I think That your sister was wrong. Her words were bad.October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
Your sister is an idiot. The will of God is for children to be born. My wife is barren, but I do not think God punished us nor that it was his will for us to not have children. This is part and parcel of living in a fallen world. After getting past the crisis of knowing we could not have children, we pressed in closer as husband and wife because our marriage is the family, and children are the fruit of that family. Not having kids did not change our being a family still.October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
I don't think God would do that to you for taking fertility drugs. If God was punishing you, it would have been for something worse than that. But I don't know whether or not he was punishing you.October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
Never and that is a cruel thing to say to anyone and shame on anyone who says it.October 15. is the day for remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death which includes, miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS or the death of a newborn.
I was thinking about the only baby that I lost in miscarriage back in 2000. I still think about him/her.
My husband and I had endured long-term infertility and it had taken us two years to conceive this baby we had lost. We saw a fertility Endocrinologist who gave me some fertility drugs to help me conceive.
When I lost the baby, my older sister told me that God was punishing me for not trusting him and using fertility drugs. But they only helped me ovulate.
She never apologised to me and it does hurt me somewhat that she took this view.
We never had any living children and my marriage ended last year when my husband left me. She also was holding me accountable for my husband's actions.
We did pray and did trust God in our fertility journey but I don't think we lost our baby because God was punishing us.
What do you think?
unexplained.Of course that’s not why you lost your baby. What did the doctor say was the reason?
Thank you. Years earlier, she suffered her first miscarriage before having her son and daughter. I was the 2nd person she called. I came and took her to the hospital. Obviously she forgot I was there for her.I think those words are simply cruel. There can simply be no truth to that kind of thinking. If that were the case, how are woman out of wedlock having children? Or those in adulterous relationships, for that matter? It's faulty logic.
This is not how life works. And it's not how God works. Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good. And sometimes good people behave badly and vice versa. God knows our hearts. People should never pretend to.
I am sorry you didn't receive the emotional support you required during such a difficult time. She should have embraced you, loved on you and helped you through it.
I am sorry this happened to you. May you heal in every way possible, in Jesus's name.
God bless.
Oh ...so beautifully written. Thank YOU!!!It's more of the fact that we live in a fallen world and bad things happen on a minutely basis. This had more to do with biology and biochemistry than God punishing you. Biology is very messy and is prone to mishaps like this one. I was born with my brain all wired differently because the brain is a very complex and delicate organ. I no longer attribute this to God because I know He didn't intend for suffering to happen. When sin entered the world, disorder and chaos became the norm.
I believe your baby is waiting in Heaven for you. I like to believe that those who die as fetuses, infants, or children will enjoy a childhood in Heaven so good that it will make the 1990's look like the Dark Ages.
No fertility medication does not cause miscarriages.No. Trying a medicine (if the medicine itself is ethical) is not a sin. Being a human invention, it is not 100% safe, though, and may contribute to a miscarriage, but that is a roll of the dice, not God judging you (for seeking a medical solution).
We can do things to drive our spouses away, but I have no way of knowing if that applies to your situation. Your break-up certainly has causes for it, but if your sister is blaming your miscarriage on you, her assessment on the second matter may be equally unreliable.
I have a gift for you. Please pm me your address and I will send it to you.unexplained.