Most trads like me don't agree that the Novus Ordo is invalid. The issue I/we have is that there is too much flexibility in it's rubrics that allow for abuse and irreverence to be inserted into the fabric of the Mass itself. The Latin Mass had no such flexibility which was inherently a safeguard: this is how you celebrate it and there's no way to deviate from it, therefore there's no way to commit sacrilege or be otherwise irreverent towards our Lord.
I can see that, because there things that I don't like about the Novus Ordo (Priest telling jokes, people applauding at certain points) but it's the only mass I know and is the one that I associate with happier times in my life such as my first holy communion, confirmation, and before the world corrupted me and turned me into a turd. I just went to mass this morning and had a really good experience, decided to sit in the section of the parish where you get communion on the tongue by kneeling (completely unaware of this until it happened, so that was a first for me).
Again, I've never been to a Latin mass. I want to go to one just to see, but I wouldn't make it a regular thing because I wouldn't be able to actively participate in it as I'd have to follow from a missal the whole time. I'm not against the Latin mass, I'm just against the people who convert in their late 20s or early 30s and then boast about attending Latin mass because it helps them to create an identity that fits with their extremely far right politics. If people want to go to Latin mass, I have no problem with it and I wish I could go to one sometime just to see the difference. My problem is when people use it as a means to build a secular political identity, which has been a trend now since around the start of the Trump presidency (and I'm not a liberal guy as we all know). There are people out there who convert and then think that they are somehow "better" or know "more" about Catholicism than those of us who were born into the faith, these are the people who are the most obsessed with the Latin mass and they try to force their way into parishes that have existed long before them and turn them into political projects rather than strengthening the faith of the parish. A parish shouldn't be a political project for right wing organizers seeking voters. I'm sorry, but the church needs to remain separate from secular political organizing in order to keep it's soul otherwise you're going to end up with more and more Nancy Pelosis and Joe Bidens both on the right and the left.
I actually go to a Novus Ordo weekly, I only get to attend a TLM on first and third Fridays because that's all that's available to me in my diocese AFAIK. But now I'm wondering if even that will be challenged, I don't know what my bishops position on the TLM is. I know others like
@chevyontheriver agree with me that the Novus Ordo can be executed well, it's just that in most practical cases - at least half the time - it isn't.
And again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I'd love to be able to go to a Latin mass sometime, but my problem is with a very specific current of people around my own age who convert and then tell Cradle Catholics (me) that "You've never been to a valid Mass in your life. I'm so holy and pious!" and they don't know
why they believe church teaching, they just accept it because "the church says so". It comes off as very shallow and motivated more by secular sociopolitical concerns than an actual love for the church, which again, even when I was in the darkest points of my life, I would vociferously defend the Catholic church to friends and acquaintances (and I wasn't even going to mass during these times).
Like this weekend, I might make the drive down to North Fort Myers to attend a small Byzantine Catholic Church out in the woods because it would be a new experience and I'm currently "on a quest" to be more authentic with my faith and get more out of it. Unfortunately, the Cathedral that is actually closer than the Byzantine church does not even offer an extraordinary mass or I'd check it out. I just feel like it's better for evangelization purposes for the Novus Ordo to be the dominant form of the mass because people can follow what's going on. It would be a lot harder to invite someone to mass if it wasn't in English (or Spanish, Haitian Creole, etc) and I think that's why Pope Francis has made this decision: the church is absolutely bleeding believers because of the sexual molestation crisis and the increasingly anti-christian culture, so they want the mass to be as accessible to communities as possible without trading in certain important doctrinal factors (ordination of men only, marriage=1 man & 1 woman, real presence of Christ in the Eucharist, etc)
I see where he's coming from and I think it was wise to leave it up to the Bishops but also to make the Bishops have to justify to Rome why they want to offer extraordinary form masses.