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Not when those 'facts' are opinion and pertain to the color of one's skin.



I am a black man from Detroit. Why is there no universe where I could be remotely comparable to a person from Windsor?

Have you considered that people like me say your comments are racist because your comments are indeed racist?
Whites get criticized but that's not racist, however criticize a minority and its racist.
 
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It isn't necessary for you to personalize those statistics. How do you explain the difference between those cities?

For you to understand the affect of what you're saying, yes it's necessary to personalize it.

Remember that when you talk about those black people Detroiters, you're talking to one of those people.
 
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Whites get criticized but that's not racist, however criticize a minority and its racist.

If someone is criticizing 'whites', then yes, it's racist. When we attribue a characteristic to someone because of their race, that is racism.
 
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No, I'm not.
So what? Does that, in your mind, excuse racism?

Much of the racism complaints is lack of opportunity for employment.
 
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Not relevant. There should be no racist "obstacles."

There are lots of other obstacles that shouldn't be. Regarding obstacles to individual success I'd place racism near the bottom of the list (view from the cheap seats of course).
 
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There are lots of other obstacles that shouldn't be. Regarding individual success I'd place racism near the bottom of the list.
And you don't see why that remark may unpleasant to others? Don't you understand how condescending and self-congratulatory it sounds? How racist?

A white man telling minorities that racism is not much of a problem.
 
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As you are, in your own judgement, not a racist then not making racist comments would help.

You would prefer 'benign neglect'? I can do that.
 
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And you don't see why that remark may unpleasant to others?

The truth sometimes hurts. People are so papered over with lies that when they hear the truth they can't "haaaaaandle" it.
 
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