Personally, I am opposed to abortion and tolerant of restrictions on it--after all, there are already restrictions that pro-choicers are comfortable with, especially pro-choicers like me who oppose abortion. And I realize that many pro-lifers sincerely believe that abortion always murders a baby, even when it is a zygote. I don't understand that point of view, but I respect that it is held sincerely. But yes, I find your indifference to the possible death of women from ectopic pregnancies profoundly immoral. The laws which allow it could easily be changed without increasing fetal death due to abortion (in an ectopic pregnancy the fetus dies anyway) but you just hand-wave the issue away, "I'm sure the obvious will be concluded that they are two entirely different things."
I suppose we will have to wait and see, but if it happens too often or too blatantly the the pro-life movement will indeed be revealed as immoral.