~*the kiss*~

[bluegreysky]

Is there a drastic difference between a kiss shared by two dating sweethearts
And the kiss that happens at the altar when a pastor says "you may kiss the bride"?

I'm looking for opinions but you can quote textbook fact and biblical verse

 

[Neve]

Altar kiss should be a quick peck....not French kissing or making out in church!

 

[MehGuy]

Altar kiss should be a quick peck....not French kissing or making out in church!

Yeah, please don't do that. Unless it's one of them new fangled lesbian weddings. Lol.

 

[Jupiter Drops]

Is there a drastic difference between a kiss shared by two dating sweethearts
And the kiss that happens at the altar when a pastor says "you may kiss the bride"?

I'm looking for opinions but you can quote textbook fact and biblical verse

Probably not.
But the kiss at the alter pretty much means that you two have now sealed the deal in front of God.

Altar kiss should be a quick peck....not French kissing or making out in church!

Yeah, please don't do that. Unless it's one of them new fangled lesbian weddings. Lol.

Kissing 101: What not to do at your wedding.

 

[EazyMack]

Altar kiss should be a quick peck....not French kissing or making out in church!

Because church is where God sees it?

 

[bluegreysky]

Oh.... just for that,
When I get married someday,
I'm gonna smooch for 12 hours up there on the altar.
People are gonna are actually gonna get bored and leave.

 

[NewUser777]

Is there a drastic difference between a kiss shared by two dating sweethearts
And the kiss that happens at the altar when a pastor says "you may kiss the bride"?

The only difference I know of is one kiss is done in private, the other in front of dozens or hundreds of people. Make it good.

[Sorry, I don't have a scripture for this.]

 

[NewUser777]

Because church is where God sees it?

LOL, funny

 

[bluegreysky]

I was just wondering 'cuz they look tha same to me but I didn't know if there was some special wedding magic that would descend upon our heads in a cloud of sparkles and turn us into a couple of princesses.

 

[Maka]

Probably better off asking this question in the married forum.. I couldn't even tell ya..

 

[Balugon]

"26 Greet all God’s people with a holy kiss." 1 Thessalonians 5:26

Kissing wasn't designed by God as some sort of "romantic only" activity. Humans chose to designate it as that due to cultural pressures. Some cultures don't kiss at all. In some cultures, mothers still feed their children by chewing up food and spitting it into the baby's mouth, kind of like a bird would. In some countries, women might greet each other with kisses on the cheek. Parents often kiss their children. Nothing special happens at the wedding kiss; it's merely a symbol that the pastor has finished his speal . Frankly, if it wasn't for people being afraid of getting close to foul smelling or poor oral hygiene individuals, there might be a lot of cultures that would kiss on a regular basis as a greeting or etc.

 

[FreeBird914]

Kissing 101: What not to do at your wedding.

Note to self: No hom-nom-nom-ing the grooms face off.

 

[EazyMack]

Note to self: No hom-nom-nom-ing the grooms face off.

Unless it's your groom, that is.

 

[FreeBird914]

Unless it's your groom, that is.

Harrr harrr... I doubt ANY groom wants their face hom-nom-nom-ed like that.
I shall rephrase! "No hom-nom-nom-ing my groom's face."

 

[EazyMack]

I doubt any groom doesn't!

 

[FreeBird914]

...........

 

[Gnarwhal]

Is there a drastic difference between a kiss shared by two dating sweethearts
And the kiss that happens at the altar when a pastor says "you may kiss the bride"?

I'm looking for opinions but you can quote textbook fact and biblical verse

From my experience? Nope.

Considering that marriage has ended though, I shouldn't make a generalization. Maybe the "wedding kiss" didn't feel special because the marriage wasn't meant to be? It was kind of like drinking a flat soda.

 

[Saucy]

well, the only thing different is what you get to do AFTER the wedding. That's what officially seals the deal, not the kiss.

 

[EazyMack]

well, the only thing different is what you get to do AFTER the wedding. That's what officially seals the deal, not the kiss.

I don't get it.

 

[Saucy]

The sex that unites a couple and makes them one flesh. I believe that's what makes it official to God.