Does Size matter when it comes to dating

[yam]

Does Size,attractiveness and height matter when it comes to dating ? It will be intresing to hear from the guys?

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Yep, I prefer shorter ladies; but I've dated some taller ladies, and it's nice to see eye to eye on things in more ways than one; however petite girls are where it's at for me.

 

[christiananna]

I am not a guy but I think it does. It shouldn't - as Christians I dont think we should be so superficial but lets be honest - it really does.

 

[broken_one]

As long as they are shorter than me (most I'd say are), that's fine. Obviously I date women I'm attracted to (thank you Ericka for reminding me of that), and size.....idk what you meant by that.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

lol, well, what do you think about when she mentioned size? I know there's a few things that come to mind: weight, curves, frame. Those all play part in my decision anyway.

 

[EyesOfKohl]

Does Size,attractiveness and height matter when it comes to dating ? It will be intresing to hear from the guys?

Sorry to say this, but I wouldn't date a 'larger' woman. It's just not suitable for me personally, neither is a really thin woman.

Attractiveness varies, I like to appreciate everyones uniqueness, what Elaha (God) has given them. But I like to see people who are healthy and take care of themselves.

Height isn't very important to me, I don't think you'll get alot of women taller than me lol

 

[Andrew12]

yes to all3:

The SIZE of the pizza matters. b/c ya don't wanna be on a date while hungry.
The ATTRACTIVENESS of your tie is important because the girls may look at ya funny.
The HEIGHT of the Ice Cream Sundae is important so there is enough to share.

 

[crishmael]

I've been attracted to girls with variables in all three. So I don't think I have any requirements in that area. I'm far more interested in her personality and stuff.

 

[Annie Mouse]

I'd say it's one of those things that shouldn't matter, but unfortunately it does.
I guess that's just life - we live in a fallen world.

 

[SullivanZ]

I like shorter ladies myself. Attractiveness is important too. I don't know what you mean by size though.

 

[Annie Mouse]

By the way, I'm tall and thin. I've always been considered underweight for my height. But I've met some guys who considered me "too tall" for them, even not too long ago a guy who was slightly taller than I. (I'm about 5'8.75") The average guy seems to prefer females who are shorter than they are. But there are also exceptions!

 

[Miles]

Attractiveness matters to me, but size doesn't.

 

[Dzhessika]

No it doesn't matter there's more to a guy then his physical apparence ,weight ,height etc and who know's the reason why he's over weight i'm certainly not going to be one to limit it since I am not perfectly in shape as it is it wouldn't be right for me to judge someone based on looks alone its more about personality and how well we mesh. Height It would be nice to have him my height or slightly taller just for security feeling but if God chooses to bless me with someone shorter then that would be alright too!

 

[SplendidTree]

I don't have any specific preferences.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Yeah, I'm 6'2'' and ideally I prefer a girl around 5'-5'4''; I've dated women that are 5'11'' though, I like bein' able to kiss a girl without havin' to bend down all the time; I think it all boils down to science though, or at least in my case, you see... lol who am I kidding, I just like bein' able to pick up a girl in my arms easily and as far as curves go, the more the merrier

 

[Oddish]

This question made me think this was about something else.




To answer the OP, preferably I would like to date someone taller than me and who looks after themselves (not to an obsessive extent though).

 

[MehGuy]

No I would not date a woman who is overweight. For some reason they scare me, I'm not kidding I actually have some phobia regarding this.

I would also not date someone who was taller than me.

 

[Stravinsk]

Eye level or shorter please. I'm 6'2 so this isn't normally an issue.

 

[waves16]

I'd like the guy I date to be taller than me, but I'd be fine if they weren't.
As for size...I think I'd look more at the lifestyle. If the person was overweight but stayed active and would go hiking and do outdoors stuff with me, that'd be fine. If the person was thin but ate nothing but pizza pops and stayed inside playing video games all day, that would be a problem. I'm not overweight, but my body isn't perfect, so I wouldn't expect anybody that I date to have a perfect body either.
As for attractiveness, there are things that are far more important. I like guys that are attractive, but what I consider attractive is probably not average. I've dated guys that my friends considered to be unattractive, or downright ugly, but I thought they were quite cute or handsome. Just having a nice smile or awesome beard is attractive to me, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt.

 

[Obzocky]

This question made me think this was about something else.

Me too.
I hope it was the same thing