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Yep. In the OT, God said execute homosexuals and unruly children, et. al. They call themselves New Independent Fundamental Baptist’s, a KJO sect of Christianity. They consider themselves True Christians and everyone else worldly Christians. What you think about that is irrelevant to me. Any bone you wish to pick is with them alone. I don’t have a dog in this fight. The point that a Christian privileged society allows their hate speech to go unchecked stands.
Thanks for the "definition" of NIFB.
Doesn't "this" society also allow the homo-sexuals to say what ever they want against every group they feel is down on them?
Are they not also "privileged"?
How about the eco-conscious, or animal rights groups?
Are they regulated about what they say?
I can think of a few more "privileged" groups who see fit to castigate others.
Our constitution is set up to allow anybody to speak their mind.
If you are against that, speak to your congressman.
 
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Sure, as long as you pretend that infinite punishment is appropriate for finite crimes. And deathbed conversions get you a get out hell free card, then yeah, totally just.
The sins of men are like a pebble thrown into a pool. They ripple out with consequences a very great distance.
One lie can cause untold damage.

There is no death-bed conversion.
 
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I hadn't heard of this group at all before this thread.
But you've heard of Westboro Baptist.

And, AFAIK, all of these hate preachers were brought up in traditional Baptist churches.

Notice how even you are calling it a cult.
Yep, seems to be a loose collection of about thirty rouge Baptist themed congregations. If you disagree with their doctrine, they're quick to excommunicate you. Cult-like, IMO

Maybe this thread would be better titled 'Cult privilege',
If you're ok with classifying Christianity as a cult, then sure. Fact is though, they call themselves Christian, and it's because of this privileged culture, they're able to preach hate, and in fact, the police don't even feel the need to provide protection because this type of hate speech is so common, the majority of the people are not offended, and quite possibly secretly harbor the same sentiment.

then, not for the sake of invoking the 'No True Scotsman' fallacy (unfortunately or fortunately, depending on your view, Christianity is not a gate-keeping religion beyond some basics as in the Nicene Creed,
You're preaching to the choir, here. Another poster in this thread has already accused me of not knowing what a "True Christian" really is.

My litmus test is simple... if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, and calls themselves ducks, then duck.

which functions as the statement of faith of this very omni-confessional website; and even then, that's a theological standard, not a behavioral standard), but in recognition of the fact that we're actually talking about a tiny minority of fringe fundamentalist nutjobs.

Well, if the OT didn't prescribe death for homosexuals, unruly children, slaves, adulterers, rape victims, et. al., then you might have a point. As it stands, they seem to be more devoted to their bible than your watered-down version of Christianity.

(A) That statement doesn't make sense, as America could never plausibly be argued to have ever been Muslim in the first place, so it can't be called to be Muslim again.
If it helps you understand my point any better, feel free to change it to "make America Muslim."

So I don't know what your point is with this. Having Christians saying crazy stuff about wanting to make the ten commandments the law of the land or whatever this independent Baptist cult you're harping on ...
My point was simple; Christian privilege in American culture fosters and allows hate speech, all under the guise of "free speech."

As FireDragon76 has pointed out, they were refused that protection, so this kinda works against your argument.
Right, because religious Christian hate speech is acceptable, to the extent police don't even perceive any credible threats.

And other groups can hold other events, and/or protest this one. I can't speak for the OP's country, but that's how America's supposed to work, not evidence of any kind of Christian privilege at work, since anyone of any background can do anything like this or against this if they choose, so long as they have permits (if they're staging some kind of rally or whatever) and don't get violent.
So you're ok with hate groups spewing violence, just as long as they don't become violent.

Got it.

Really, this whole thread reads like a bunch of smug atheists getting mad at Christians for using their freedoms 'wrongly'
Without being smug, are you willing to tell us if you think the US government should execute; homosexuals, adulterers, unruly children, slaves, et. al.?

(I consider this to be rhetorical, as I don't expect you'll honestly respond.)d

(not in accordance with the atheists' secular values, which they take to be the values that society should have),
Correct. Secular societies are significantly better, regardless of the metric used.

and therefore deciding that we should have them taken away,
Your suggestion that homosexuality should be punishable by death? Then yes, I want to take that "right" away from you.

because we're 'privileged' by virtue of using them, even as my Muslim, Hindu, Jewish, Atheist, etc. neighbors have the same rights as I do, not less, so they could also use their freedom to do things that the atheists might not like.
Sounds like you're suggesting that religious rights always include telling others what rights they should have. Wait, that's what religions do.

Boo freaking hoo. That's how this country is set up, and it generally works because fringe elements either stay fringe or eventually are told to go sit in the corner until they can learn to play nice with the rest of society.
Exactly, which is why we've had to build a bigger corner, as religious morality begins to take a backseat to the inherently superior secular morality.
 
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The sins of men are like a pebble thrown into a pool. They ripple out with consequences a very great distance.
One lie can cause untold damage.
No sweat though, as long I John 3:16 before I die, ripples be darned.

There is no death-bed conversion.
I agree.
 
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Thanks for the "definition" of NIFB.
Sure thing. There's about thirty of these churches in the US.

Doesn't "this" society also allow the homo-sexuals to say what ever they want against every group they feel is down on them?
Like what for example? Do you have a source where homosexuals are advocating a death penalty for Christians?
Are they not also "privileged"?
No, they are not privileged. In fact, historically in the US, homosexuals have been the recipients of violence, hate speech, discrimination and called reprobate degenerates. Mostly by Christians.
How about the eco-conscious, or animal rights groups?
You're really having trouble identifying free speech v. hate speech, aren't you?
Are they regulated about what they say?
I can think of a few more "privileged" groups who see fit to castigate others.
Our constitution is set up to allow anybody to speak their mind.
If you are against that, speak to your congressman.
lol... advocating for the death penalty for homosexuals, adulterers, unruly children, slaves and rape victims has got you in a tail spin, doesn't it?

I can't even imagine having to try and convince myself that this is wrong. lol
 
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But you've heard of Westboro Baptist.

Yes, and...?

And, AFAIK, all of these hate preachers were brought up in traditional Baptist churches.

I don't know what this has to do with anything. Should this thread be re-titled "Baptist Privilege", then, since those are all the examples you are relying upon? I don't really know much about Baptists, beyond the fact that I was forced by my dying mother to continue going to their church in my early teens and I didn't like it at all. Their 'youth leader', a man in his 40s named Bob (keep in mind, I was 13), called me -- in front of the entire youth group and everyone else from the congregation within ear shot in the church parking lot -- the "poster boy for abortion" because I had dyed my hair bright red because I was getting into the punk rock subculture at the time and that's a 'punk rock' thing to do when you're 13. Between my mother dying, having to go to this church that was full of idiots like Bob (nothing like the mostly very nice Presbyterian church I was raised in up until the age of 12 or so, though it did come out later that the doorman turned out to be a pedo; he was sent to jail for life with no possibility for parole, cos y'know, 'Christian privilege'), and being openly insulted for the tiniest bit of teenage pseudo-rebellion, I absolutely hated everything in life at the time and was eventually sat down with the leaders of that particular church and told that I was not welcome there anymore because of my 'negative attitude'. Yes, I had a negative attitude towards being insulted by the adult 'leaders' of this congregation who were put in charge of children, and were completely unresponsive to the circumstances of a child whose mother (the only parent I really knew that the time; dad left the picture when I was three due to heroin addiction and the other pitfalls of the rock'n'roll business) was dying of cancer, and how he might need some extra care and sympathy rather than ostracization and ridicule.

So believe me, what little experience I have with Baptists (my mom only lived until I was 14, so this was maybe a year at most) was very negative, and I was glad to be finally kicked out of their church, and of course when my mother died I stopped going entirely and spent the next decade or so essentially living as an atheist/agnostic/person who didn't see the point in having a religion in the first place. My mother loved God with all of her being and still died a wretched, extremely painful death at 49, leaving behind two kids in their teens to be raised by a drug-addicted, philandering father (he did love us and help us a lot, and I do love him and I'm glad he's clean now, but I'm just saying it was bad). Maybe if I had had a better experience with the last church I went to before my life completely fell apart, I wouldn't have renounced religion altogether for basically all my teens and into my early 20s. I don't know.

My point in sharing all this is that I think there is this idea in the minds of some atheists that all Christians see things as "Christians are my tribe, and so I must defend everything my tribe does, no matter how stupid, harmful, dangerous, hateful, etc. it is." No. At least I don't think that way, and I don't know anyone who does. These people at this particular Baptist church hurt me very deeply, and its effects were long-lasting. It wasn't until many years later, after I had matured some, that I began to be able to see things from their perspective: we have a child who is clearly in a dark place, and he brings this darkness to what we want to be happy, cheery meetings (they were very much "happy, clappy, tambourine-shaking"-type Baptists; I know others are more "fire and brimstone", but that's not something I remember from this particular group), and he asks questions from a place of anger at God that upset everyone, and challenges the authority of the people we've put in leadership positions (i.e., Bob). We can't have someone like that here.

And you know what? As much as it personally scarred me, according to the US constitution, they were completely within their rights to tell me that I was not welcome there anymore. As much as I think they messed up, as much as it is painful to relive, and all that, what they did wasn't illegal and shouldn't be made illegal. It is not illegal to be horrible, so long as you are not physically hurting someone, and they never did that. They just emotionally hurt me, to the point of turning me off of religion and/or God for a long time.

So I'm not writing from a place of of "No, CHRISTIANS must be defended at all times, no matter what." Some Christians are absolute morons and do some things that I don't think are worth defending, just like some people of all groups are absolute morons of whom the same could be said. Just because you adopt some label (Christian, Muslim, Jew, etc.) doesn't make you above criticism, and while I have forgiven the specific people involved in this situation a long time ago, I still re-tell it this way now to emphasize that, yes, these people are Christians, and they have the right to run their church however they want to (including kicking me out of it at a time when I could've really used some love and bonding and all that good stuff), but I don't support what they did. I think they acted wrongly. I believe I now understand why they did so, but I still think it was wrong, and always will.

It is like the famous quote (variously attributed) "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." Because of the establishment clause, in the United States that may be extended to "I disapprove of what you do, but I'll defend to the death your right to do it." For example, I hate Islam (a position which any Coptic Orthodox person who is historically-informed is likely to hold to on some level), but I will defend Muslims' right to preach and practice their religion peacefully -- even the parts of it which call for the death of Christians and other non-Muslims. (i.e., they can preach from their Qur'an, ahadith, etc. that we and the Jews are inferior beings to Muslims in the eyes of Allah, and "the sons of apes and pigs" and all this, but the second they put their hands on one of these lesser beings with religious justification for doing so, they have crossed the 'no violence' line and will be treated accordingly as criminals, just as any person of any background would be.)

This shouldn't be so hard to understand, and should be rightly seen as the expression of pluralism within a secular framework, which does allow for what can be called 'hate speech' (that guy over there can hate me because his religion says so, but he can't enact his religious law upon me, because we're not run as a government and as a society according to his religion's law, thankfully), but the alternative is so much more unpalatable, it makes putting up with hate speech (which is defended by very liberal organizations like the ACLU; are they pushing 'Christian privilege', and if so, why do they also champion such causes as abortion rights, which are anathema to the majority of practicing Christians of all stripes?) an acceptable, if unfortunately necessary, compromise.

We can all hate each other with words, we can all determine who is and isn't acceptable in our religious organizations, etc., because one person's 'hate speech' is another person's PC language and thought that obviously everyone should endorse (even if they must be forced to do so/punished for non-compliance; sounds a lot like how atheists paint religion...), or "word of God", or whatever. So in order to even have pluralism and secularism, this has to be the deal across society.

And the United States is at least moderately religiously diverse (NB: the methodology pf the Pew study on global religious diversity at the link included putting the "unaffiliated" as their own religious group), and also officially permanently secular. There is also, as you can read at the link, only a moderate level of religiously-based hostility, akin to that of several European countries with a similar societal makeup. We pulled this off by maintaining this bargain between the right to religious practice and the right to public safety, with all the tensions that come with it. The OP's idea would certainly eliminate at least some of those tensions, but at great cost to how the society is run and the freedoms of the people within it. And the USA is kinda big on freedom. I'd say it, and not Christianity, is the closest thing we have to a national religion.


Yep, seems to be a loose collection of rouge Baptist themed congregations. If you disagree with their doctrine, they're quick to excommunicate you. Cult-like, IMO

Yep. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. (See my ramble above about my year in a Baptist church.)

If you're ok with classifying Christianity as a cult, then sure.

Latin does. To this day, the language used in granting mixed-religion marriages in the Roman Catholic Church is, I believe (RC people, please correct me if I'm wrong; I never got married in the RCC, despite being a member of it for my prime marrying years), a permission granted for "disparity of cult". And we also may talk about the "cult" of the saints, and so on. The word "cult" did not take on a pejorative meaning until rather recently in its very long life. So yeah, I'm fine with that.

(Sorry. In my off-board life, I'm a linguist. I like words.)

Fact is though, they call themselves Christian, and it's because of this privileged culture, they're able to preach hate, and in fact, the police don't even feel the need to provide protection because this type of hate speech is so common, the majority of the people are not offended, and quite possibly secretly harbor the same sentiment.

Here's the thing: because of the establishment clause, they'd be able to do the same thing if they called themselves anything else. Scientologists protesting psychology is the same phenomenon, since they're legally recognized as a religion (for now). Does this country exhibit 'Scientology privilege', and if so, how did Leah Remini, a famous defector, get a show exposing all their weird, abusive practices aired on a huge, corporate, commercial TV channel (A&E, if I remember; it was quite well done, from what I've seen of it)? Obviously there is not 'Scientology privilege', and since we're talking about the exercise of rights which are available for all, there really is no Christian privilege. There is, at the very most, a Christian majority in the United States. That may not always be so (I'm no Nostradamus, but I don't think it will hold in the long run). but hopefully the establishment clause will stay in place, since it protects all the groups' free exercise, no matter what they call themselves, or even if they believe themselves to be a 'religion' in the first place. So, atheists included.

But rather than being happy about how well the establishment clause has worked out so far (not perfectly, of course, as nothing's ever perfect, but pretty well for a society of this size and moderate level of religious diversity), you are complaining about something that doesn't exist, that is demonstrably false...that is specifically barred by the establishment clause itself!

It's kinda unbelievable, when you think about how many people around the world would benefit (or would have benefited) from a similar setup, but are/were denied it due to how their governments deal with their different religious groups (Christians and Hindus and atheists in Pakistan and Bengladesh; Muslims in Myanmar; the practitioners of traditional religion in Nuristan/formerly Kafiristan in Afghanistan who were forcibly converted to Islam in the late 19th/early 20th century; the Armenians, Syriacs, and Greeks in the dying Ottoman empire with its millat system; etc.).

But go ahead and whine about nothing while having all the freedom in the world to do so due to the very setup that you'd apparently like to get rid of in favor of government-enforced secularism.

I don't want any part of that, and I don't believe anyone who does actually values or believes in secularism, liberty, or any of that good stuff. Go play Stalin in your room, and keep it there.

You're preaching to the choir, here. Another poster in this thread has already accused me of not knowing what a "True Christian" really is.

Yeah, they'll do that...I'm going to guess that a "true Christian" is whatever they are? That's very common, but not how things worked historically, again outside of very basic statements of faith that are by now uncontroversial to all but those who are essentially flirting with leaving Christianity and/or don't understand how creeds work, and usually don't want to learn. Oh well. I just ignore that.

My litmus test is simple... if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, and calls themselves ducks, then duck.

Amen?

Well, if the OT didn't prescribe death for homosexuals, unruly children, slaves, adulterers, rape victims, et. al., then you might have a point. As it stands, they seem to be more devoted to their bible than your watered-down version of Christianity.

Lord have mercy on the ignorance displayed here. Go learn something about the Coptic Orthodox Church to which I belong and then come back and say that. If you still do, you'll be lying through your 'teeth'.

Here, I'll start you off with the apparently "watered down" funeral prayers for the martyrs of the New Year's bombing of the Church of the Saints at Alexandria, which killed 23 people:


(The people's chant at the beginning while carrying the coffins: "With our souls and our blood, we will defend the cross.")

If it helps you understand my point any better, feel free to change it to "make America Muslim."

I believe I've understood it just fine. Your point is wrong.

My point was simple; Christian privilege in American culture fosters and allows hate speech, all under the guise of "free speech."

Again, your point is wrong: there is no 'Christian privilege'. There are Christians in a Christian-majority society using the same rights that the non-Christian has (voting, protesting, being offensive, blahblahblah), which is how it should be in a secular society. Don't like Christians? Raise up non-Christian politicians and so on, and then vote for them/contribute to their campaigns/sign their petitions for laws that agree with your viewpoint. I think we'll have a lot more of that in the very near future, with the millennial generation being famously non-religious/non-affiliated.

Right, because religious Christian hate speech is acceptable, to the extent police don't even perceive any credible threats.

Mhm. Isn't that a good thing? Do you want there to be a reason for police to have to be there?

So you're ok with hate groups spewing violence, just as long as they don't become violent.

That is literally the standard that we have always had. You've surely heard of the limits to free speech being "No shouting 'fire' in a crowded theater". Yes, I'm fine with that. I have to be because that's how pluralistic, secular societies work. You get to say your peace even if I hate every single word of it, and I get to say mine, and the people can evaluate both of our positions, use their brains and their own freedoms to decide which they prefer, if either.

If you don't see this way as being worth defending for the good of all involved (not the privilege of this group over that), then you're the one who doesn't belong in a pluralistic, secular society -- not the Christians you apparently think are such a threat to it.

Things like the OP and some of what you have written sound like a complete nightmare to people of all backgrounds (including all the atheists and agnostics I actually know in real life, who are the majority of my friends and family) who value freedom and the free exchange of ideas, with appropriate protections for physical safety.

Without being smug, are you willing to tell us if you think the US government should execute; homosexuals, adulterers, unruly children, slaves, et. al.?

(I consider this to be rhetorical, as I don't expect you'll honestly respond.)d

Well I'll respond anyway, since the response is so easy: NO TO ALL OF THAT.

Correct. Secular societies are significantly better, regardless of the metric used.

Yes.
 
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Your suggestion that homosexuality should be punishable by death?

What? Do you have me confused with another poster? I've never suggested something so vile and odious. Please retract that statement, as you will not find anything like that in anything I've written, anywhere. That is nauseating.

Then yes, I want to take that "right" away from you.

And if I ever suggested anything like that (which I haven't, and never would), then you'd have a point, because in modern, secular societies, your religion is not an excuse to kill people. Ever. End of story. Now stop this kind of talk, or at least direct it at someone who has suggested such a thing!

Sounds like you're suggesting that religious rights always include telling others what rights they should have. Wait, that's what religions do.

Where are you getting that from a post that says people of all religions have the same rights within the framework of a pluralistic, secular society with a high number of religious people in it? This is baffling.


Exactly, which is why we've had to build a bigger corner, as religious morality begins to take a backseat to the inherently superior secular morality.

Blah blah blah. So you're enforcing your own morality instead. Hooray for you. Secularism taken to the extreme you're suggesting has never resulted in anything bad. Don't look at the bodies in the Soviet Union and its satellites, Japan and China during different periods, and so on.

I haven't listened to this band in a long time (and normally wouldn't post this kind of thing, because the message may get lost in the sound, which is too abrasive for some), but I think there's something you need to learn from this song:


1902 inside a British concentration camp
Where 20,000 Dutchmen, including children died
Do you feel any pity for these murdered men and women
Who died at the hand of the British Empire?

Victims they may have beenhttps://genius.com/Rudimentary-peni-dutchmen-lyrics#note-12766735
But innocent they were not
They were murderers just the same
With their own code of hate

These Dutchmen carried rifles
Went out hunting on horseback
Delighting in the slaughter
Of a bigger kind of prey
Taking part in the latest wave of genocide
They found killing Zulus much more
Fun than any other game

Victims they may have been
But innocent they were not
They were murderers just the same
With their own code of hate

These Zulu warriors felt so proud
Of all the suffering they had caused
Driven to a frenzy by the death hate
Of tribal wars, bound up by their own morals
Their own bigotry, lies, and killing, it's just the same in
Northern Ireland, Poland and Afghanistan

They're just fighting for the right
To enforce their own oppression
Through the bigotry and blindness
Of their moral law

_________________

This is what you are doing not any less than those you are criticizing, because it's something that literally everyone does. Everyone has some moral code (unless they're clinically psychopathic, I guess), whether they get it from religion or not, and most of the time they think it to be so correct as to be obvious, and as to experience dissonance when meeting someone whose moral code is different than there (I know I've experienced that in this thread). Because of this human tendency, we must have safeguards in place so as to protect everyone's right to preserve their moral code, and manifest it in any peaceful way possible. Without that, you will become what you hate, because you apparently want to do away with the appropriate safeguards of society that make the "wall of separation" go in both directions. It's not going to work. It's going to lead to violence and murder on a scale that is probably not imaginable in a modern western society. All because your moral law is the one everyone should follow. You don't see how that makes you compliant in horrific acts, but if it hasn't yet, it will when you're the one who is in the position to tell people what to do.

Then what will we call it? 'Atheist privilege'? Probably not, because people who think like you will have destroyed our first amendment right to have this type of conversation, again, all in the name of the absolute correctness of your moral laws.

That is frankly terrifying, and I seriously hope I am dead before the specter of atheist morality has even the slightest chance of asserting itself as the dominant philosophy of society (and it could, if enough people think like you do).

Lord have mercy.
 
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That might be your opinion, but some studies indicate otherwise.
Your article talks about oppression in Third World countries with a Christian minority.

This is the first sentence of the OP:
CF posters regularly complain that Christianity is oppressed in Western democratic society.
This is the second last sentence of the OP:
First World Christians aren’t persecuted – they’re privileged with permission to behave badly.

I don't think I could have made it much clearer.
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It’s time for a reset on this thread since it seems to have wandered off into a range of non -relevant legalistic issues.

In the OP I listed a dozen examples of behaviour by Christians or Christian organisations that would be unacceptable if they came from a secular (society based) organisation. Unacceptable doesn’t necessarily mean illegal, in fact I purposely avoided the legality issue since we're all from different states/countries with different rules. Unacceptable means not acceptable to society-in-general based on the range of methods a society uses to express its disapproval. I’m assuming that each of the listed behaviours is unacceptable in most (all?) Western societies.

The particular behaviours listed included:
  • Discrimination based on gender
  • Discrimination based on sexual orientation
  • Refusal of service (a variant on sexual orientation discrimination)
  • Demanding the right to have its Creation Myth taught as science
  • Demanding (and getting) the right to not report child abuse
  • Openly practising misogyny
  • Vilifying homosexuals
  • Expecting an exemption from taxation
  • Insulting other religions
  • Science denial

The point I’m making is that no secular organisation could come close to getting away with the sort of behaviour we’ve come to accept, and even expect, from Christianity and Christians. I’m not asking for any special sanctions (legal or otherwise) against Christianity. I am suggesting that Christianity meet the same standards that we apply to the rest of society. If it doesn’t meet these standards, we should treat it in the same way we treat any other badly behaving secular organisation. We already do this for the rest of society – why is Christianity exempt?

In effect I’m asking why Christian organisations should not be treated equally.

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Disclaimer: I sincerely appreciate your response and I've read the entire post thoroughly. However, because of time constraints I may not reply to all the points you've made, so please don't take this as a slight.

I don't know what this has to do with anything. Should this thread be re-titled "Baptist Privilege", then, since those are all the examples you are relying upon?
Baptists are a subset of Christianity, and IMO one example is all I need to prove my point. And based on the responses elicited, it seems to have struck a nerve. Methinks they protesteth too much. :)

I don't really know much about Baptists,
I was raised Southern Baptist.

beyond the fact that I was forced by my dying mother to continue going to their church in my early teens and I didn't like it at all. Their 'youth leader', a man in his 40s named Bob (keep in mind, I was 13), called me -- in front of the entire youth group and everyone else from the congregation within ear shot in the church parking lot -- the "poster boy for abortion" because I had dyed my hair bright red because I was getting into the punk rock subculture at the time and that's a 'punk rock' thing to do when you're 13. Between my mother dying, having to go to this church that was full of idiots like Bob (nothing like the mostly very nice Presbyterian church I was raised in up until the age of 12 or so, though it did come out later that the doorman turned out to be a pedo; he was sent to jail for life with no possibility for parole, cos y'know, 'Christian privilege'), and being openly insulted for the tiniest bit of teenage pseudo-rebellion, I absolutely hated everything in life at the time and was eventually sat down with the leaders of that particular church and told that I was not welcome there anymore because of my 'negative attitude'. Yes, I had a negative attitude towards being insulted by the adult 'leaders' of this congregation who were put in charge of children, and were completely unresponsive to the circumstances of a child whose mother (the only parent I really knew that the time; dad left the picture when I was three due to heroin addiction and the other pitfalls of the rock'n'roll business) was dying of cancer, and how he might need some extra care and sympathy rather than ostracization and ridicule.
I am truly sorry for your experience. A young person should never have had to experience what you did at the hands of adults that should have known better and should have been looking out for your best interests.

So believe me, what little experience I have with Baptists (my mom only lived until I was 14, so this was maybe a year at most) was very negative, and I was glad to be finally kicked out of their church, and of course when my mother died I stopped going entirely and spent the next decade or so essentially living as an atheist/agnostic/person who didn't see the point in having a religion in the first place. My mother loved God with all of her being and still died a wretched, extremely painful death at 49, leaving behind two kids in their teens to be raised by a drug-addicted, philandering father (he did love us and help us a lot, and I do love him and I'm glad he's clean now, but I'm just saying it was bad). Maybe if I had had a better experience with the last church I went to before my life completely fell apart, I wouldn't have renounced religion altogether for basically all my teens and into my early 20s. I don't know.
I can totally understand why you would have rejected religion during this time in your life.

My point in sharing all this is that I think there is this idea in the minds of some atheists that all Christians see things as "Christians are my tribe, and so I must defend everything my tribe does, no matter how stupid, harmful, dangerous, hateful, etc. it is." No. At least I don't think that way, and I don't know anyone who does. These people at this particular Baptist church hurt me very deeply, and its effects were long-lasting. It wasn't until many years later, after I had matured some, that I began to be able to see things from their perspective: we have a child who is clearly in a dark place, and he brings this darkness to what we want to be happy, cheery meetings (they were very much "happy, clappy, tambourine-shaking"-type Baptists; I know others are more "fire and brimstone", but that's not something I remember from this particular group), and he asks questions from a place of anger at God that upset everyone, and challenges the authority of the people we've put in leadership positions (i.e., Bob). We can't have someone like that here.
I don't expect anyone to be blindly defended, however, at the same time, I haven't seen too many churches/Christians calling these people out for their behavior.

And you know what? As much as it personally scarred me, according to the US constitution, they were completely within their rights to tell me that I was not welcome there anymore. As much as I think they messed up, as much as it is painful to relive, and all that, what they did wasn't illegal and shouldn't be made illegal. It is not illegal to be horrible, so long as you are not physically hurting someone, and they never did that. They just emotionally hurt me, to the point of turning me off of religion and/or God for a long time.
How about speech that encourages the act of hurting someone? In this case, they're using "free speech" to advocate the the execution of homosexuals, adulterers, unruly children, et. al.?

So I'm not writing from a place of of "No, CHRISTIANS must be defended at all times, no matter what."
Good.
Some Christians are absolute morons and do some things that I don't think are worth defending, just like some people of all groups are absolute morons of whom the same could be said. Just because you adopt some label (Christian, Muslim, Jew, etc.) doesn't make you above criticism, and while I have forgiven the specific people involved in this situation a long time ago, I still re-tell it this way now to emphasize that, yes, these people are Christians, and they have the right to run their church however they want to (including kicking me out of it at a time when I could've really used some love and bonding and all that good stuff), but I don't support what they did. I think they acted wrongly. I believe I now understand why they did so, but I still think it was wrong, and always will.
Would you still feel this way if this particular Baptist church advocated your execution because you fit the description of unruly child?

It is like the famous quote (variously attributed) "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."
This is where we part ways, my friend. I consider hate speech to be harmful and should not be tolerated in a free secular government. Do you think Hitler would have been able to accomplish what he did if his hate speech directed towards the Jews had been nipped in the bud? Would you consider this his right to free speech as well? Somehow defending Hitler's right to advocate execution for Jews because 'free speech,' seems reprehensible to me.

Because of the establishment clause, in the United States that may be extended to "I disapprove of what you do, but I'll defend to the death your right to do it." For example, I hate Islam (a position which any Coptic Orthodox person who is historically-informed is likely to hold to on some level), but I will defend Muslims' right to preach and practice their religion peacefully -- even the parts of it which call for the death of Christians and other non-Muslims. (i.e., they can preach from their Qur'an, ahadith, etc. that we and the Jews are inferior beings to Muslims in the eyes of Allah, and "the sons of apes and pigs" and all this, but the second they put their hands on one of these lesser beings with religious justification for doing so, they have crossed the 'no violence' line and will be treated accordingly as criminals, just as any person of any background would be.)
So, if a Muslim Iman began advocating for the execution of Christians and Jews, because it's what his holy book requires, you're happy to defend his free speech?

But go ahead and whine about nothing while having all the freedom in the world to do so due to the very setup that you'd apparently like to get rid of in favor of government-enforced secularism.
Sorry, but this seems a bit incoherent to me. I'm concerned with those who would pass laws restricting autonomous freedoms based on a bad interpretation of a religious text, and you've wound it down to whining? I'm sure you'd feel the same way if Homosexuals were advocating for the execution of Christians?

I don't want any part of that, and I don't believe anyone who does actually values or believes in secularism, liberty, or any of that good stuff. Go play Stalin in your room, and keep it there.
All I can surmise is you're confused as to what secular humanists (of which I am one) actually believe. I can only assume your Stalin reference was for comedy relief purposes only, and not some deep seeded paranoia?

https://americanhumanist.org/what-is-humanism/manifesto3/

"Humanism is a progressive philosophy of life that, without supernaturalism, affirms our ability and responsibility to lead ethical lives of personal fulfillment that aspire to the greater good of humanity."

Yeah, they'll do that...I'm going to guess that a "true Christian" is whatever they are? That's very common, but not how things worked historically, again outside of very basic statements of faith that are by now uncontroversial to all but those who are essentially flirting with leaving Christianity and/or don't understand how creeds work, and usually don't want to learn. Oh well. I just ignore that.
One step ahead of you.

Lord have mercy on the ignorance displayed here. Go learn something about the Coptic Orthodox Church to which I belong and then come back and say that. If you still do, you'll be lying through your 'teeth'.
I think you missed my point entirely. These NIFB's are advocating execution to homosexuals, unruly children, adulterers, slaves, and et.al., with respect to their interpretation of the OT, not in spite of it. And I agree with you, it's an ignorant point of view.
Well I'll respond anyway, since the response is so easy: NO TO ALL OF THAT.
At issue is hate speech, not free speech, as the two are not synonymous, as you would like me to believe. You've created a straw man here, and I understand why. For reasons that yelling 'fire' in a crowded theater is illegal, would be the same reasons advocating for the execution of people you don't like, would be. If you fail to see the difference, then it's obvious to me how you're incapable of recognizing Christian privilege in the US.

I appreciate the exchange. Take care!
 
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on the discussion of charities and such and are allowed to be resitrictive, there is a opposite probably biger issue with many, which is they can ignore restrctions. A church daycare doesn't require background checks, saftey courses, or thigns that would be required of any secular daycare and such, there has been many problems of church based companies abusing children or being unqualified to do what they do, but there was no oversight no requirements for first aid, or to make sure that someone working there had ANY education in working with children.
 
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You are referring to private organizations, however. Is your ideal a society in which nothing is private and there are no individual rights? That kind of society "behaves badly," too, you know. In spades, they do! ;)

I think a society should treat everyone equally, just have to look at protections for gays, and how they can be fired, refused service, and many other things that are afforded to just about every other group, and Christians are activly either trying to remove laws that protect LGBT or they are demanding laws allow them to descriminate. If a christain wouldn't be allowed to descriminate against blacks, or woman, or other religious groups in a public buisness, why should they be given the right against a group they now hate? Descrimination laws are meant to protect people against those that desriminating, saying, "You get a exception if you believe X." defeats the purpose.
 
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on the discussion of charities and such and are allowed to be resitrictive, there is a opposite probably biger issue with many, which is they can ignore restrctions. A church daycare doesn't require background checks, saftey courses, or thigns that would be required of any secular daycare and such, there has been many problems of church based companies abusing children or being unqualified to do what they do, but there was no oversight no requirements for first aid, or to make sure that someone working there had ANY education in working with children.
Thanks LOOL. I've never come across this and I know it wouldn't be allowed in my country, Where is this happening? (the US?)
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Thanks LOOL. I've never come across this and I know it wouldn't be allowed in my country, Where is this happening? (the US?)
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Religious day cares get freedom from oversight, with tragic results

That lists some of the issues going on with daycares, I think it applies to a few other things, but can't remember much right now, just remember 5-10 years hearing a few stories like this, where you had abuse with kids, or people that a 5 second background check wouldn't allow within 3 miles of the daycare working there because they don't have to obey many of the regulations.
 
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Religious groups are not public businesses or services. They deal with matters of ultimate concern, so of course its understandable that they do not operate like a business or public service. The logic of the marketplace is not the logic of religion.

problem is when groups want to push into public buisnesses, the right to descriminate against gays for marriage licenses, or getting a cake among other things. It's long since stopped being about a group and moved into, "My buisness is now a christian buisness and we don't want to support X." even if laws require it.
 
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I think a society should treat everyone equally, just have to look at protections for gays, and how they can be fired, refused service, and many other things that are afforded to just about every other group, and Christians are activly either trying to remove laws that protect LGBT or they are demanding laws allow them to descriminate. If a christain wouldn't be allowed to descriminate against blacks, or woman, or other religious groups in a public buisness, why should they be given the right against a group they now hate?
As was mentioned before, there is a distinction in law between private preferences, especially when protected by the Constitution, and discrimination that violates laws, such as those that apply to public accommodations and employment.
 
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Religious day cares get freedom from oversight, with tragic results

That lists some of the issues going on with daycares, I think it applies to a few other things, but can't remember much right now, just remember 5-10 years hearing a few stories like this, where you had abuse with kids, or people that a 5 second background check wouldn't allow within 3 miles of the daycare working there because they don't have to obey many of the regulations.


Thanks for the link. It's a bit dated (2016) but I assume the lack of regulation still goes on.

I nearly choked when I got to this bit:

Six states are particularly hands off: Alabama, Indiana, Missouri, Florida, North Carolina and Virginia offer religious day cares the most leeway.

Religious groups in these states have argued successfully that regulating their day cares violates the separation of church and state. The religious exemption has become increasingly popular in places where churches most adamantly reject government interference: In Alabama and Indiana, records show almost every other day care is exempt.

Religious advocates suggest parents need not worry about the lack of oversight because day cares are guided by a moral authority that eclipses any regulatory agency.

“We feel like our responsibility for the well-being of those kids is to God,” said Robin Mears, executive director of the Alabama Christian Education Association, which pushed for that state’s religious exemption in the 1980s. “We’re going to answer to him.”
And this bit
Religious day cares get freedoms that are unthinkable at their secular counterparts. At some, workers don’t have to know CPR or have any child safety training. At others, they can whip and spank children. Still others, like Carlos’ day care, do not require workers to be able to see and hear the children they are paid to watch.
For those of you who haven't read the article - the missing child drowned - in the baptismal font.
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Christian Privilege

CF posters regularly complain that Christianity is oppressed in Western democratic society. Looked at realistically the opposite is true. Far from being oppressed, Christians have a significant degree of behavioural leeway in ignoring the rules and standards imposed on the rest of society. Christianity holds a privileged position to the point where it is given, or expects, or demands, a latitude which would be unacceptable for a secular organisation.

Consider the right to ignore rules about gender discrimination. Most mainstream Churches restrict their leadership positions (deacon, minister, priest, bishop, cardinal etc.) to men. Within one Church this is further restricted to celibate, unmarried men. In the Protestant stream, Christian leadership is usually patriarchal. In the limited cases where there is female leadership, this change is contested and has often become the catalyst for division. The problem is that male leadership is so entrenched in the Christian psyche that it isn’t recognised for what it is – blatant gender discrimination which would be totally unacceptable in a secular organisation.

Some Christian institutions (charities, caring, schools etc.) are allowed to restrict their staff to people who follow their particular form of Christianity. This is in spite of the fact that the work these people do doesn’t require a particular religious orientation. Some Church organisations will not accept employees with a same-sex orientation even if they are denominationally correct. A secular organisation openly practising discrimination based on gender or sexual orientation would be publicly castigated and possibly subject to legal sanction. Christianity gets a pass.

There are Christians who believe it is their right to refuse services to homosexuals. Examples include the infamous cake baker and a religiously based foster care placement service. There are other Christians who have indicated that they would also refuse service. This attitude has been publicly supported by some Christian Churches. Again, this type of discrimination, based on sexual orientation, would be unacceptable from a secular entity.

If a First Nations group demanded that its Creation Story be taught as a scientific alternative to Evolution it would not get a hearing. On the other hand, some Christian Churches believe it is their right to have an ancient Hebrew Creation Myth included, as science, in school curriculums, and will use political capital to achieve this aim. There is no legal or factual basis for this demand. There is an assumption by these Christians, and others, that their opinion should be accommodated because they are Christian.

As a general moral and legal principle, we are all expected to report crime if we are aware of it. In the case of child sexual abuse this principle is paramount. At the very least it’s a moral imperative and yet, some Churches have specific legal permission to sit above the law where the crime is revealed in the confessional. Not only is there legal permission but many adherents consider this non-reporting to be an inviolable, moral right. Once again, a secular organisation with a similar attitude would be intensely criticised.

In some Christian churches the idea that women are subservient to the authority of men is openly promoted based on interpretations of the Bible. Within secular society an organisation promoting this opinion would be called out and exposed as misogynistic.

Homosexuals have been publicly described as sinners, disordered, needing fixing, going to hell, unnatural, perverted, an ‘abomination’ – the list goes on. Some of the less egregious terms have been articulated by Christian leaders. Whatever the specific terminology, there are two common factors; the terminology is insulting and; the source (in Christian countries) is usually Christian. Whether it’s the Pope or some evangelical rugby player, it seems Christianity has given itself permission to poke the finger of righteousness at those it disapproves of even where the ‘sin’ has no victim. Some Churches will not allow practising homosexuals to worship in their congregation. In the secular world this sort of behaviour is called discrimination and vilification - and we’re called out if we do it.


There are other things I could list, like tax exemptions, banning homosexual students, insulting other religions, denying science and considering itself above the law, where Christianity gets let off lightly.

The point I’m making is that no secular organisation could come close to getting away with the sort of behaviour we accept, and even expect, from Christianity and Christians. First World Christians aren’t persecuted – they’re privileged with permission to behave badly.

In time, I hope to see these privileges withdrawn to the point where Christianity will be required to comply with the same moral standards we demand of other parts of society.

OB

Morality is an invention of man, completely subjective and subject to change with respect to the most influential entity. Vindicating a civilization based on morality is the epitome of blindness; the only reason morality, as we know it, goes moderately unchallenged is because people have accepted the axioms and elements that come with the idea of morality.

Telling a set of people they should amend their behavior because it doesn't fall in line with your morality is a bit naive. This is especially true if a nation is based on a morality with which you disagree. The US isn't a theocracy on paper, so on paper the rights of everyone - no matter their creed - must be respected. No matter how rough around the edges this is, it is law.

There is a lot wrong with what you are saying in my opinion, not on an intellectual level but on a spiritual/"theological" level. Specifically, Christians are persecuted within their own "religion"; the idea that all Christians are privileged in the West is a gross overstatement. Depending on your definition of Christian, some of us are purely demonic in nature.

And, that is why morality is meaningless in the grand scheme of it: every individual has their own standards that they choose to adhere to, or accept. It isn't based on anything other than overall survival at the core: this is why murder is considered "universally immoral," even though the definition of murder differs from person to person, and the intent is vindicated differently by different individuals.

It is all subjective.
 
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And no one was held responsible?
No.
From the article:
No one was held criminally responsible for Carlos Cardenas’ death, either. Local prosecutors said what happened to him was a tragedy, not a crime. Death investigators wrote that the problem was a licensing issue. They said it was impossible to hold an individual responsible when it was the church’s lack of a supervision policy that killed Carlos.
The article goes on to list case after case of neglect, injury and death. This is Christian privilege gone mad.
Words fail me.
OB
 
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