Religion as a comfort in times of hardship is not a bad thing. If I could bring myself to believe in a god, I'd find quite a bit of solace in the idea that a day may come when I can be in heaven. However, I don't think you're being honest to yourself if you believe in something only because you want it to be so (I feel that a fair amount of religious people believe for roughly this reason).
I, however, think that religion causes harm on a large scale when people begin persecuting others for not complying with their god. Were it more of a personal thing, where the religious folk refrain from forcing their doctrines on those who follow different ones, I can't see it being harmful.
That's why I generally disapprove of religion. It's not the concept of religion that bothers me, just the effects of it when there are different ones having disputes over whose is better.
I don't try to convert anyone to atheism, though. The closest thing I do to converting people is encouraging them to reevaluate their beliefs before forcing them upon others. That is what separates blind faith.
Would you explain your reasoning?
In your post above, you stated plainly that you believed that a fair amount of religious people believe because they want it to be true. I stated that I felt as though a lot of irreligious people believe what they believe because they want what they believe to be true too. I will supply you with two quotes to demonstrate why I say that.
Quote one, from Aldous Huxley:
I had motive for not wanting the world to have a meaning; consequently assumed that it had none, and was able without any difficulty to find satisfying reasons for this assumption. The philosopher who finds no meaning in the world is not concerned exclusively with a problem in pure metaphysics, he is also concerned to prove that there is no valid reason why he personally should not do as he wants to do, or why his friends should not seize political power and govern in the way that they find most advantageous to themselves.
For myself, the philosophy of meaninglessness was essentially an instrument of liberation, sexual and political.
Aldous Huxley (evolutionist, leftist, and grandson of T.H. Huxley,
known as "Darwin's bulldog"): Ends and Means, pp. 270 ff Italics mine and bold mine.
Second quote, from Thomas Nagel, professor of philosophy at NYU:
In speaking of the fear of religion, I dont mean to refer to the entirely reasonable hostility toward certain established religions
in virtue of their objectionable moral doctrines, social policies, and political influence. Nor am I referring to the association of many religious beliefs with superstition and the acceptance of evident empirical falsehoods.
I am talking about something much deeper namely the fear of religion itself
I want atheism to be true and am made uneasy by the fact that some of the most intelligent and well-informed people I know are religious believers. It isnt just that I dont believe in God, and naturally, hope there is no God. I dont want there to be a God; I dont want the universe to be like that (The Last Word). Italics and bold mine.
So you see from the above, these two men wanted a world without God, and thus believed that there was no God. They wanted it to be true that God did not exist, and thus, believed that He indeed did not.
I feel as though the idea of eternal life after a mortal life of hardships can really only comfort you.
The idea of eternal life after a mortal life is comforting to me. It seems to me however, that you are insinuating that because some religious people believe this, that it means that their religious beliefs are necessarily false. If this is your position, or rather your complaint, it simply does not follow that therefore their beliefs are false. Jesus Christ is either God incarnate or He is not. And this would be an objective fact or truth, regardless of how one or why one believes He is or is not. Indeed, there may be many Christians who believe in God and find assurance and comfort in a heaven after death. This belief however, has no bearing on whether or not God exists. In like fashion, just because many atheists have confessed they hate the idea of being morally accountable to someone other than themselves, this does not mean that God does not exist. God's existence or non-existence simply is not contingent upon our belief in His existence or non-existence.
How would the idea of nothing after death comfort you?
The idea of nothing after death is a comfort to many, as is evidenced by the two quotes from the two men above. As Dostoyevksy once alluded to: "If there is no immortality, then all things are permissible." Many find a comfort in believing that they can fulfill all of their lustful passions and selfish desires without having to ultimately be accountable to one who will judge them for their deeds. In fact, it is my position that this is actually the main reason why people do not believe in God, they find the idea of being morally accountable to repugnant. They desire to be autonomous. In fact, if you take a careful look at many posts here by atheists, some of the them admit outright that even if they were given what they deemed sufficient evidence that Christianity was true, they still would refuse to worship and honor God and commit their lives to Christ. This is illustrative of a moral and volitional resistance, not an intellectual one. At the end of the day, if there is no God for some people, then that is liberating to them for they can live their lives however they desire to without feeling accountable or morally guilty before a Holy, all knowing God.
That doesn't really happen, though. Sure, some atheists will voice disapproval of one's religion, but they don't try to infringe on the rights of theists.
To say that atheists do not try to infringe on the rights of theists is obviously false. I can list two men, Stalin and Mao Zedong among others, who were atheistic leaders of their respective areas of influence who made it one of their chief aims to eradicate religion from their countries and to in the process, infringe upon the rights of theists residing in those places.
The Soviet Union had a long history of state atheism, in which social success largely required individuals to profess atheism and stay away from houses of worship; this attitude was especially militant during the middle Stalinist era from 19291939.
The Soviet Union attempted to suppress public religious expression over wide areas of its influence, including places such as central Asia.
A communist state, in popular usage, is a state with a form of government characterized by single-party rule or dominant-party rule of a communist party and a professed allegiance to a Leninist or MarxistLeninist communist ideology as the guiding principle of the state. The founder and primary theorist of Marxism, the Nineteenth-century German sociologist Karl Marx, had an ambivalent attitude to religion, viewing it primarily as "the opium of the people" that had been used by the ruling classes to give the working classes false hope for millennia, whilst at the same time recognizing it as a form of protest by the working classes against their poor economic conditions.[27] In the MarxistLeninist interpretation of Marxist theory, developed primarily by Russian revolutionary Vladimir Lenin, religion is seen as negative to human development, and communist states that follow a MarxistLeninist variant are
atheistic and explicitly antireligious.
Wikipedia
State atheism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
The above is evidence enough that your assertion regarding atheists not infringing on the rights of theists is clearly wrong, but if that were not enough, we have countries like Albania, Cuba, China, and North Korea, which are all involved in one form or another of
state sanctioned anti-religious activities. They are all inherently atheistic in their views as well.
It is true that atrocities have been done in the name of atheism as well as theism. But to say that atheistic countries and atheists do not try to infringe upon the rights of theists is simply wrong. In fact, you have the New Atheist movement in America and Europe which seeks to totally eradicate religion in general from the public arena. If this is not infringing on the rights of theists, I do not know what is!