Jason0047 said:
But if God knows if a person is going to reject Him only living 20 years, then God knows they are going to reject Him for all eternity.
The second statement does not necessarily logically follow from the first. It's also anti-scriptural.
Not true.
"The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9).
3 "God our Savior.
4 He wants all people to be saved and to learn the truth." (1 Timothy 2:3-4) (GWT).
"Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!." (Isaiah 30:18). (NIV).
"Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal,
The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity." (2 Timothy 2:19).
So there is no such thing as those who perish that could be his if they were just given more time to repent. Those who are "his" are those in whom God knows their heart and if they are truly seeking Him correctly or not or if they are trying to justify their sin or their own pride in some way.
But you are seriously mistaken here. The Scriptures say,
God is fair and just (Psalms 25:8) (MSG).
You said:
Given continual freewill opportunities to follow God, it is mathematically impossible any would reject God's love for eternity.
No. People can be stubborn in their ways and backslide or do some kind of future evil. Not everyone wants to be pure of heart and true and honest and good and follow God for all time. God knows who are his is what the Bible says. There is no such thing as God has allowed those who are his to perish because He did not give them enough time to repent. That is non-sense. We are not talking about a coin toss here. We are talking about human beings who have free will and who have emotions and who have their own motivations, etc.
You said:
God's love does not have an expiry date like a carton of milk.
So you believe in Univeralism?
I agree that God's love does not expire for people. But there are different types or degrees of love that comes from God. God sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. Job says this about man's days.
"Seeing his days
are determined, the number of his months
are with thee, thou hast appointed his bounds that he cannot pass." (Job 14:5).
Then, once a person dies, then comes the Judgment.
"And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment." (Hebrews 9:27).
So in regards to the love of God in regards to salvation: There is an expiration date. But like I said, God knows who are his. There are no "his" being destroyed because they were not given enough time.
You said:
You claim the Calvinist God is unloving,
Yes, Calvinism is unloving because God would not save only a few if He has the power to force save all people (Which excludes any free will choice of any kind by the person). God is the one who decides randomly who is saved and leaves the rest to burn as if God was some kind of child playing with Gijoe figures with no real empathy towards them. The child could light some of his figures on fire, or place fire crackers on them, or pound them with a hammer, etc. as a form of amusement.
You said:
but should consider how unloving is your own characterization of Him.
In what way? I would be happy to clear up any misunderstandings you have (unlike those who hold to the Calvinistic position).
You said:
Here again your characterization of God makes Him unloving. He sadistically causes the wicked to suffer punishment when He could instead annihilate them & spare them that punishment "after the Judgement". Also where are they before the judgement? Suffering in a "hell" described in Lk.16:19-31?
Not sure you understood what I said before. I believe God will annihiate the wicked in the Lake of Fire. They will cease to exist. Be like smoke. Be no more. They will be erased from all time. Before they are destroyed both body and soul, they only will be punished in proportion to the sins they committed here upon this Earth. Fair justice. For it is not unloving for people to be punished for evil that they have done. If God did not punish evil or sin, then God would not really care about any real right and wrong. God's good ways truly matter to Him. For children who are not disciplined turned out to be spoiled. A society who is not punished properly for committing certain sins will just continue to keep doing them. If God did not punish the wicked, then that would mean God does not care about fair justice.
As for suffering in hell as described in Luke 16:19-31: I believe there are two possibilities in this real narrative here.
Possibility #1. The richman was tormented by the HEAT of the flame nearby him or in the great gulf fixed between him and Abraham.
Possibility #2. The flames in hell are not like normal flames in the real world that would cook your flesh like a steak whereby it would cause you to scream uncontrollably whereby any conversation would be nearly impossible. For if you tried to talk to a person engulfed in fire, I highly doubt you could have a normal conversation with them. They would be yelling too much to be able to talk with you.
Also, I believe the wicked go through long periods of sleep and they are awaken for special reasons, etc. So the wicked are not down in hell suffering for thousands of years consciously. They are conscious for certain moments or periods of time that are short. I believe this because God is into fair justice according to Luke 12:47-48.
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