Money. Women tend to be drawn to money, or the likelihood that you will be making good money soon. I work with many single women and they talk about such things. I'm old enough that I'm invisible to them so they are at ease around me.
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Money. Women tend to be drawn to money, or the likelihood that you will be making good money soon. I work with many single women and they talk about such things. I'm old enough that I'm invisible to them so they are at ease around me.
Because, while I am sure you are capable of explaining what attracts you, Women statistically have been unable to explain what pushes their "attraction triggers"....IE.....Woman saying she wants, kind man/provider, but dates the jerks. Basically she says one thing and really does the opposite.
When I think about the guys I've liked in the past, they've all been very varied in appearance and personality... The only real similiarity was their passion for God.
I always enjoy being able to laugh with whoever I'm with, so a sense of humour is pretty important. Being kind and gentle is also important, but he should also have a strength of character about him.
The only physical feature I insist upon is a tall man... I'm 5'8, and I'd very much like my future husband to be taller than I am.
Chances are, if that is something that you find attractive then you should look for it and you will likely find it. It's not something that's going to change over time. the 5'6" guy won't grow to be 6 foot no matter how much Wheaties he eats.