Calvinism believes that Christ died only for some, they call the "elect", and that is because God chose (elected) them for salvation. As such, all the elect receive the free gift of eternal life and will live with God for eternity.
This gives those in hell an excuse for being there; that Christ did not die for them. Calvinists say that they are there because of their sins. But that begs the question: Christ died for the sins of ONLY the elect, and therefore, go to heaven. The so-called non-elect, for whom Christ didn't die, pay for their sins by themselves.
And those who go to heaven still sinned, but Christ paid for their sins. They are in heaven BECAUSE Christ paid for their sins.
The only difference between sinner human beings in heaven and sinner human beings in hell is that Christ paid for the sins of those in heaven. Again, that provides an excuse for all in hell. No one paid for their sins.
It is possible for a Calvinist to provide a succinct explanation of how their theology of limited atonement and unconditional election does NOT provide any excuse for those in hell? Because I just don't see it.
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