Okay, then show me the verse that directly links the "cities at a distance from you" with the accounts of human sacrifice.
God specified the ones that were of these listed in the agenda God set forth, the majority of them worshiped Baal or Molech which involved child sacrifice.
HUMAN SACRIFICES AS WORSHIP TO BAAL AT BAALBEK TEMPLES
Beginning with the founding of the Phoenician colony of Carthage in about 814 BC, mothers and fathers buried their children who were sacrificed to Baal. The practice was apparently distasteful even to Carthaginians, and they began to buy children for the purpose of sacrifice or even to raise servant children, instead of offering up their own. However, in times of crisis or calamity, like war, earthquakes, drought, or famine, their priests demanded the flower of their youth. Special ceremonies during extreme crisis saw up to 200 children of the most affluent and powerful families slain and tossed into the burning pyre. During the political crisis of 310 B.C., some 500 were killed. On a moonlit night, the body was placed on the arms of an effigy of Baal made of brass. The Priests lit fires that heated the effigies from its lower parts. The victims were placed on the burning hot outstretched hands. As they were burned alive they vehemently cried out. The priests beat a drum sounded flutes, lyres, and tambourines. This drowned out the cries of the anguished parents. The father could not hear the voice of his son, and his heart might not be moved.
http://www.ancientdestructions.com/baalbek-temple-human-sacrifice-worship-baal/
I'm taking the accounts in the Bible as a given. I may not believe in the divine aspects, but I'll take those as a given as well. I do believe that most of the accounts in the Bible happened, but maybe not some of the specifics. For instance, I believe the Israelites went to war a lot. I believe they conquered cities. I believe that cities named in the Bible as conquered cities were conquered by the Israelites. I believe that the practices described in the Bible about other peoples did happen to some extent, though I think the Israelites may have exaggerated some. I believe that the Israelites did the things they said they did in the context of enforcing the law and dictating what that law is, and that is the most important thing of all.
The only thing I won't take as a given is the justification for the acts described in the Bible. That is what we will discuss.
Fair enough, I don't know what you mean by other peoples did these things to some extent. To what extent do you believe they did them and if they did them at all does that make any difference and if so why? The Canaanite religion was overtaking other nations and instilling this horrendous practice throughout.
As far as the law is concerned, we know that while not condoning divorce God allowed it during the time of Moses.
"When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she find no favour in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, and give [it] in her hand, and sends her out from his house. And she is leaves his house, and goes and becomes another man's [wife], And [if] the latter husband turns against her, and writes her a certificate of divorce, and puts [it] in her hand, and sends her out of his house; or if the latter husband dies, who took her to be his wife; [Then] her former husband who sent her away is not allowed to take her again to be his wife, since she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the LORD, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the LORD your God gives you as an inheritance."
Jesus explained that it was due to the culture and the people's ways that He allowed it for a time but Jesus said that He didn't want that. So we know from the mouth of God according to the Bible that God allowed laws to be made that were not condoned by Him but that He allowed them due to the times involved.
Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, “Is it lawful
for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?”
4And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created
them from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE,
5and said, ‘FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, ANDTHE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH’?
6“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”
7They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE AND SEND
herAWAY?”
8He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way.
9“And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
First of all, as we know people sometimes twist what is found in the Bible and in this case that is exactly what the Pharisees did. Moses never commanded they give her a certificate of divorce and send her away. And we know how God feels about divorce here:
Malachi 2:14-16 God states "The Lord has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously... 'For I hate divorce' says the LORD, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment is wrong.' " So while Moses gave the law for what to do in a divorce, God didn't condone it. This is a very specific example but if we have Jesus confirming that God allowed some behavior that He even hated due to the times and the culture and the mindset (free will)He restrained or instructed them within that framework.
The issue at hand is that Christians in this thread are trying to prove the existence of objective morals. If I start believing in the Judaeo-Christian God, I have to stop believing that rape is objectively immoral, genocide is objectively immoral, slavery is objectively immoral, etc... It seems like The Bible is the ultimate source for morals being subjective, and I don't see how it has a place in this argument of objective morality. So we are going through all the horrible stuff in The Bible, one by one, as you try to justify it, that is what we are doing. This is why I asked you early on what objective morals are in the Bible other than "obey God", and "worship God", but you didn't want to answer.
Yes, we are trying to demonstrate that objective morals exist. There is no reason to stop believing that rape is objectively immoral, or that genocide is objectively wrong or even slavery is objectively wrong. God knew Israel wasn't capable of rising above certain social ills of their day. He was taking them from where they were and pointing them to a better way. Slavery was deeply entrenched in the economic system of the time, and to try and remove it would have caused more havoc and problems than would have been solved. There was no other system known at the time. There were no bankruptcy laws then. There was no welfare system. So God gave specific commandments to make sure that relationship wasn't permanent nor life threatening. God doesn't endorse the institution, but allowed it for a time, until a better way was found. In Israel there were very strict restrictions on females going out alone without proper supervision. The laws were given more for the protection of the women as society of the times didn't award rights to a women at all and in most communities of the times there were no punishment at all for raping. So again we see certain laws for the case of rape, not condoning the practice but what should be done in accordance to the crime. Just as our laws do not condone the actions from which they arise but the consequences for them.
Nope, my argument has been about what is permitted. If it was permitted, then it is not objectively immoral to do it. It doesn't even matter if there was ever one instance of it happening, it would still be a moral code that says, "you can do this".
See above.
I answered it once, and you said you worded it wrong. I don't want to answer again until you word it exactly the way you want it to be worded.
I clarified my statement...not including accidental death.
Please answer the question, and then you can ask yours. If a soldier decides to keep his captive as a wife, and then forces her to have marital intercourse with him and she resists, who is acting immorally?
As above the practice of taking women and from all civilizations of the time, women were prizes of war. Still to this day, raping women is still used as a tool in war. Making laws about an act does not mean it is condoning the act. All the nations around Israel took captives but they were just flesh for the victors and they never married them, killed any young that came about from abusing them and their lives were filled with suffering and humiliation. Now we see the Israelites taking captives but now they have to treat them differently than the customs dictated. They had to marry these women and raise the children as their own even with them inheriting the wealth of the men. They were treated as family and in fact were the matrons in the families. Maybe not the best (no captives at all, no war at all, no victims at all) but that wasn't what happened in that culture. The culture all around gave no rights or good to those they captured. So this was pointing the Jews towards God's desire that all women be loved as a man loves Himself. So while I don't condone the practices that are depicted in the Bible and have just as much moral distaste for them, I look at what was being done in the Jews pointing towards a better place. IF God had commanded all Canaanites to be killed (which He didn't and told Israel to drive them out in some instances)it was due to their horrendous actions that would never go to a better place but would drag others down with them. They infected all the areas which they had defeated the people, their religion taking over all others.
Once you've answered my questions about rape, then I swear I'll talk to you about abortion till you're blue in the face. I don't want to have to handle 100 different topics at once. So all it takes are concrete answers, not answering questions with questions.
I understand how hard it is to address so many issues in a thread.

So now I've answered.