I've been a member of Christian forums wherein Christians have answered questions such as that; would you kill if God asked you to? With, yes!
Those people scare me. And I feel sorry for their children.
What they seem to ignore is that God being God he wouldn't need a human hitman to do his bidding. He is the giver and taker of life.
Hitchslap, I don't think you can contain all Christians into one box. There are evangelicals, fundamentalists, zealots, ultra-right wing conservatives, and liberals.
For me of late, I've been committing to deep introspection as I find I have a lot of questions coming to light and thanks to many different posts in this forum, and for other reasons as well.
I found a website, Jesus Never Existed. It has a tremendous amount of information that seemingly is verifiable and I'm in the process of hoping to have enough days in future where I can dedicate my time to investigating the claims there.
I was intrigued by a Hitchens video I saw here and I've been looking into his lectures online as well.
I am starting to wonder if it is a matter of holding faith because I was raised in the faith and it therefore feels natural for me, and if that family tradition of commitment to the religion can withstand investigating objectivists scrutiny of everything from the origin of the Bible, to whether or not Jesus or even Paul existed.
It's a very interesting time really. Part of my gut feeling is that I am content in my faith. The other is this actual flutter in my heart when I go deep and think about what I've taken on faith as absolutely true for most of my life and that possibly being what atheists and others very often claim it is; fable, mythology, make believe, fiction, man made rubbish.
To answer your question then, while I was raised in the faith I believe the prayer without ceasing command isn't that we stay on our knees all our lives but rather we live a pious life wearing the armor of God and realizing we are always in communication with the most high because his kingdom is within us.
And this then means we are always afforded the opportunity to be in prayer, or communication, with his will and wisdom in all things at all times because his spirit informs us when we're open to it.
That gut feeling, or little voice of insight or conscience, for me, is God's inspiration giving guidance.
I also think idioms, parables, allegory, as others have also noted when I've browsed old threads here and people sharing their understanding of God, are what speak to us in the Bible. And so it's not so much what the scriptures say word for word but what they inspire us to see behind the words. Because God being universal and incorporeal would not speak so simply in human tongue when his is an occult or mystery tradition.
In order to find the way to Heaven one must follow the signs. God is more, at least for me, than what's on the page. Men printed the book but God lives in the white.

Maybe atheists can not see that and maybe that's why they just don't understand. Because they take the Bible at its word. When it's far more that that.