This kind of runs in line with those who suffered more in life. Had more trials and tribulations will be more compatible with those of the same ilk.
I got into an argument with someone that she found out the guy she was dating had very little struggle in life. No suffering. Barely any challenges, while she faced homelessness, loved one dying multiple times, emotional abuse, being a military spouse...while the man she's getting know has barely through any of these.
Thus enter the coming to Christianity later vs growing up in the church generation to generation. It appears there's a divisiveness between those with life experiences that don't match a future spouse.
My question is, if someone whose struggled most of their life meets someone that has not, will that mean they'll necessarily incompatible. Can this be a deal breaker?
To be honest, I am thankful to not suffered the same things others have. But to those people that tend to judge ME as a dating deal breaker for not having struggled AS much in life as THEY did? That' s jjust petty is it not?
I got into an argument with someone that she found out the guy she was dating had very little struggle in life. No suffering. Barely any challenges, while she faced homelessness, loved one dying multiple times, emotional abuse, being a military spouse...while the man she's getting know has barely through any of these.
Thus enter the coming to Christianity later vs growing up in the church generation to generation. It appears there's a divisiveness between those with life experiences that don't match a future spouse.
My question is, if someone whose struggled most of their life meets someone that has not, will that mean they'll necessarily incompatible. Can this be a deal breaker?
To be honest, I am thankful to not suffered the same things others have. But to those people that tend to judge ME as a dating deal breaker for not having struggled AS much in life as THEY did? That' s jjust petty is it not?