How do you feel a god could have a plan for you if you also believe you have free will? When any number of free-will decisions could have happened to prevent you from even existing?
If your mother and your father had had free will, they could have made the decision to not begin dating each other. The day before your mother met your father, she could have made a free will to decision to begin dating someone else. Same goes for your father. Your mother could have made a free will decision to have an abortion when she was pregnant with you, is this not true? Your parents could have decided not to have intercourse the day they conceived you (sorry, but this is an adult conversation), or could have done it a month earlier, in which case it would have been a different egg and a different sperm (again, an adult conversation), and therefore you would have been composed of a completely different genetic make-up (you could have been the opposite gender, etc.).
When your mother was a child, a stranger (any of an infinite number of them) could have made a free will decision to drive recklessly, run a red light and end up killing her with his/her car as she crossed the street. In fact, in pretty much any day in the lives of your either of your parents up until the day you were born, a countless number of free will decisions could have been made by a countless number of people that would have resulted in you never being born.
The same goes for your four grandparents. For example, your grandfather could have made a different decision one day during WW II, stepped on a landmine, and never would have made it home to father your mom or dad. The same goes for your great-grandparents, and their parents, all the way back down the line through countless generations.
So if you believe that such a god has a plan for you, and you also believe that we have free will, then such a god would have to be keeping his fingers crossed that everyone makes the appropriate decisions countless numbers of times every single day for thousands and thousands of years! Because otherwise, you would not even be here.
If your mother and your father had had free will, they could have made the decision to not begin dating each other. The day before your mother met your father, she could have made a free will to decision to begin dating someone else. Same goes for your father. Your mother could have made a free will decision to have an abortion when she was pregnant with you, is this not true? Your parents could have decided not to have intercourse the day they conceived you (sorry, but this is an adult conversation), or could have done it a month earlier, in which case it would have been a different egg and a different sperm (again, an adult conversation), and therefore you would have been composed of a completely different genetic make-up (you could have been the opposite gender, etc.).
When your mother was a child, a stranger (any of an infinite number of them) could have made a free will decision to drive recklessly, run a red light and end up killing her with his/her car as she crossed the street. In fact, in pretty much any day in the lives of your either of your parents up until the day you were born, a countless number of free will decisions could have been made by a countless number of people that would have resulted in you never being born.
The same goes for your four grandparents. For example, your grandfather could have made a different decision one day during WW II, stepped on a landmine, and never would have made it home to father your mom or dad. The same goes for your great-grandparents, and their parents, all the way back down the line through countless generations.
So if you believe that such a god has a plan for you, and you also believe that we have free will, then such a god would have to be keeping his fingers crossed that everyone makes the appropriate decisions countless numbers of times every single day for thousands and thousands of years! Because otherwise, you would not even be here.