I am LCMS.
Agreed, and I said that. The belief I was trying to dispel is that one is not forgiven unless forgiven by an ordained minister. It is a common misconception held by many of my Catholic (and Lutheran) friends.
No, rather it is less formal language than what you used. While I appreciate the care Lutherans have taken to make sure their language is precise, the lengthy nature of it loses more people than maybe you realize. Just about 2 Sundays ago I was shocked, saddened, and flattered all at the same time. Our adult Sunday School has multiple tables, and people tend to sit at the same table every week. After services I told the people at my typical Sunday School table I wouldn't be able to attend. Every single one of them decided they wouldn't either. When I asked why, they said they were too dumb to understand what was going on and they needed a smart person at their table.
Yep. I never disagreed with that.
I have a great respect for all pastors, and admire the sacrifice they take on when agreeing to dedicate their life to Christ. It is a huge, intimidating job. Further, I have encouraged
@Hope1960 to be speaking with her pastor about these topics. That is always my first recommendation - it is always where one should start. But personal experience has taught me that what you say is not always true. Suffice to say pastors are human just like you and I, and sometimes people must seek other avenues. I don't want people thinking the pastor is always right and there is no alternative. No
ex cathedra here.