It's not at all feigned concern. Stop assuming the worst in peoples motives, in our church that is considered a grave sin. I do not at all relish the idea of abortion but I relish controlling womens lives even less.
If a friend told you he was going to commit a murder, and his threat was credible, would you not inform the police because you relished 'controlling' a friend even less than you relished the idea of finding out the next day that he had indeed murdered someone?
I am a woman. For that matter, I'm a pregnant woman. No person is 'controlling' me - my own body and the unborn child are simply continuing in their natural biological functions. Even if it wasn't legal for me to get an abortion, that would hardly place a 'control' on me. It would be my body and the developing human inside me, not any outside factor, causing the pregnancy to move forward. My husband doesn't have to hold a gun on me, no one has to tie me down, etc.
The most you could say is that if abortion was illegal then I would be legally *prevented* from seeking a doctor to murder the human life inside me by the thread of legal sanctions and penalties. Human laws can be considered a form of control, I suppose, but it's a control God asks us to submit to and is ideally to protect the rights and good of the people. It is far different from any form of rights-violating control like slavery, kidnapping, dismemberment.
"Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves.
For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God’s servants, who give their full time to governing.
Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor.
Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,”
“You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command:
“Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law." Rom 13:1-10
Ask yourself these questions:
- If abortion was illegal, would Christian women need to submit to the law or would the law be somehow unfairly controlling them?
- If the fulfillment of the law is love, then does murder support or oppose the law?
- Does abortion show equal love to the human child as it does to the mother?
- Is it truly loving to let a mother break the command of love and murder her child?
- Is an unborn child not a 'neighbor?'
- Is abortion not harmful to an unborn child?