Hello everyone! I am hoping to receive some insight on what i should do as i am at a loss for answers.
My fiance and I have had major troubles for almost 2 years. We have been together for 4 years and engaged for 3. We both come from a christian background but i am ashamed to say have not lived that way for the better part of our relationship. Things between us used to be amazing but lately it has been very hard.
He works a lot. 60+ hours during the week, sometimes more on the weekend so i feel we have grown apart because of that
Lately we fight a lot, some things petty some not, and the affection and love we always had is almost nonexistant. It feels like he is repulsed by me. I feel ugly and useless because the few hours we do get a night it is almost like I do not exist.
I work part time and spend the rest of my time taking care of the house and chasing a passion, but I will always try and make time yet he is unresponsive.
I am not sure what I can do to get him to open up to me and talk. I am not sure where we stand or how he feels. He is no longer supportive or caring. Never has nice things to say or even smile. We have tried consulting a pastor but my fiance has flaked out on going 3 times. What else can I do
I pray every night lately but I am still as lost as ever.
My fiance and I have had major troubles for almost 2 years. We have been together for 4 years and engaged for 3. We both come from a christian background but i am ashamed to say have not lived that way for the better part of our relationship. Things between us used to be amazing but lately it has been very hard.
He works a lot. 60+ hours during the week, sometimes more on the weekend so i feel we have grown apart because of that
Lately we fight a lot, some things petty some not, and the affection and love we always had is almost nonexistant. It feels like he is repulsed by me. I feel ugly and useless because the few hours we do get a night it is almost like I do not exist.
I work part time and spend the rest of my time taking care of the house and chasing a passion, but I will always try and make time yet he is unresponsive.
I am not sure what I can do to get him to open up to me and talk. I am not sure where we stand or how he feels. He is no longer supportive or caring. Never has nice things to say or even smile. We have tried consulting a pastor but my fiance has flaked out on going 3 times. What else can I do
I pray every night lately but I am still as lost as ever.