Hi,
This was originally a posting to TheBarrd:
One of the other LDS asked me to leave you alone and I have complied up to this point. But this is too much.
Do I participate in forums with the expressed purpose of tearing down the beliefs of others? Do you see me mocking others for their beliefs or mocking their beliefs? My intolerance for others misrepresenting the LDS beliefs stems from 10 years on this forum with Christians calling me a cultist, suggesting that I cannot read or have a closed mind (see below), and a host of other aggressive rude behaviors. My hat goes off to the rest of the LDS who show far more restraint, but I believe my fruits compare much more favorably than those of my opponents.
Which means that you have accused me of having a closed mind. Thank you for the insult.
I am not your honey, or your sweetie, or your sugar, or any other pet name. I am not your friend. I am not your family. I am not your lover. I am not anything that would permit you to address me in this fashion. I find it horribly offensive that you would presume to use a term of endearment with me. It is forward, aggressive, and in poor taste to address another person in this manner if you do have a personal relationship with them that would warrant speaking to them with implied familiarity. Do not do it again.
* (Added) In many workplaces, addressing a coworker in this manner will result in a report to HR and action taken against the person speaking this way for sexual harassment.
Another insult suggesting that I don't normally think.
What was that about fruits?
Hi,
In support of TheBarrd, because she is objectivly right, and very kind, but has much experience with males, let me tell you of an encounter I had with her, when I was being attacked. She came in and told the man what he actually was. Later it became blatantly obvious to everyone, that she is and was right.
That impressed me. Here you accuse her, not of being the kind, loving, sweet grandmother of *7, that she is, but of being rough verbally. She is not.
In the workplace, many address me as hun, or sweetie or in any number of ways and all those who are real, make my day. She is real. Yet, I in my workplace work with Pulled The Trigger type combat veterans, who give their time freely to the community, thus they are the best of the best of Pulled The Trigger types, as they also, love, like and put others before themselves. TheBarrd is like that.
She also is incredibly well educated, and she if very very smart, but she is also certainly connected to God personally, as I have seen, in her comments and in her knowledge. The God. She is connected to The God.
Please allow her to be her, the loving grandmother, loved by God Himself. Realize that if you miss her statements, it maybe that you missed them. I totally see her logic.
The fact that Christians disagree in any forum is a fact. She helped me much with a person, that was convinced of his own mental superiority. He did not have the capacity, to perceive. He then resorted to attacks and accusations. He got personal, and in illegal ways, no one called him on that.
Please see her as objective. Now as I leave you here. I will define a word for you, before I use it.
Once upon a time, The God gave me a gift, unbeknownst to me. It took me about 6 months for me to get used to that gift, and it took all of my then in 2007, workmates some time to get used to it also.
When that gift reached it's peak, I could not find a way to tell others, how I was treating them. I could not. So, that I kept to myself.
The gift went something like this. After being treated by "Someone", with A GIFT, in January of 2006, part of which was seeing THE ESSENCE of God, not two feet away from me, much in me was as never before. One of those items was LIKE. As LIKE, started to happen, everyone at work dropped by my desk every chance they got. Soon after that, I was able to multitask, and never in my life have I been able to do that. Yes, I knew what it meant, but that is off the point here. At work it meant all these people could come by my desk, and I still did 80% of the workload, for 4 people at work, and also listen to all of them. LIKE as it started developing, changed me. I went from me centric, to you centric. I could not get enough time and information about everyone's life. One day, I noticed this. I had to decide then what to do. I decided I liked it. It continued.
Months passed, then one day, LIKE, changed to love. I didn't want to tell anyone, but how can I not. My job was so central and so public, that there is no way to hide out loving everyone, rather than LIKING, everyone. In three days, gently I told them all.
"I like all of you, but that has changed. It is now love, and no, I don't mean that romantically. I don't mean I want to date you guys, or you (the woman), it is another kind of love. I just wanted you to know, as it changed, and it is no longer like, it is love"
Eventually love changed to LOVE, God's actual form of love. That I could tell no one of. I didn't know how. Now for you, that gift was eventually passed on. I learned from that. Hopefully I remember how to do that now.
When I sign off as LOVE, it is God's form of love, at least as much as I can remember and mimic that.
LOVE,
...Katie., .... .