Starting To Feel Like Everything Is Going Wrong

nanookadenord

Well-Known Member
May 28, 2016
900
529
49
Florida
✟47,565.00
Faith
Episcopalian
Marital Status
Single
It started when I was served papers last Friday stating that my ex-wife is taking me back to court for more money because she seems to think my circumstances changed dramatically. They did, but not the way she thinks they did. I am worse off financially now then I was when she divorced me. I make $1.16 more than I did then, but cm now paying $584 in health insurance for me and the kids that I want paying then. She also has a lawyer and I cannot get one pro-bono as I don't make enough and none will take my case because I cannot afford the $1500-$2500 retainer fee. She lied in the paperwork about me on top of it all.

Then, this morning I lose my wallet. Which doesn't seem like a big deal, but I have sentimental things in it from my kids.

My job keeps changing my shift. I have $100 to my name for the next two weeks. I'm filing for bankruptcy.

I need it all to stop!
 

nanookadenord

Well-Known Member
May 28, 2016
900
529
49
Florida
✟47,565.00
Faith
Episcopalian
Marital Status
Single
Praying for you. I hope you get your wallet back with the things that have
special meaning from your kids in it. Maybe someone is already trying to
find you and return it or turned it in at a store.

I'm hoping do, but as of right now, that hasn't happened. Lost it late yesterday afternoon.
 
Upvote 0

Andrew77

The walking accident
Site Supporter
Feb 11, 2018
1,912
1,242
Ohio
✟138,616.00
Country
United States
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Constitution
It started when I was served papers last Friday stating that my ex-wife is taking me back to court for more money because she seems to think my circumstances changed dramatically. They did, but not the way she thinks they did. I am worse off financially now then I was when she divorced me. I make $1.16 more than I did then, but cm now paying $584 in health insurance for me and the kids that I want paying then. She also has a lawyer and I cannot get one pro-bono as I don't make enough and none will take my case because I cannot afford the $1500-$2500 retainer fee. She lied in the paperwork about me on top of it all.

Then, this morning I lose my wallet. Which doesn't seem like a big deal, but I have sentimental things in it from my kids.

My job keeps changing my shift. I have $100 to my name for the next two weeks. I'm filing for bankruptcy.

I need it all to stop!

Where you go to church, you need to meet with the pastor, or an elder, and ask them if you can have some people pray with you. And that means telling them everything that is going on in your life. Everything.

You need to be praying, in a group of other men, and you need to be down on your knees, and you need to pray to the Lord, that you are doing the best you can, but you need help and wisdom.

And then you need to be willing to hear the wisdom that the Lord sends you. If you do this honestly before the Lord, the Lord will send you wisdom. But I have to warn you, most of the time, the wisdom the Lord sends is not the answers we want to hear.

At some point, you will have to make a choice to follow the wisdom G-d gives, or the what seems wise in your own eyes. I would encourage you to hear the whatever Wisdom the Lord sends, and obey it. And that starts with, going to church, getting on your knees in a room of other Christian men, and just praying for G-d's help.

That is my advice.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Joined2krist
Upvote 0

nanookadenord

Well-Known Member
May 28, 2016
900
529
49
Florida
✟47,565.00
Faith
Episcopalian
Marital Status
Single
Where you go to church, you need to meet with the pastor, or an elder, and ask them if you can have some people pray with you. And that means telling them everything that is going on in your life. Everything.

You need to be praying, in a group of other men, and you need to be down on your knees, and you need to pray to the Lord, that you are doing the best you can, but you need help and wisdom.

And then you need to be willing to hear the wisdom that the Lord sends you. If you do this honestly before the Lord, the Lord will send you wisdom. But I have to warn you, most of the time, the wisdom the Lord sends is not the answers we want to hear.

At some point, you will have to make a choice to follow the wisdom G-d gives, or the what seems wise in your own eyes. I would encourage you to hear the whatever Wisdom the Lord sends, and obey it. And that starts with, going to church, getting on your knees in a room of other Christian men, and just praying for G-d's help.

That is my advice.

Thank you!
 
Upvote 0

Joined2krist

Well-Known Member
CF Ambassadors
Site Supporter
Jul 15, 2015
3,402
2,586
✟427,078.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Single
Isaiah 59:19 King James Version (KJV)
So shall they fear the name of the
LORD from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him.


Praying for you
 
Upvote 0

nanookadenord

Well-Known Member
May 28, 2016
900
529
49
Florida
✟47,565.00
Faith
Episcopalian
Marital Status
Single
Now I am out of work at least one shift because I might be developing Olacranon Bursitis of my elbow. Lots of pain and the doctor doesn't want me lifting till I go back to work on Tuesday, which if this doesn't clear up by then, will not happen.

I cannot be out of work. Have a lawyer to pay, my car payment, the kid's insurance not to mention my electric, gas, water, rent...

I want off this ride!
 
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums