No you don't need clarification. I was not taught by any man any of the 5 points. And I haven't even mentioned that I differ with some minor parts of them.
Well, people can have false visions of Jesus, people can have false interpretations of the Bible, and people can even be guided by a spirit in who they think is God into a certain belief that is not Biblical. We have to remember that there are deceptive spirits out there besides just humans, too. These are fallen angels. So how do we keep ourselves free from error in reading the Bible? There are several ways to check to see if a person's interpretation is of God.
#1. Continual Prayer for the understanding.
#2. Context. Does your view on a verse fit the chapter, book, and over-all picture of the Bible?
#3. Cross references (Comparing Scripture with Scripture objectively)
#4. Can a real world example be made out of such a belief?
#5. Does such a belief support God's goodness, morality, or justice? Can you explain God's goodness?
#6. How does such a belief effect your life? Has such a belief led you into a deeper righteousness? Do people see you as loving?
#7. Does the original Hebrew and Greek meaning also line up with the English?
#8. Did you examine the fruits of the churches that hold your belief?
#9. Have you ever read testimonies of those who used to believe in such a belief but are now strongly against it?
All based on my own study and consideration of the Word, relying on God's Spirit to open the Word to me for understanding. You want to pigeonhole me for the purpose of trying to marginalize anything I say. You want to play the "guilt by association" card, and I am not going to let you. As for what I have minor disagreement with, that's none of your business.
I believe at some point you confirmed what you wanted to hear and see in your study by what others said. Most people who just pick up a Bible and read it do not generally come to believe in Calvinism on their own. Especially if they are praying and seeking the true meaning with the help of the Spirit. In other words, people do not learn of Calvinism generally unless a Calvinist tells them about it.
Joh 6:39 And this is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.
Are you saying that Jesus is saying that it should happen, but it might not? If so, you are not understanding Him at all. In this passage, the obvious meaning is that He certainly will not lose any but certainly will raise them up at the last day. Why? Because that's God's Will, as Jesus Himself says. In this passage, the word "should" speaks of certainty, not possibility.
But the word "should" does not suggest a certainty, though. It suggests a possibility. I already provided examples of how that word is used to suggest a possiblity. So you cannot dismiss it out of hand when that word can actually mean that. I say this because if Jesus did force people against their will to believe or not to believe then there would be no point of having a creation whereby man would live by faith. Also, both the Old and the New Covenant is chocked full of Commands from God to man. These Commands would be useless information if God were to just force us to all believe a certain way automatically.
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