It doesn't matter if it doesn't say that. If you have read the whole bible, you will understand Godly teachings. Not many will have faith in it due to unbelief.
If a person chooses to have a marriage ceremony or chooses not to have a marriage ceremony; in the end of it all, they still will need to receive a marriage certificate proving that they are husband and wife. The bible is quite frank about this matter. If they not legally married and they happen to commit fornication, than they are sinning against God, but they will not be sinning against the governors, the authorities, etc...
Did I not show to you verse
Hebrews 13:4? Did you read it or did you just overlooked it?
IT IS STATED:
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Tell me. How does a person get into an divorce? By
writing a certificate of divorce according to
Mark 10:2-12 and Deuteronomy 24:1-5. Does God accepts anyone getting into an divorce in this day and age? No.
So if someone who is legally married files for a divorce, and decides to get remarried again, that person will become an adulterer. How is that hard for you to understand?
There is also a another chapter that I have previously shown to the OP where it speaks about marriage in general which I'm referring to
1 Corinthians 7, but for some odd reason, the OP is trying to fight against it which makes no sense since the main topic of his thread is about marriage in general. His post is called
"Just how Biblical is the whole "no sex until after the wedding ceremony" thing? Like duh! Plus he's agreeing to an non-religious person's statement which he stated that sex before marriage is not wrong. So this should tell me and others on here that he wants us to believe that sex before marriage is right. I have a feeling that the OP is only here to cause debates and quarrels about words which the bible/Paul warns us not to indulge in. It's mentioned in verse
2 Timothy 2:14-19 and
Titus 3:9-11.
I understand that the OP only wants to focus on the topic about "WEDDING CEREMONY," but the truth of the matter is, is that no one actually has the answer to his question. The only person that has that answer is God which I told him to ask God. The OP pretty much answered his own question anyways because he stated to all of us on here that the word WEDDING CEREMONY is not in the bible. Okay, I understand that the word is not in the bible, but the word does say that people should get married if they can not control themselves which is stated in verse
1 Corinthians 7:1-2.
Also, in verse 1 Corinthians 7:7-9, Paul said:
"Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion" (1 Corinthians 7:7-9).
So what do you not understand? The OP already addressed that he knows the law and that he is familiar with the verses that I've given him about sexual sins, but yet, he still not satisfied with the answer. So what is it that he really wants us to tell him? I believe he wants us to tell him that he should go right ahead and not get married because the word marriage/wedding ceremonially is not in the bible. I find that kind of statement dangerous for a person to say to another because others will read it and think that they should go right ahead and get themselves a partner to not marry due to the fact that the bible does not address the word wedding ceremonial in it. Once a person is convince of this, they will plan to sin/fornicate against God's will. Also they will end up thinking to themselves that weddings and marriages is not of God. Well, weddings and marriages is of God. God wants people to get married if they choose to. Read verse
1 Timothy 4:1-3 which addresses about this.
1 TIMOTHY 4:1-3 SAYS:
"The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth" (1 Timothy 4:1-3).
To clarify, I meant that nowhere in scripture does it state that having a ceremony (that which is according to the laws of the land) is what ordains a marriage. I didn't say that God does not ordain, just that the ceremony in and of itself is not what makes a marriage (a union of two to be one flesh) holy and sacred. I guess I fail to read carefully enough.
It's sorta ironic, I guess...for lack of a better term comes to mind, that there are no laws in America as of yet, which is where Chris is, that forbid fornication. His original question was is sex before "marriage" sinful IF the two people have committed in the eyes of God. The nuance is found in the BEFORE marriage. His question is, where does the bible lay those specifics out. I, along with Chris, cannot find those specifics. Pointing out bit and chunks of scripture isn't going to convince me. That's to say, I am not convinced that the bible says that two people who intend on marrying are committing fornication by consumating their union prior to a ceremony. Could I be wrong? of course. I just don't see where God forbids premarital sex between two people who have committed their union to God. Is it a good idea? I don't know. I just don't see it in the bible being forbidden.