Single lady a little too into herself?

[ThisIsMe123]

Saw this woman join a local Christian singles Facebook group, and from looking at her profile...it consist on her being some kind of motivation speaker....and showing off her weight loss journey, which is great, taking before and after photos of herself. But I can't help but to think there's a little bit of...a little too self-absorbed, even though she think she's being inspiring.

Not that I am trying to judge, but I saw a recent post where she was bragging (or is it bragging?) about how men buy her meals/drinks (pick up her tab and chat with her)....but, some stand-out experience where she said her server approached her and said her bill was already paid for buy a guy who left.

The server told her that he didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable by approaching her, so he relayed a message to her that, "He admired her beauty from afar"

I have to say, I visualized myself sticking my finger down my throat and going "Gaaaag!" (You know, the ol gag me with a spoon reaction)

Think this would be a single lady you'd like to get to know, or judging by her Facebook profile, a little to self-absorbed to really be into another man.

 

[Sketcher]

Saw this woman join a local Christian singles Facebook group, and from looking at her profile...it consist on her being some kind of motivation speaker....and showing off her weight loss journey, which is great, taking before and after photos of herself. But I can't help but to think there's a little bit of...a little too self-absorbed, even though she think she's being inspiring.

Not that I am trying to judge, but I saw a recent post where she was bragging (or is it bragging?) about how men buy her meals/drinks (pick up her tab and chat with her)....but, some stand-out experience where she said her server approached her and said her bill was already paid for buy a guy who left.

The server told her that he didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable by approaching her, so he relayed a message to her that, "He admired her beauty from afar"

I have to say, I visualized myself sticking my finger down my throat and going "Gaaaag!" (You know, the ol gag me with a spoon reaction)

Think this would be a single lady you'd like to get to know, or judging by her Facebook profile, a little to self-absorbed to really be into another man.

To be generous, it sounds like she's putting her motivational speaker hustle before everything else, and if she wants to specialize in the weight loss journey, "you too can lose enough weight for men to think you're pretty" message, it makes sense. But that doesn't mean that she's ready for a relationship, that she can de-throne herself for the good of the man in her life, or for the good of any kids she might have. She lost weight, she can present herself attractively, she can write, and I'm guessing she can do public speaking. That's not close to enough to be a good wife.

 

[LonelyAdams]

I'm not a fan of huge social media persona's. its a huge red flag for me. Its fine to post stuff online and have a presence on that stuff (and for a lot of types of work you really need to be if we are being honest). But that doesn't sound like a healthy level.

 

[ThisIsMe123]

To be generous, it sounds like she's putting her motivational speaker hustle before everything else..

Yeah, it looks like she has a good amount of followers. Apparently, she appears on not-so-well known pod casts and such. She's a mental therapist.

 

[Juan777]

Not that I am trying to judge, but I saw a recent post where she was bragging (or is it bragging?) about how men buy her meals/drinks (pick up her tab and chat with her)....but, some stand-out experience where she said her server approached her and said her bill was already paid for buy a guy who left.

The server told her that he didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable by approaching her, so he relayed a message to her that, "He admired her beauty from afar"

This guy deserves the grand SIMP OF THE YEAR award. You can't blame women if power gets to their heads because guys keep simping after them, etc.... It's the modern age, everyone is tainted by this.[/QUOTE]

 

[ThisIsMe123]

This guy deserves the grand SIMP OF THE YEAR award. You can't blame women if power gets to their heads because guys keep simping after them, etc.... It's the modern age, everyone is tainted by this.

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I figured simps only happened online, not in person. lol

 

[Juan777]

I figured simps only happened online, not in person. lol[/QUOTE]

The term has evolved to anyone who spends money on a woman like that. It spoils the women and ruins it for other guys.

 

[Sketcher]

This guy deserves the grand SIMP OF THE YEAR award. You can't blame women if power gets to their heads because guys keep simping after them, etc.... It's the modern age, everyone is tainted by this.

Women aren't animals, so I blame them anyway. And the guy who did that is a simp and a chump.

 

[ThisIsMe123]

Women aren't animals, so I blame them anyway. And the guy who did that is a simp and a chump.

It wouldn't surpise me if he was a married man, that's why he ducked out without her ever having seen him.