What about the perspective that that Scripture was written to one church where the women were talking out loud during the services?
Of course women should learn in quietness - it's hard to learn when you're talking.
1- Qualifications for Elders and Deacons are stated flatly as "Husband of one wife." While we may quibble as to whether this was to exclude polygamists (which was legal then, and still in much of the world), or divorced, it is eminently clear it excludes women. Homosexual marriage is a novel invention of the 21st century.
2- In addition, the reason given is not that there was disruption, but that "Adam was created first" and that "Eve was deceived and so fell into sin" as opposed to Adam who rebelled openly (God had only commanded Adam to not eat from the tree, There is no record of God commanding Eve before the fall to do other than "Be fruitful and multiply" which she clearly obeyed. This is why JC had to be born of a virgin. It was Adam, not Eve, through whom sin entered the world.
3- Lastly we have the historical record. Anytime women have been allowed to preach, the entire denomination is already messed up. It happens AFTER they give up Biblical inerrancy, and active unrepentant homosexual acceptance, abortion and all the other "accomodations" follow. We also have the fact that no Godly woman in the entire Bible EVER leads. Deborah did not lead, she judged. From the NASB:
Judges 4:4 Now Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lappidoth, was judging Israel at that time. 5 She used to sit under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in the hill country of Ephraim; and the sons of Israel came up to her for judgment. 6 Now she sent and summoned Barak the son of Abinoam from Kedesh-naphtali, and said to him, Behold, the Lord, the God of Israel, has commanded, Go and march to Mount Tabor, and take with you ten thousand men from the sons of Naphtali and from the sons of Zebulun. 7 I will draw out to you Sisera, the commander of Jabins army, with his chariots and his [d]many troops to the river Kishon, and I will give him into your hand. 8 Then Barak said to her, If you will go with me, then I will go; but if you will not go with me, I will not go. 9 She said, I will surely go with you; nevertheless, the honor shall not be yours on the journey that you are about to take, for the Lord will sell Sisera into the hands of a woman. Then Deborah arose and went with Barak to Kedesh. 10 Barak called Zebulun and Naphtali together to Kedesh, and ten thousand men went up [e]with him; Deborah also went up with him.
Note that again: "the Lord, the God of Israel, has commanded," not I Deborah. She was a prophetess, which role IS Biblical for women. A prophet might be a leader, such as Moses, but more often they advice leaders, like Samuel did Saul, Nathan David and so on.
This is one of the reason I hate the NIV. Deborah JUDGED, she did not lead. Because Barak refused to lead alone, she followed him. Even so, her being a judge was not ideal. This was a chotic time where the recurring phrase "every man did what was right in his own eyes" shows that.
When there is not a person willing to do as God says, others get drafted. It was Adam's place to contest with the serpent, but he stood back passively, waiting to see if his wife would die. When JC is asked to quiet those welcoming Him to Jerusalem, JC states that if there were no people to praise His entrance, the very rocks would come alive to do it.
Deborah is an example of something very frequent today. Men escape their responsibilities at home and Church into football or whatever. A void is created. Sometimes women are pulled into that void, but as Deborah illustrates, it is NOT the ideal situation. It becomes an occasion to mock men for their cowardice and passivity, and their honor is taken away.
If a woman is leading and preaching to men in the Church, for sure something is very wrong. It may be the woman's fault, but more often it is the men at fault. In either case, it is not right.