My husband has been calling some girl since july i wasnt happy with it as it was for hrs and hrs everyday....... ( my husband is Ghanian) so i could never understand what they where saying to each other and it was mostley when he was at work. ( he works nights) and she started txting him in Ghanian. he said the txt said goodnight hard working man. To me thats not right so i told him and he called me jelous and controling and said he wasnt going to stop to which i wanted to walk out and end it because why is she more important than me? then he said he will cut down contact and stop which i said ok. But contct was still there he would ring me and talk to me for like 5min and say hes busy at work but when i check he rings her after ( which hurts more than anything) because i want laugh and joke with my DH 2 for hrs and hrs. I brought it up again in Oct because my dad died and we had to fly to Guyana whilst on the plane he passed me his phone and i see the last call he made was to her again. He said it wouldnt be nice if she was to ring him and he blanked her so he had to tell her ( i dont see why) We got back home 10days later and i asked him again why are you putting her before me? And he said she needs help and advice and when he gets called for judgement by God he has to answer to why he stopped being friends with her because i said i dont like it..... so i asked him if it was the other way round and i was ringing a guy the way he is would he be happy to which he said no because a man is man :/ and should know things
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