Yes, I do believe he fulfilled it by coming to show us how it is to be lived. And I do completely agree with you on one thing that I keep questioning my self is, that if the Torah is still in effect how do you determine what is what to keep, and that is why I say if something doesnt apply to you, you cant be held accountable for it.
No one has ever had to keep all 613, as a man cant keep commands that applies to women menstrual cycles and so on and there really isnt 613 commands because many of those commands are repeated in Deuteronomy and I see the 10C's & Feast Days repeated many throughout the Torah, thats why the Great 2 Commandment can sum up the 10 C's and the rest of the Torah.
But here is an example if one is to say the Torah is still fully in effect...Does this mean we would put to death a woman on her wedding day if she is not a virgin???
Deuteronomy 22:13-21
Laws of Sexual Morality
13 “If any man takes a wife, and goes in to her, and detests her, 14 and charges her with shameful conduct, and brings a bad name on her, and says, ‘I took this woman, and when I came to her I found she was not a virgin,’ 15 then the father and mother of the young woman shall take and bring out the evidence of the young woman’s virginity to the elders of the city at the gate. 16 And the young woman’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as wife, and he detests her. 17 Now he has charged her with shameful conduct, saying, “I found your daughter was not a virgin,” and yet these are the evidences of my daughter’s virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city. 18 Then the elders of that city shall take that man and punish him; 19 and they shall fine him one hundred shekels of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought a bad name on a virgin of Israel. And she shall be his wife; he cannot divorce her all his days.
20 “But if the thing is true, and evidences of virginity are not found for the young woman, 21 then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done a disgraceful thing in Israel, to play the harlot in her father’s house. So you shall put away the evil from among you.
Jesus said the Torah wouldnt be abolished, but I dont see anything in the bible that says it would be put on hold either, so saying it is fully in effect would mean we arent doing ALOT of things we are supposed to and saying it is abolished would mean we are free to do as we please and we cant be judged for anything if there is no commands to keep, so there has to be a medium in there somewhere.