Hello everyone. Sorry I was M.I.A. missing in action. I have been very busy. Since I don't have time to get to everyone's questions, I will just answer the basic fundamentals that have been asked.
1. Is repentance a works? Yes and no. No, repentance is not a works based salvation. But yes, repentance is an action that is required on our part, it is part of our free-will, to turn from sin and seek the Lord Jesus.
2. Does having a relationship with Jesus mean we are His boyfriend or girlfriend? Answer is No. The bible describes what type of relationship is required in order for us to be born again. The type of relationship mentioned in scripture is a master and servant relationship. In other words, is Jesus Christ the king of your life? King means master. And if Jesus is indeed your master, then you are also a friend of Christ.
3. Do I need to turn from sin in order to be saved? Answer is Yes. Unfortunately, God cannot repent for you. We are not robots. Repentance is part of our free will and we each have a free will choice to repent. Yes indeed, we each have the ability to make that free will choice. You cannot be living in sin and still be born again. And you must be born from above, in order to be saved.
4. What if I just believe in Jesus, is that enough to get me into heaven? Answer is No. Otherwise the demons themselves would be in heaven. Since even the demons believe in Jesus and also shudder at His name. The bible makes it very clear, you must repent and believe.