This is why I focus on Christ.and his word and not dogma,.ritual and the like. If we focus on the processes rather than the humanity people exude we will miss what really makes someone a Christian.
I'm going through a lot right now. I still try to be a good human being, a good Christian. Imagine if someone dissects how often I attend church or other such matters rather than the actions of following Jesus and his teachings?
We need to care for one another, show empathy, forgive, help if we can...NOT judge. That is where we lose our humanity in my opinion and with it our purpose.
There is a tendency in us, I agree, to focus on one aspect of reality and lessen the importance of others. My personal history has proven to me that that is a reaction and not the solution. The Truth of reality has so many "parts" and manifestations that we can be left dizzy by the complexities of life! But "the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth" - a "requirement" that used to be affirmed in the courtrooms of America - is the requirement for human happiness and completion. We need to find our unity, our union, our coherence and living part in, the whole Truth of Reality: God.
That's a long way of saying, I believe we need the whole of Christ and His Holy Spirit. They/He created on earth a New Creation among and in humanity, a Holy Church having Christ as Head and the Spirit as Life of His Body. This Living Reality worships, listens, follows, is nurtured, grows, matures, dwells in Him who is Life. All that includes and needs to include dogma and ritual, as well as vital discipleship under Christ and His Spirit. The problem is, discerning properly and finding and embracing and living Him - in the midst of today's
contradictions to Him! And the hypocrisies, the deceptions, the carnality, the sins around and within us.
Yet, He leads, He solves, He offers, He remains.