Please don't take this as an attack on you. This is just my perception, my experience, of you on this forum.
No worries.
I can't remember you starting a thread or having much involvement in threads which aren't about propping up whites and/or putting down blacks.
You would only need to go as far back as 2016 to see me rebutting ideas like "Hillary is going to start a war with Syria!"....or maybe it was Iran.
Now, there was also discussion of race but it tended to be pointing out the increasingly hate-filled and hostile rhetoric that was increasingly becoming common.
The people who mocked such things as being of no consequence...were the same people who would act outraged at even the mere possibility that someone had acted racist towards a minority. The blatant hypocrisy of this was difficult to reconcile for me. Did these people actually care about racism or not?
I only recall one openly admitting he didn't care about racism toward whites at all. I appreciated the honesty even if I found the attitude disgusting.
The last thread I noticed you created before this one was you gloating about the leader of BLM getting into trouble.
Yeah.
I often also find you generalising grossly about the left as if all people that don't support Trump or the Republican party are liberal lefitist socialists.
I try not to generalize and I'm sorry if it comes off that way.
I don't find your generalisations to be particularly insightful or accurate. They are insanely combative and come across as extremely arrogant.
Could you possibly provide an example?
In trying to discuss institutionalised racism with you, I found you to be unwilling to listen, unwilling to try to understand nuances and unwilling to appreciate how difficult it is, given the history of blacks in USA for them as an overall society to get onto the success ladder, but instead I have found you to be very quick to comeback with what I find to be oversimplified retorts.
I can understand that.
For my part, the people who begin those discussions don't seem to actually want to engage in discussion. They want to preach, or lay blame, or otherwise demonize a segment of the population. They appear to be unwilling to consider any other possibilities...other than the one that happens to align directly with the narrative put forth by the political left. They appear so unwilling to engage in serious dialogue that any attempts to do so simply result in them calling someone racist.
Which, ironically, is a word they continually redefine.
I was hoping that by making this thread I could gain some insight into something I might be missing....and I'm still hoping it will.
Much like I would expect a teenager who has a strong sense of wrong and right, being very stubborn with their black and white thinking.
Well again, for my part, I'm willing to consider any explanations, definitions, or narratives that are coherent. I don't feel any shame for the way I see things because I know I'm not racist.
If it's any consolation for you, I can promise you that because of the way I see racism...the only way I think it's correct to interact with someone is the same way I would interact with anyone of any race. It truly doesn't matter to me. So when I chastise or criticize or lay into anyany of a minority race, I would do the same to someone white.
The rise in anti-white racism and it's normalization means there's usually a dozen posters doing it already. I try to point out the racists they ignore or overlook.
When I saw this thread title, and having been started by you, I thought, oh no, here we go again, yet another thread based on racism, probably focused on White rights or to whinge about how poorly whites are being treated, and most likely blaming the left all about this.
I get that.
Well, the first half of your OP was actually looking quite good. But then the second half met all my preconceived expectations.
Would you think the same if I were black and there was a daily stream of blatantly racist writers and content producers saying racist things about black people?
I strongly disagree with your ideas about what systematic racism is, and what you believe to be the cause for any uprise in White power groups.
Ok. I would guess that you think it's got something to do with Trump?
If he died tomorrow....would the rise in white supremacists slow or reverse?
What I would like, would be for you to stop generalising about the left as if all people who support either social liberalism or financial liberalism or social safety nets are the same.
I'm actually strongly in favor of improving social safety nets...but I don't see the left talk about that anymore. Now it seems to propose ideas like political indoctrination of children (which I argued against when the right wanted to teach creationism) and racial discrimination, which the left used to see as monstrously unjust.
It's been a disappointment for a former liberal. I don't even label myself anymore because so rarely does anyone say anything I think. I naively thought we all shared values....but it appears I was wrong. It's hard to understand why, but it seems like it's related to the demographic shift the Democratic party always anticipated hoped would seal their hold on the government...but embracing identity politics requires abandoning principles and values.
I would also like for you to be more inquisitive about what other people think. I don't think you have learned to listen. I think you have a very poor understanding of your opponents side of this topic. And I feel that you want to fight rather than discuss. That you just want to tell your opponents that they are wrong and not based on fact, that you are right and are factual. I do not find it a very endearing trait and it makes it very hard to have an engaging and respectful conversation with you.
I've noticed.
Anyway, maybe I'll get a warning for posting about YOU rather than the topic, IDK but probably.
I would like to have a decent conversation with you on this topic though, but I find it hard because I don't feel that you listen so i'm trying to point out what makes it hard for me to talk to you about this topic. If we get over that hurdle then it would be possible to have a conversation. One where we listen to each other rather than trying to win an argument.
I'd like that too. I opened myself up to criticism here. I'm not reporting anyone and I'd like if no one else did either.
I understand the way I come off. Allow me a little bit of introspection.
I decided god didn't exist at 10 or 11. A neighborhood friend came over to play basketball with me and began preaching of heaven and hell, my eternal soul, and forgiveness for my sins. Ideas I was barely exposed to...I had never been to church despite both parents believing. I was curious, I asked questions, he didn't have answers. When it became apparent to me that he did not know why he believed what he believed...I felt a range of emotions from pity, to disdain, and then perhaps shock. I turned the idea over and over in my head for a few weeks until I concluded he only believed because it was the story he was told by those he loved and trusted....those like himself. It seemed something monstrously wrong was done to him. I rejected his ideas, and decided that I didn't want it to happen to me.
It's a pretty formative moment for me I've realized. It forced me to search hard and consider hard any possibilities I can imagine regardless of their taboo nature or extreme fringe labels. I called myself a liberal a long time, though more centrist because I genuinely agreed with both sides on different topics. Some topics I found no agreement with anyone. They are to my knowledge, my beliefs alone.
Since the embracing of identity politics, the intellectual diversity of the left is disappearing in my view and there's no room for the likes of me. It's not something I'm unused to. I don't feel any shame in representing myself honestly, but I do feel embarrassed if I offer platitudes simply to avoid confrontation. Every sincere discussion of my beliefs has involved confrontation and it doesn't bother me at all anymore.
I'd rather you hate me for who I am than pretend to be a person you like. Such a thing feels like its disrespectful to you...and it cheapens my image of myself. Without any worldview, philosophy, religion, or political agenda that describes me well...I have realized my thoughts are uncomfortable for many people.
This is an attempt to consider wherein my faults in thinking lie...at least in regards to one set of beliefs.