Hi there. I wanted some advice on my marriage. I want to take divorce from my husband but he's not ready to give me. All he says is he wants me. I dont understand what for he needs me when he never loves me. because of his family i lost my mom. my mother in law dislikes me for nothing and never cared for me or my 7months old daugther. all she cares for is her elder son and his children. my husband aunt abused my parents and ill treated me before i was even married to him. knowing all this he never supported me or told his parents about it and my mom being a diabetic patient couldnt take all this and passed away. (my marriage is an arranged one).
i never shared any emotional or physical bond with my husband. in the beginning it was his online games, friends and movies. when ever i asked him to spend time with me all he says he's tired. but for his friends no matter what time he gets a call he use to go. and now when i ask him to spend time he says work or am concentrating on one thing i cannot on too many at ones. when i am in trouble he is never there for me. when i had a c-section his mom was rude to me saying that i have to get up and do my things on my own when it was just one day i underwent a surgery. i told this to my husband about it and he took her side blaming my dad saying he was never there. how can i ask my dad to take to the washroom and help me out there? things never ending there every time i meet them she insults or hurts me. when i talk about this with my husband he doesnt pay any attention.
when is comes to our personal life i never experienced loved affection passion nothing. I tired talking to him about this and all he has to tell is is doesnt know all this and he's this was cant help.
HE DOESNT SUPPORT ME. HE DOESNT CARE FOR ME. HE DOESNT GIVE TIME FOR ME. HE DOESNT STAND FOR ME.
If i tired to defend myself i am bad by doing so. if i ask him to stand for me he doesnt open his mouth. i needed some help from him. he has no time except his office work. i feel sick being with him.
i just want to get rid of him. i want to live my life on my own with my daughter.
(p.s. throughout my pregnancy his mom tortured me for a boy soo much that i almost felt like disowning the baby if it was a boy. i tired being normal saying either of them is fine. or i want girl anything he use to yell at me saying boy.)
even then my husband never stood for me.
i never shared any emotional or physical bond with my husband. in the beginning it was his online games, friends and movies. when ever i asked him to spend time with me all he says he's tired. but for his friends no matter what time he gets a call he use to go. and now when i ask him to spend time he says work or am concentrating on one thing i cannot on too many at ones. when i am in trouble he is never there for me. when i had a c-section his mom was rude to me saying that i have to get up and do my things on my own when it was just one day i underwent a surgery. i told this to my husband about it and he took her side blaming my dad saying he was never there. how can i ask my dad to take to the washroom and help me out there? things never ending there every time i meet them she insults or hurts me. when i talk about this with my husband he doesnt pay any attention.
when is comes to our personal life i never experienced loved affection passion nothing. I tired talking to him about this and all he has to tell is is doesnt know all this and he's this was cant help.
HE DOESNT SUPPORT ME. HE DOESNT CARE FOR ME. HE DOESNT GIVE TIME FOR ME. HE DOESNT STAND FOR ME.
If i tired to defend myself i am bad by doing so. if i ask him to stand for me he doesnt open his mouth. i needed some help from him. he has no time except his office work. i feel sick being with him.
i just want to get rid of him. i want to live my life on my own with my daughter.
(p.s. throughout my pregnancy his mom tortured me for a boy soo much that i almost felt like disowning the baby if it was a boy. i tired being normal saying either of them is fine. or i want girl anything he use to yell at me saying boy.)
even then my husband never stood for me.