Yes, instead of homosexuals being so concerned about others hating them, they need to hate their own sin!
And sin includes what is wrong in our hearts. If in our hearts we have a wrong preference or a wrong desire, this is sin. Jesus said, about adultery, if a man looks the wrong way at a woman, he has already done adultery in his heart (Matthew 5:27-28). So, it is wrong to desire sexual sin, according to Jesus.
God is able to change our hearts so we are in His almighty love's power to protect us from wrong emotions and drives and feelings and tendencies. The peace of God is almighty to "guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." (please see Philippians 4:1-8)
So, it is not God our Heavenly Father who makes us so we have dominating drives for what is wrong.
But "the god of this world" (2 Corinthians 4:4) is Satan; and his evil spirit has emotions and drives witch work us to do what he wants. Our Apostle Paul says there is "the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience" (in Ephesians 2:2), and this spirit of Satan "works" very hard to drive people to do what is wrong . . . wrong eating, wrong communication in the form of arguing, wrong sexual pleasure seeking, and other wrong things. His spirit is dominating and controlling and disruptive and dictatorial, and his wrong thinking and ideas and drives do not say "excuse me", but he "works" people by means of evil ideas and evil passions.
And I have noticed how people in their sinning can be trying to get a pleasure. They can be desperate to feel a pleasure, so they do not feel their deep-down misery and confusion of sin. They are often acting to try to feel relief from selfish anger and frustration and boredom and loneliness and hurts and bitterness and unforgiveness. Because God's love is not deeply satisfying them with "rest for your souls." (Matthew 11:29)
I have seen how enough is not enough, for addicts, alcoholics, arguers, smokers, and ones into wrong sexual stuff. Gays have hunted me down, right on busy city streets. If their stuff were truly satisfying them, I would think they would not be desperately hunting me down, then treating me like dirt when I am quiet and not interested and keep minding my own business. When you can't get what you want, your reaction can be proof of who is behind your interest.
Of course, not all gays are in street gangs and using their bikes to chase people, at sunrise . . . yes, in the morning, also > one group in a van stopped, on a Sunday morning, to ask me where they could find homosexuals > I said, "Wherever you go, there will be homosexuals."
But, like I say, not all gays do this stuff, to my knowledge. But it shows me how nothing such ones do can be enough. Only obeying God in His love can have us enjoying real love.
And each of us knows how we are reacting when we get no for an answer and things mess with what we want. And "God resists the proud" (in James 4:6, 1 Peter 5:5); so God Himself is resisting us so we fail to get what we selfishly want; and our reacting is proof of if we are sweetly and sensitively appreciating and enjoying Him most of all, and obeying Him in peace, or if we are in selfishly-reacting stuff of ego.
With God, we can stay unconditionally content, no matter what is taken from us or what is refused us. So, gays are not the only ones who need Jesus and how our Father corrects us > Hebrews 12:4-11. He does not just "chastise" us in order to get us to change our behavior, but He cures our nature so we are in His own almighty immunity against sin-sick feelings and stinking thinking and evil drives, so these awful and messing things can not get the better of us and control our attention.
Also, in the weakness of our pleasure seeking, we stay weak enough to also suffer pain and confusion and loneliness and other cruel things.
So, if a person is still in this mess of desperation for pleasure, the person is not with God in His love, at least not like we can be.
"Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world." (Hebrews 4:15)
So, our assurance for the "day of judgment" is how God perfects us in His love, in our character, not only in our acting!
So, yes God corrects us deeply so we do not keep on having wrong interests and wrong preferences; and He makes us strong so we do not keep on struggling (Ephesians 6:10), but are busy with enjoying Him and submitting to Him in His peace (Colossians 3:15), and loving one another and caring for any and all wrong people.
And in God's love all-loving, we have hope for any evil person, at all > love "hopes all things" (in 1 Corinthians 13:7) > Jesus so suffered and died on Calvary for any and all of us to receive forgiveness. So, it is very wrong to discriminate against gays, by telling them they don't need the forgiveness and correction which Jesus payed His own blood for them to have.