ugh, I’m getting really fed up with it. Even if I help her out, usually cleaning, it goes unnoticed or she complains how it should of been done. It’s like she feels the need to be in control of everything but if anyone tries to help. she finds a way to complain or make an excuse for not wanting anyone’s help. She always has this attitude of “I can do it myself” then complains about having to do everything.
I feel like it will only get worse when my dad dies. I really don’t know how he puts up with it all these years. My mom tries to control him through nagging and criticizing him how he chooses to live his life. I always kinda wished my dad would have the nerve to either divorce her or be more assertive.
The worst is her always complaining about the pets getting their fur all over and making messes or ruining something. And hearing her repeatedly say she’s done with pets aftee the dog and cat is gone breaks my heart. I find it incredibly sad when people value their material possessions more than furry legged friends or people. Her OCD about cleaning has gotten worse over the years. It’s driving me batty. The way she complains nonstop repeatedly mentioning the same stuff over and over makes her sound crazy and self-absorbed. My sister in law has noticed she has changed over the past few years. My brother and sister rarely ever talk about her behavior to me
I want out of her circus.... Problem is I’m on disability (I’m profoundly Deaf but can hear somewhat with hearing aid.) My monthly check would barely cover the cost of tbe cheapest apartment in my area especially now since I’m still maaking car payments. And cheapest usually means higher crime rates... I’ve thought about the roommate option and have looked on Craigslist since that can be cheaper than apt. living.
I realize something gotta change. my mom’s behavior is making me upset and ridden with anxiety. I don’t wanna have to keep on dealing with this
I feel like it will only get worse when my dad dies. I really don’t know how he puts up with it all these years. My mom tries to control him through nagging and criticizing him how he chooses to live his life. I always kinda wished my dad would have the nerve to either divorce her or be more assertive.
The worst is her always complaining about the pets getting their fur all over and making messes or ruining something. And hearing her repeatedly say she’s done with pets aftee the dog and cat is gone breaks my heart. I find it incredibly sad when people value their material possessions more than furry legged friends or people. Her OCD about cleaning has gotten worse over the years. It’s driving me batty. The way she complains nonstop repeatedly mentioning the same stuff over and over makes her sound crazy and self-absorbed. My sister in law has noticed she has changed over the past few years. My brother and sister rarely ever talk about her behavior to me
I want out of her circus.... Problem is I’m on disability (I’m profoundly Deaf but can hear somewhat with hearing aid.) My monthly check would barely cover the cost of tbe cheapest apartment in my area especially now since I’m still maaking car payments. And cheapest usually means higher crime rates... I’ve thought about the roommate option and have looked on Craigslist since that can be cheaper than apt. living.
I realize something gotta change. my mom’s behavior is making me upset and ridden with anxiety. I don’t wanna have to keep on dealing with this