- Apr 24, 2007
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So my ex-wife contacted me last night via FB - letting me know what apparently her dad is really sick/probably won't last the weekend.
I'm not really worried about the contact in and of itself. It was mostly just a "make notice" type of contact. I simply said that I was sorry to hear that - ignored anything that had to do with how she felt about it (so nipped that avenue of conversation in the bud right away) - and said my thoughts were with her family in this trying time.
She said thank you - I told her to let me know if anything changed - and that was that. She went away.
So here's my question... I always liked her dad. He was always really good to me, and to my family. When she *does* at some point tell me that he died - would you ask about where to send flowers to the funeral? Is that something you would do?
I wouldn't necessary think about sending as "me" - but rather as a respectful gesture from "The XXX Family".
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I'm not really worried about the contact in and of itself. It was mostly just a "make notice" type of contact. I simply said that I was sorry to hear that - ignored anything that had to do with how she felt about it (so nipped that avenue of conversation in the bud right away) - and said my thoughts were with her family in this trying time.
She said thank you - I told her to let me know if anything changed - and that was that. She went away.
So here's my question... I always liked her dad. He was always really good to me, and to my family. When she *does* at some point tell me that he died - would you ask about where to send flowers to the funeral? Is that something you would do?
I wouldn't necessary think about sending as "me" - but rather as a respectful gesture from "The XXX Family".
?