You sure seem to be an offensive type...um, I mean on the offensive...or defensive, or whatever-too much of it in any case. Realize means realize, it's not vague.
"Realize" is ambivalent. It can imply causation, or it can imply "we find out". Don't pretend otherwise. Yes, I am a rather on the offensive. I don't like God's plans being discredited. Our very lives are his to do with as he pleases. Our eternal destiny was decided before we were born. This does not negate the reponsibility of our choice. It only negates our being credited for our own salvation. THAT is GOD's doing, like I said, actually, from the foundation of the world. You want God to have made a pool of possibles, from which only those worthy ones who somehow choose him though dead in sin, and at enmity with him, were somehow able to do something on their own in the matter. Like you yourself quote below, "Apart from me, you can do nothing!" Is that an absolute statement, or not?
Faith brings us into a state of justice:
united with God. Righteousness is intrinsic to that relationship, authentic righteousness, the real thing finally, that which man was made for. "Apart from Me you can do nothing."-
John 15:5. But we must remain in Him; that grace is still resistible; man can still walk away. And to sin persistently in obviously grevious and grave manner constitutes walking away from God.
Salvation can be looked at as boarding an ark, the “Ark of Salvation” it could be called. Once on board we join the rest of God’s family, as a new member. The cost of admission is faith. This faith is a gift, of grace; it’s God reaching down to us in the water to pull us up; we have no way to do this on our own, apart from Him. But we can say “no”; we can refuse to be saved. Grace is resistible.
HOW in any possible scenario can anyone at enmity with God, unable to submit or to please God, dead in their sins, be able to somehow do anything to the contrary?
Of course we can refuse to be saved. And yes, God's incredible forebearance and even his —what is it you guys call it— "prevenient grace?" can be resisted. In fact, we can even try to resist his saving grace, but if he "installs" his Spirit within us, it is not by our permission. Our new birth is no more our choice than our first birth into flesh. Do we choose? —most certainly we do. But only when he has enabled us by "re-making" us. IN HIM.
Why must we insist on Self-Determination??
But if we say “yes”, if we turn to Him and grab hold, acknowledging our need for Him, then He lifts us up, placing us on board. We are saved. But we can still always jump ship. We can turn back away from Him.
He has already placed us on board. He made the ark. Did Noah build it? Of course! Why? Because GOD chose him. Did Noah climb on board? Of course. WHY?? HOW?? You want it to be part God and part Noah. Did Noah 'cooperate'? Or did Noah do what God did to him? If Noah had not, he would not have been saved. Agreed. But Noah DID —was that not predestined? Did not God do to Noah what God had planned all along? "Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord". Does that mean that Noah did anything of himself, or does it mean that GOD had grace on Noah? Did Noah earn something???
Yes, Noah stepped up. WHY??? What was the difference between Noah and the rest of humanity? He himself, or God?
WHY? for crying out loud, would we jump ship?
Why must you insist on self-determination? It seems very odd to me.
Our choices are only valid by God's doing. We have no ability, apart from him.