Hello, I grew up in a christian household, and now, after understanding my faith, i work each day to walk with God. I’m kind towards others and work on pruning myself with God. I have had a group of friends for four years. Yet, certain things they do, i can’t take part of because my faith and relationship with God advices me not to. When they listen to secular music, talk behind people’s backs, exclude others, become judgmental of everyone, and swear sometimes, i sit back and say nothing. I am against those things, so i don’t join them on the “fun.” So, day by day, they stopped showing me and including me in those occasions. They even excluded one girl and she left the group. I was close to her than any of them, and i was stuck in the middle for two years. Once they realized i was close with her, I noticed they had inside jokes, get togethers without me, i was the last to find out about any plans, they created a group chat without me, and one of them especially gives me a cold shoulder unless she wants something from me. The worst part is, they are christians. They go to church, have fellowships, are youth leaders, and know the word of God. So, that fact alone kept me with them through all these years. But now, I’m conflicted and think I’ve had enough. I’m not one to judge about what is a true christian or not. I also gave a cold shoulder to that excluded girl in hopes that they will like me i guess. Now she has her own friends. I talked to her recently, and even if our relationship is not the same, she urged me to leave them and asked how I can’t see how bad of a person they are.
I’ve prayed about this and I need advice. Am I overreacting? I try not to. I feel left out. Should I leave? If so, how? I would like your thoughts on this matter, please.
I’ve prayed about this and I need advice. Am I overreacting? I try not to. I feel left out. Should I leave? If so, how? I would like your thoughts on this matter, please.