it's a hard sell to say that we, if we wish to be Christian, are called to be hard-core pacifists or martyrs. We aren't to be looking for those circumstances; they aren't opportunities. They're unfortunate situations that we sometimes have to bear up under if possible. However, IF we can escape them, we should. And if we're wise, we should even avoid them when possible.
 
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The bible was not written to perfect people but by and too flawed people. The commands in scripture were not for perfect people or people who had it all together and didn't apply only to them. The commands are there to guide flawed and dimwitted people.who find themselves doing what they know they shouldn't or not doing the things they know they should.
Yes, I fully understand that and agree. But here, we're specifically talking about Ephesians chapter (along with its required, full literary inter-contexts). And I'm going to be the one to upset the apple cart by challenging other Christians to climb out of their antiquated artifices that needlessly inhibit a better understanding of the extent of relevance or social reality that the bible has or may have.
Christian wives are just as dimwitted as the husbands. We all need a savior and all need Christ. We all need the Bible to guide us and tell us what God commands from us. For our own good. That's why God assisted in writing to men to live their wives in the same way Christ lives and is head over the church. He commanded wives to submit and respect their husbands. Husbands need to love their flawed wives and despite their flaws. Wives are to submit themselves to and respect their flawed husbands. Both recognizing they they too are flawed and don't have it all together.

I think you've missed the part that we live in a new age, one where men are the main, unrepentant culprits. Let's stop blaming the women for having fallen through the moral cracks in the foundations of society that men like Hugh Hefners caused by detonating their enlightened immorality into those foundations...
 
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Here's another example from the UK...


Notice the way the terms "gender" and "sex" are used...

Kathleen Stock has been under fire particularly since the publication of her book “Material Girls: Why Reality Matters for Feminism” in 2021. From the perspective of protecting women’s sex-based rights, this book challenges current notions that understandings of gender are more significant than biological sex. Many trans rights advocates have labelled her views as transphobic.

Notice how there's no meaningful difference between biological sex and gender. Its as if they are speaking about the same thing.

The sex vs gender debate is longstanding – the idea of a ‘Gender War’ has been established with those who prioritise biological understandings of what makes a man or a woman in one camp, and those who take a more fluid approach, perceiving gender as socially constructed, in the other.

Again, these ideas are interchangeable. In fact, the only meaningful distinction between biological sex and gender is that biological sex refers to reality. It is therefore possible to even have a definition of woman as long as it refers to biological reality. The idea of gender on the other hand is a matter of whimsy, of fantasy, and completely subjective perspective. Since no definition could hope to ever encompass all these things....no definition of woman exists for these people. This is where the idea becomes cult-like and faith-based because there is, of course, no category of women and indeed....no need for the word woman at all without any definition.

That these people not only believe they are right to force these absurd faith based beliefs upon children is dangerous...but it's a small danger compared to their participation in politics and governance at all.
 
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I was taught not to rely on conclusions in studies as those are frequently wrong and biased.
Well, any one study could be. So you should look to see if there's an emerging consensus across studies.
But if you have something specific you want to stress from the study, feel free to share.
I think the key soundbite was this: "we found that traditional gender beliefs were associated with increased severity of stress, depressive symptoms and reciprocal verbal aggression."
The feminist way says women work and don't raise their kids because that's what they want. They prefer a career to being a mother.
Let me just point out again the reality that working and mothering are not mutually exclusive.
It's not me...telling my neighbor women they have to shower with men. Where's the compassion for them and their distress?
Literally nobody in this thread has been advocating for that; rather saying there are ways around that as an issue.

Wait what? Accepting people as the opposite sex? That's biological.
You deliberately left out the word I included, "socially."

Or it could be the fact that men do everything.
Please don't be completely ridiculous.
The reason why you have a society can be traced back to a decision made by some men, can it not?
Um... no? We have a society because a bunch of people came together to form a community.
So underemployment of men is also a problem?
It is, but at a much smaller rate. (See the bit about "underutilised labour": 4125.0 - Gender Indicators, Australia, Sep 2018. )
Why is that the question?
Because in order to reduce violence, we need to get at the root cause.
If the problem is being murdered...men face the bigger problem, by a lot. If you genuinely consider it a problem, we should focus on how to make it better for men.
I'm happy to do that. But I also want to note the particularly gendered problem of domestic violence, and work on that as well.
If you cared about equality, or equity, or outcomes....you should be far more concerned about the welfare of men. Again, feminism isn't needed by your nation or mine.
I'm going to go back to pointing out that patriarchy hurts everyone, and that dismantling patriarchy will benefit everyone, including men.

Right here in this thread we see men arguing very seriously that women should submit to their husbands. You want to read that and tell me with a straight face, we don't need feminism?
 
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Which says nothing. Because the equality is supposed to solve the problems of the society, not just be, while everything else (from health to safety) gets worse.
Again, we need to have a systemic approach, not just focus on one thing. "Is the society generally better off?" is the key question. Having 50:50 men:women management in companies is not saying they are feeling good or bad.
I appreciate that you don't think things are going as well as you'd like in some parts of the world. But could you give some specific examples of what you would like to see that would solve the problems? And I mean specific practical solutions.
 
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Right. Not because they want to but because they have to. The feminist way says women work and don't raise their kids because that's what they want. They prefer a career to being a mother.
I think the feminist way (and that term always strikes me these days as a little old fashioned) is more that those women who want to work have that opportunity. As well as helping to raise their children. My wife, my daughter and my daughter-in-law all had (and have) that opportunity. Some unfortunately don't. Some have it but don't want it. But it's good to have that choice.

And in regards to 'feminism', the three women I just mentioned are very strong willed indeed. And I'm certain that they would scoff at any suggestion that they were, or needed to be, feminists. I'm absolutely certain that they would ask me, in no uncertain terms, whether I was implying that they weren't equal to their partners in any way.
 
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Not sure what is your point. The actual number does not matter, the rate/trend matters.

And please stop talking like you are some kind of my teacher.

There is no evidence of a "trend". It is simply a random fluctuation in small numbers. I don't have any reason to think you understood that before you quoted the values. That's OK.
 
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2 party systems encourages polarization which is why it is so extreme in the US. If an issue has enough voters one side will take a position and the other side will take the opposite position and no one is left to take a balanced view.

They will less likely take a balanced approach so as not to confuse the issue, they care less about the issue and more about the votes and polarization helps keep this path clearer so are motivated to keep things polarized.

Many country's have a defacto 2 party system (Canada, Austraila, UK, etc...) but because other parties have a seat at the table these parties will be quick to call out the injustices of the leading parties. They stir the pot and force the leading parties to have more balanced views otherwise votes will be split up too much to these other parties. They may never win but they have enough influence to balance the system and prevent polarization.
Actually I think the political system in countries like Australia where we have preference voting can give minor parties a lot of say in what happens to the majority. Like for example how the Greens can preference Labor or Repulics in the US. They hold the balance of power and can hold the big parties to ransom with pushing their agenda. That way society is forced to take on radical ideas that most people don't agree with.
 
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No, I'm not talking about theocracy (a system in which those who claim to speak for God rule directly). I'm talking about the fact that the reign of God, as it comes to be expressed in human life, will of necessity change systems as well as individuals.
Yes but Gods reign expressed in human life is in conflict with the current secular system way of doing things, of achieving a equal and fair society. The philosophical basis is completely different, it rejects Gods law and Truth and replaces it with Humanism and Materialism.
It's both. People don't exist independently of the systems we structure and inhabit.
Yes they do if your a Christian. We are in this world but not of it. So we can exist within a system but not be part of it in belief. Give unto Ceasar what is Ceasars and to God what is Gods. But Christ was not saying that the secular system is the system of God. One was earthly and the other Gods Kingdom on earth. So individuals can exist independently of worldly systems and will express their belief in different ways to secularist.
If God could use Cyrus, then why can't God use contemporary thinkers and leaders, despite their unbelief?
Yes God can but I think these are stepping stones to a greater and different outcome than what secularist believe and today we can determine if an idea is in step God and Christian truths or not. Remembering that the Bible tells us that the beliefs and ideas of this world are basically opposed to God.
Every single one, about every single issue? I don't believe that. There are many real and pressing issues being addressed, and this is good.
If we are talking about the philosophical basis for how inequality and injustice are caused and the remedy to create a better society in that regard then yes most of what is the basis for law and policy is based on ideological assumptions and beliefs that have little scientific or rational basis. Just because we think inequality and other real issues as you say are being addressed doesn't mean they are being addressed.

Its how they are being addressed that is the important destinction. Whether the basis we use for this is actually going to achieve a better society. For example the left/progressive/liberal has a completely different philosophical basis than the Righttraditional/conservative. Fundementally Christians have a different basis than non Christians or atheists.
Only if it's really badly misunderstood.
See this I think is an example of the blinkered and narrow thinking inherent in ideologues thinking. Rather than acknowledge that it may at least be a bit of both, both the message missing its target audience and the recievers inability to understand the assumption is if anyone objects they must be badly misunderstaning things. There cannot possibly be any issue with the message of the ideologues because its Holy Writ and never wrong. They would not dare acknowledge that the percieved oppressors may be right in their feelings of being stigmatised or castigated.
But it doesn't tar anyone. Again, having privilege isn't some kind of wrong or accusation. I am privileged in a variety of ways; by being white, by having reasonably good health, by speaking the majority language of the country I live in, by being educated, by being employed, by having social capital, and so on. None of this is an accusation; it's a description of the ways in which I don't face the same disadvantages as someone else.
The idea of 'white priviledge' comes from Critical race Theory which is an unfounded and divisive idea. Just the word white attached to priviledge or fragility is racist because it attaches skin colour. It actually magnifies racial differences in attaching skin colour to issues. It creates an unreal lens of the world where everything is about race or gender or sex and the cause of all inequality and injustices. It generalizes certain right or wrong moral behaviours and dispositions to race (priviledge as opposed to disadvantage) rather than seeing the individual which is anti Western aned anti Christian.

For example that the dominant culture speaks the majority language is not white priviledge but rather the natural evolution that majority cultures will live by their own culture and that minorities who come in will not. There is nothing racist about this, its just a fact of life. If Westerners go to China they will be disadvantaged as far as language is concerned. The difference is we don't turn that into something racist. That is what ideologues do with just about all differences. Thats why I say its a narrow view of the worlde based on belief rather than fact or reality.


I don't find that to be an accurate description of the discourse.
That is the discourse. CRT and Social Justice Theory are Postmodernist ideas which primarily are about discourse, dismantling the existing percieved racist, sexist, gender normative discourse and replacing it with a new narrative based on the tenets of Critical theories. These ideas form the basis for much of academia, education, law and health policy and law. That is why we are having so much coinflict with words, meanings and language today.
Recognising that privilege (or disadvantage) might occur across multiple axes is exactly what intersectionality is.
Yes but taking that and then claiming that those differences in priviledge and disadvantage are caused by a systemic racist system is an assumption and belief. Those differences are not just because of systemic rasism.
Really? Coming from a rich family is a matter of hard work and merit? I don't think so!
See this is the narrow view I am talking about. That you choose by default to highlight inherited wealth rather than acknowledge that the majority of situations involves hard work ethic which is a basic principle of the West (you get what you put in) supports what I have been saying about these ideologies being based on assumptions and beliefs about how society and the world is. They undermine individuality and make people feel guilty for achievement.
Yeah, no.
Intersectionality is part of Critical Race and Social Justice Theory and forms the basis for Identity politics by breaking communities down to identity groups primarily by race, gender, ethnics and sex and other identities as independent and intersecting based on relations of powered/disempower and priviledge/disadvantage. That is all it was invented for.

The problem for many is that this is an unsupported subjective idea. It reduces all differences in equality down to power differences of individuals and systems and overlooks the many other factors that cause and influence these differences. In fact taking Intersectionality to its logical conclusion actually brings us back to Individuality because by the time we exhaust all the intersecting differences we have so many that it shows we cannot measure people by their intersecting differences.

The question is why do ideologues highlight and place much greater importance on certain intersecting differences like race, ethnics, sex and gender and not others. Because if they do it will undermine the assumption that all differences are based on oppression. Intersectionality is Identity politics.

But it's the attitude and ideology being labelled as "toxic," not people. I don't know why this very basic point seems to keep being lost.
Its a bit like religion and how Christianity says its the sin and not the sinner. Except this can be easily manipulated which activists usually do in radicalizing things. Though I think the basic idea of dividing society into identity groups for analysis of oppressor and oppressed is deivisive and antagonistic and can naturally lead to people going on the defence.
Again, that's misrepresenting the discourse.
I disagree. If you look at the language today in academia, what narrative ideologues use and policy unpinning our Institutions CRT and Social Justice theory are prominent.
No. No, it doesn't. That's just flat-out wrong.
Tell that to men. It seems that the Critical Postmodernist view of the world and reality is personal and group experiences and story telling as truth in the world. We have to take seriously the expressed narratives of minority idenity groups as truth and real. Yet when the so called oppressors express their lived experience its not believed and is dismissed as whinging. We can see the effect it has had on males by the high rates of poor self worth, confused identity and suicide.

This is part of the ideology that feeds into moralising or what we call Wokism today. That somehow minority lived experiences are Holy and pure and never wrong and Whites and espcially males are somehow less valuable.

No, again this is a misunderstanding. It's not talking about normal or healthy masculinity; it's talking about distorted ideologies of masculinity which are harmful for men, and harmful to society.
I think this is an unreal take on what is actually happening in society. Its a very blurring line that is being pushed. No one says "hey I want to clarify that we are not talking about normal or healthy muscullinity but rather a distorted belief". No the narrative is 'Toxic Masscullinity' fullstop. It leaves open interpretation. Thats because implicitly that is what is meant that men are toxic espcially among the radeical feminist who happen to deeictate the narrative because they shout the loudest.
It's ironic that you're talking about the need for a "bit of education" when you're making completely and obviously false statements about something as basic as the concept of toxic masculinity.
But education aned Praix are different. What may be a ideal in practice becomes asomething else. That seems to be the common theme of these ideas like CRT and SJT. This is evdienced in that instead of achieving some DEI Utopia society has become progressively more polarized aned deivided over identity politics now where race, gender and sex is emphasied more than ever rather than individuality or common identity.
 
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I think you've missed the part that we live in a new age, one where men are the main, unrepentant culprits. Let's stop blaming the women for having fallen through the moral cracks in the foundations of society that men like Hugh Hefners caused by detonating their enlightened immorality into those foundations...
I don't think that's true at all. Hefner couldn't have done it without the women being willing to sell their body's. Let's not hold women up as some sort queens of virtue. They are just as fallen as men, only in different ways.

Both sexes have fallen and always were. Eve was the first. Adam the second. I'm not making any claim that women are worse. When it comes to unbelievers all are lost. Men are not more lost than women or vice versa. When it comes to Christian men and women I wouldn't hold either sex up as the more virtuous either. Both fail, just in different ways.

I do agree with you on the divorce thing. Jesus himself allowed for divorce in the basis of sexual immorality.
 
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