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And as I said I disagree. Just saying it again will not make it so. You have failed to provide any evidence for this need. A need for food and water you can demonstrate. A need for God? How do you demonstrate that?
Didn't I ask you not to say "God is in your life but you fail to see it"? That's what this is saying.....
And by your definition if a need is not fulfilled (water, food) you will die. Hence my question - how am I not dead if there is no God in my life? And again, please don't say there is God in my life without something to back it up.
As per above, I think the onus is really on you to demonstrate the need exists.
I didn't tell you how to answer, I told how not to answer.IYes you did - but I can't be expected to answer your question when you're telling me how to answer it![]()
So it comes down to how you define a need. Would you be good enough to make it clear what you consider to be the difference between a need and a want? At the moment it seems to be quite arbitrary.That's obviously the wrong conclusion to make - who said that if a need isn't fulfilled then you die? That's clearly not true - we all have basic emotional needs that aren't always fulfilled, but you don't die if they are not met.
So it comes down to how you define a need. Would you be good enough to make it clear what you consider to be the difference between a need and a want?
I agree that needs are universal. But saying god is a need is arbitrary. The whole point of a need is that if it is not met there is a consequence. What is the consequence of there being no god in my life? None. So it is not a need.Sure.
A need is universal in that it is something that is necessary for everyone. For example, family, friendship, love etc. Some needs are fundamental for survival such food, water, warmth etc, other needs are not life dependent but are essential in other ways.
A want is individual and expresses a preference or desire for something. This goes over and above what falls in to the category of needs. You can do without a want and you won't be deficient in any way (although you may feel a bit hard done by).
To illustrate, I would define "God" as a need and "religion" as a want.
I believe everyone needs God.
I don't believe everyone needs religion. People want or choose religion. It's man-made and expresses our preferred way of worshipping whatever God we believe in, and that is why there are different world religions. And then these different world religions create their own "gods" - all very confusing!!
I don't need religion or Christianity to believe in God. His existence isn't dependent on any religion to substantiate, prove or justify it.
A need for God is a far more authentic and basic need than we give it credit for.
That is why quite often atheists often don't differentiate between God and religion. I can understand why this happens, but a real understanding of what these both actually are will show that they are so completely different.
This is why when Anthony Flew renounced atheism (becoming a deist) he did not embrace any religion or Christianity. He could believe in a God and reject the atheistic worldview, but he wasn't prepared to accept or follow any religion either...
I would you suggest you might try something more formalised. Maslow would be a good start.
I agree that needs are universal. But saying god is a need is arbitrary. The whole point of a need is that if it is not met there is a consequence. What is the consequence of there being no god in my life? None. So it is not a need.
Stop it. I've said it doesn't apply to me (and I'm sure there are plenty of others who would, if needed, say the same) so it is not a universal need. Therefore it is arbitrary.I don't think it's arbitrary - arbitrary means it's a random choice or a comment made on impulse. I've said twice before that it's based on evidence from other disciplines which supports my belief. So it's not arbitrary.
You tell me what the consequence is - I've already said there is none.With regards to consequences - how can you be so sure?
Finally you the approach the light? If you chose to reject something and there were no consequence then that would be exactly what it meansI could outwardly AND inwardly deny the need for friendship and then go an live as a recluse - does this mean that friendship isn't a need?
Are you serious? You're the one who says it is a need, so you tell me what you think the consequences are. If you have no answer then let that speak for itself!Let me ask you a question. Hypothetically, speaking, what consequence(s) would you have expected there to be if God is a need?
Stop it. I've said it doesn't apply to me (and I'm sure there are plenty of others who would, if needed, say the same) so it is not a universal need. Therefore it is arbitrary.
You tell me what the consequence is - I've already said there is none.
Finally you the approach the light? If you chose to reject something and there were no consequence then that would be exactly what it means
Are you serious? You're the one who says it is a need, so you tell me what you think the consequences are. If you have no answer then let that speak for itself!
No. You keep skirting the issue but I'm trying to get you there. You keep ignoring this basic requirement in the definition - the non-fulfillment of a need has consequences. You seen me ppointing that out many times but it just isn't sinking in, is it?Ok I think were still struggling here with the basics of understanding the difference between what is and isnt a human need. Haven't I defined it enough times for you?![]()
So the need only exists if you believe it? Way to go proving that god is a want, not a need.The consequences of godlessness are huge but you have to believe in God to begin with.
You really don't understand the difference between needs and wants, do you? See above....If you reject the need for something, does that need go away? Obviously not! It just means you have rejected it! Where on earth does the consequence ever come in to establishing whether a need ever actually existed?
You tell me. That's the whole point, isn't it? I keep telling you there are non because it is not a need.I actually raised the question because you seemed to be quite hung up on this point, in that you observe no consequences in your mind for a non belief in god, but in reality what consequences would there be for someone who is a sceptic anyway?
You keep ignoring this basic requirement in the definition - the non-fulfillment of a need has consequences.
Surely my definition of a need and a want in post#68 was clear enough?
http://www.christianforums.com/t7611436-7/#post59182434
You are right, I did say that.You said previously it doesnt apply to me.. therefore the need isnt universal?
Am I right or wrong?
I thought we'd agreed it applies to every single human being? So if there is one single exception it is not universal.Im not skirting round the issue Im trying my best to pin down the definition of universal.
And then you spend 90% of the rest of your post agreeing with it?Regarding consequences, I disagree with your point.
Actually ALL of Maslow's needs have consequences if not met - which is what I've been saying all along and you spent the rest of your post agreeing with.Maslow different groups of needs some have consequences if they are not met (severe ones in the case of basic needs) others do not like esteem and self-actualization needs.
What? No idea what you mean by "category". The only grouping I've done is to say that non-fulfillment of needs has consequences. And that applies to all needs.But you cannot lump all human needs in to the same category. You are doing precisely this which is a fundamental error.
And I've been asking you to tell us what those consequences are. The timeframe is not important but you can add it in if that makes it easier.So Im saying that there are consequences of a deficient need for God, but that for some (if not many) the consequences are not always immediate.
Your definition was incorrect, and so the rest of your argument does not follow. Family and friends are not human needs, but human desires. You can function without them. A need is something without which you will stop functioning (the exact level of function depends on whether we're going for higher brain function or just living, even if it's in a coma, etc.).
What you're saying is the equivalent of saying that a recipe needs seasoning, otherwise it won't taste as nice. You can use the word need, but that doesn't make seasoning a requirement for the recipe to work.
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In future, before commenting on these posts please can you define the terms that you use for the sake of transparency - for example, define YOUR definition of a need and provide examples.
Everyone knows that was Al Gore!!!![]()