Excellent question, and the problem is in the English language. The word Jealous has 2 main meanings:
#1 Feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages / hostile toward a rival or one believed to enjoy an advantage :
ENVIOUS.
#2 Fiercely protective or vigilant of one's rights or possessions / intolerant of rivalry or unfaithfulness.
In 1Co 13:4-7 the word translated 'jealous' is Gr 'zeloo' which has meaning #1.
In Exo 20:4-6 the word translated 'jealous' in Gr 'zelotes' in the LXX and it has meaning #2.
God should know better. An omniscient being would know that these days people don't read Aramenian and Greek and should have written the Bible (i.s.o. having it written and assembled by humans) in languages people can read today. That would avoid people being confused.
Or maybe God just doesn't care.
What is the point in saying that love is not envious ? Was/Is there any reason to believe that love or God is envious ?
Also, that fiercely protecitive jealousy is not entirely compatible with love. Love is not jealous, contrary to what the Bible suggests.
Because God has no true rivals that are equal to Him.
Jealousy is only bad when there are other equivalent beings around. If there are no other true gods, then Yahweh has every right to be jealous.
Jealousy is misguided if there are no equivalent beings. Probably the biblical authors thought these rival gods were real competition. God should have corrected them. Or maybe he just didn't care.
... I think that what Paul was implying in
1 Corinthians 13:4 is that we shouldn't have the kind of jealousy that comes from wanting something that isn't rightfully ours to begin with ...
In God's case, He has the RIGHT to begin with, just as our wives have the RIGHT to expect us, their husbands, to focus on them and not on "other women."
Paul failed to grasp the nature of the disagreement. It is not about what one should do with what is rightfully ours, but it is about what qualifies as rightfully ours.
What RIGHT that God allegedly has to begin with are you talking about ? The right to be worshipped ? I understand that is God's personal opinion and consequently the personal opinion of his fans, but it is not a fact.
God is perfectly righteous and good. Any of His characteristics will fit this reality.
God is righteous and good according to himself. So were Adolf Hitler, Josef Stalin and Pol Pot.
com7fy8 25 to Clizby WampusCat said:
Yes, God can destroy ones so their evil does not continue . . . including so they do not ruin themselves much worse.
That is indeed compatible with jealousy, especially without the biased appeal to motive. The Bible does indeed depict a god with many character flaws, including jealousy, but it does not describe a loving god.
2PhiloVoid said:
So, if we're going to spend time evaluating Paul's theological and moral thinking in 1 Corinthians, then we'd need to take a whole lot of things about Paul and his mind into account for us to understand what he had to tell the Corinthians about the nature of "Christian" Love.
Indeed. Writing holy scriptures that people could understand without doing all that would lack creating opportunities for confusion. God probably knew that.
Paulomycin 34 said:
The law of non-contradiction is that 'A' cannot equal 'non-A' in the same place or relationship.
Love is not jealous.
God's love is particular to the elect.
God's jealousy is towards the reprobate.
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The question is not whether it is possible to make a few claims about God that are consistent. Like for Santa Claus, that is indeed possible. However, that does not imply other claims made about God (in the Bible for example) should be taken seriously.
God is love. And God is a jealous God, meaning He protects His own and does not tolerate disloyalty/unfaithfulness or rivalry.
Love is not jealous, meaning envious.
Two different meanings. Two different contexts.
It's good to be jealous in good things always.
Seems pretty simple. Inerrancy remains intact. Operator error - the Book is fine.
If your exegesis is correct, then the flaw is not in the orinal text, but in the English translation, which makes the Bible outdated.
An original error still remains : the Bible claims that love is intolerant of unfaithfulness or rivalry, which is false. (Daniel Marsh emphasized that in post 36.)
2PhiloVoid 41 said:
Clizby WampusCat said:
So you neglected to tell me why the 1 Cor passage and the Exodus passage are different. What is the definition of Jealous as used in
Exodus 20:5 and the definition as used in 1 Cor 13:4?
I already hinted at this earlier. "Godly jealousy" is an emotional upset a person, or God, experiences when something that belongs to her, or Him, is unrightfully misplaced and/or neglected.
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"Carnal jealousy," on the other hand, which Paul is referring to in
1 Corinthians 13:4, is the desire and envy that comes with wanting something that is "not yours and not due you"; it's more like "gross envy."
Jealousy does not depend on the actual state of affairs, but on beliefs, feelings and opinions. One may thus experience jealousy for something that one has no rights over.
However, you call the jealousy that is actually justified 'godly' jealousy and misplaced jealousy carnal jealousy.
So, according to you Paul was missing the point. The disagreement was not on whether carnal jealousy is justified – by definition it is not – or whether 'godly' jealousy is justified – by defintion it is –, but whether particlar jealousies are carnal or 'godly'.
Paul merely shared his disapproval of the jealousy of the Corinthians, oblivious to the fact that this would later generate apparent contradictions in the Bible.
2PhiloVoid 45 to Clizby WampusCat said:
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The point being made here [
Exodus 20:5] is that God is stating that He is against idolatrous cultures and forms of worship. So, when it says that He visits the iniquity upon the subsequent generations, we need to notice that the qualifier is "of those who hate Me."[2] The implication here, and the historical context being that, it was typical during the time in which these commandments were written for people to live and be raised within
static societies. So, in that context, we could say that if a father lives in a non-Israelite culture and hates the Jewish God, that father's children
will also hate that god too.[ In other words, there is nothing redeemable in the society that will halt the social transfer of idolaty; the father sins and leaves a legacy for his children in which the children will surely follow. This kind of thing is alluded to by Jesus when He dealt with the Pharisees. See
Matthew 23:28-36.
[2] The author portrays God as someone who simplistically categorizes people in those who love God and those who hate him, where presumably everyone who does not love (meaning worship) him is considered to hate him.
[3] It is worth mentioning that is the fault of the father nor of the children.
2PhiloVoid 45 said:
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So, what do we make of this in our now pluralistic, democratically demanding societies? What we make of it is that in the Old Testament, the Commandments were a set of directive given by God, originally given to the Jewish people to show them that it is imperative for them to 'keep the faith' and not fall into idolatry, because faithlessness of that sort does not just affect one's self, but has repercussions for one's posterity and society. [ . . . ]
How is that supposed to follow ? Lack of faith in the Buddha also has consequences for posterity and society. Yet that does not imply one should 'keep the faith'.
In an age where we routinely change the definitions of words (gay sex means 'love', free speech means hate speech, marriage means whatever you want it to mean, biological gender means "I haven't decided yet") ...apparently the bible is the only book that isn't allowed to contain metaphors, allusions, contranyms, analogies, contextual intention...
If we evaluate the Bible for what it is, a collection of ancient, copied, translated books written by different authors at different eras, then few skeptics would complain about contradictions. However, some people pretend the Bible is more than that. The Bible's criticism may be unwarrented, but neither is its praize.
Lion IRC 54 said:
@Clizby WampusCat FWIW this alleged contradiction can be easily harmonized so long as you can get your head around a two-word concept commonly referred to as
"tough love".
God does many, many things which fall into this category. And the unloving, distrustful jealousy which Paul rightly admonishes in the context of marriage, is not identical with, or comparable to, the real, truthful love of a God who loves us so much that He doesn't want us to flirt with false gods like Mammon (money) Aphrodite (lust) Mars (power/war).[4]
Let me ask you this. If I was absolutely and totally ambivalent to whether or not my wife was having an adulterous affair, would that me an indication of how much - how little - I loved her? Isnt it true that if God didn't love us, He wouldn't care about our fidelity nor our 'adulterous' behaviour?[5]
[4] They seem very similar. The main difference is your bias.
[5] Your analogy appears false. You assume without justification that the relationship human – God is like a relationship wife – husband.
Lion IRC 57 Clizby WampusCat said:
I ask again, don't you agree that if God didn't care about our infidelity, wouldnt that be in indication of whether - how little - He loves us?
Indeed. Many behaviours are consistent with not loving. You provided another example.
GDL 62 said:
Kylie 61 to com7fy8 said:
I dunno, seems to me that God saying, "How could you worship other gods, I should be all the God you need and you should be satisfied with worshipping me! I'm going to punish you for worshipping other gods!" isn't much different than a husband saying, "How could you love other men, I should be all the man you need and you should be satisfied with loving me! I'm going to punish you for loving other men!"
And in God's place, the punishment is to let you go your own way and experience life outside His blessings and protection from the evils she's going to be attacked with. This is something these discussions don't usually get into - His punishment includes just letting us go our own way and letting the world have at us - since this is what we think we want.
Indeed. That is what happens in the real world, God not doing anything, which is in stark contrast with what is described in the Bible, God punishing people.
2PhiloVoid 64 to Clizby WampusCat said:
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And for you to define justice isn't to establish anything specific but rather to simply express what you think you'd like for it to be within utterly human bounds, and without a God looking over our shoulders about it. So, this whole thing about "justice" --being whatever justice is--- is contingent upon whether there is a biblical God or not. [ . . . ]
Justice does not require a god, unless one defines it contingent on a god, which is what Christians implicitely do.
2PhiloVoid 65 said:
Bradskii said:
Didn't he threaten the children and the children's children for the sins of the father?
No, He didn't threaten. In the biblical narratives, we read that God has at times actually killed (executed) entire families for the sins of one member. Of course, on the other hand, we also find God forgiving entire families and providing salvation paths for ... entire families. So, it goes both ways.
This is how the notion of "Covenant" is different that the simple idea of a Modern Social Contract.
God also blamed entire families.
God providing salvation paths ? That is contingent on the unproven assumption that some people live happy afterlives.
Lion IRC said:
Capital punishment clearly deals a devastating blow, creating widows and orphans. Incarceration deprives many families of their sole bread winner. The legacy of a criminal record is an
albatross around the neck of more people than just the convict.
What is the secular rebuttal and justification for this modern version of
visiting the sins of the father on the sons? Its much the same as the theological apologetic rationalization.
This is my rebuttal : Do you have a better alternative ? If so, then go present it in parliament and get it passed.
2PhiloVoid 74 said:
Kylie 61 said:
I dunno, seems to me that God saying, "How could you worship other gods, I should be all the God you need and you should be satisfied with worshipping me! I'm going to punish you for worshipping other gods!" isn't much different than a husband saying, "How could you love other men, I should be all the man you need and you should be satisfied with loving me! I'm going to punish you for loving other men!"
... well, what kind of spouse actually then goes ahead and beds down with 40 other lovers ... and then has the gall to act surprised that the faithful spouse is jealous?
Should the faithful spouse put up with that? I think not.
Is God faithfull ? How many 'spouses' does he have ?
com7fy8 87 to Kylie said:
He is jealous for our good . . . not merely being possessive like abusive partners can be, for using someone.[6] Love does not have us just using anyone . . . if we are all-loving the way Jesus wants. There are people who are about using people, and they pick their gods accordingly.
[6] What evidence can you present to support that claim ?
Ok, It is still wrong to punish people that did not perform a crime.
Punishing innocents for crimes may dissuade crimical behaviour, like punihing the colleagues of employees who violated China's one child policy.
In case of the punishment dished out by God there appears to be no justification though.
2PhiloVoid 102 to Clizby WampusCat said:
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that children being punished for their parents sin wasn't a very typical thing to happen in ancient Israel. No, if we find entire families being punished by God in these ancient narratives of the O.T., there's probably something more to it all than what a plain jane reading of but a few verses within it can indicate to us (as in Achan's case).
That is probably your bias shining through. You personally disapprove of group punishment and yet that is what God appears to be doing. So he must not have been doing it a lot and when he did, he must have had a good excuse.
disciple Clint said:
OK maybe I can provide some for you. which of this do you need evidence, that God is all good...
Who's definition of good are you using?
Christians don't provide clear, unambiguous definitions for moral concepts, but what they usually mean with good is 'good according to God's personal moral standard'.
Paulomycin 129 said:
Bradskii said:
That was 'to step outside' and consult an objective morality (which is assuming that which we need to discover - but we'll let that slide).
You can't discover anything if you don't want to.
You are mistaken. I am confident that even you have made discoveries you did not want to make.
Clizby WampusCat 141 said:
disciple Clint said:
OK then simply ask "what are the characteristics of God". I do not think you can get in trouble by asking that question.
No. I was told questioning gods goodness was not allowed.
You can't blame them. Suppose on a Nazi forum some dude came question Adolf Hitler's goodness. I would expect them to be angry.
Mark Quayle 144 to Bradskii said:
Even if they quote the same passage of Scripture, there is always some difference to their uses of the passage. That doesn't make Scripture subjective --just their use of it. Same with morality.
No. The use of something and the evaluation/qualification of something are two different things.
com7fy8 146 said:
Kylie said:
I thought jealousy was a sin.
It can be.
Maybe it is like how being sorry can be good or a sin.
If I am sorry I got caught, it's a sin.
If I am sorry I did something wrong and I change and do not do it, that's better.
So, in the case of God being jealous . . . He is caring about the good of ones He is jealous about.[7]
But an abusive boyfriend can be jealous in a way of merely wanting to use and possess his girlfriend, maybe.
[7] I am confident that is what the propaganda teaches, but is he really ? Maybe he is like an abusive god who dishes out punishment even to third parties when he does not get the attention he craves.