In big hurry...but here is a quick reply.
1. I think I understand well enough that my salvation is not works based....but Jesus loved me even when I was His enemy, and died that I might live....if I believed on Him....everything had been done for me.
He gave us the grace to cooperate with or not.
It says in scriptures we are to work out our salvation - we are to work out our salvation -
WE are to WORK out our salvation....
with fear and trembling.
Trembling - yes actual fear of losing the Lord... which means we can go to hell for our lacking as the lazy servant did.
I am not being mean when i ask - should that and the Epistle of St James be torn out of the scriptures?
That verse tells us what exactly?
Answer: THAT WE must work out our salvation and although Christ made it possible with His graces and His WORK which opened up Heaven -
does not negate our own part in it.
Repeating - we MUST work out our own salvation - through the gifts of the Holy Spirit.
2. The Scripture you quoted in John...some believe talks of the water that comes when you are born from your mothers womb....e.g. her waters break....but you have to see that although we should all be baptised, and it should really be when we are at an age to know what we are doing (see Philip and the Eunuch)...baptism does not save us, our faith in what Jesus accomplished for us, saves us....that is elementary.
DO you see that you are quoting modern thinkers?
Some say...?
The Church has always taught it is through Baptism that we are born again.
Later - i shall have to find early fathers writings.
Whole households include babies and children...
WHOLE HOUSEHOLDS included babies.
The Epistle says - Baptism is for our children and children from far off...
The few Scriptures that seem to link baptism to salvation must be weighed against the many more that demonstrate the our faith saves us.
The Scripture about being born again is found in John 3:3...see also 1Peter 1:23.
Faith is only relative to what we do with it.
FIRST and foremost - remember the scripture that clearly tells us we are buried in Christ's death thru Baptism?
DO you recall that?
Ok then... now reread the scripture of Peter and let's see he is repeating Baptism and not our words only...and take it in a whole.
Peter 1
[21] Who through him are faithful in God,
who raised him up from the dead, and hath given him glory, that your faith and hope might be in God. [22] Purifying your souls in the obedience of charity, with a brotherly love, from a sincere heart love one another earnestly:
[23] Being born again not of corruptible seed, but incorruptible, by the word of God
who liveth and remaineth for ever. [24] For all flesh is as grass; and all the glory thereof as the flower of grass. The grass is withered, and the flower thereof is fallen away.
[25] But the word of the Lord endureth for ever. And this is the word which by the gospel hath been preached unto you.
CONTEXT:
We are raised up through Baptism - because we are buried in Baptism with His death and resurrection - and this is only so by the word of the MOUTH [Christ is the Word] of God.
Who liveth forever and was forever prior to living and dying as a human.
Context Zazal.
Modern thinking takes it way out of context.
Peter did not need to reteach what was already taught for them to understand again - being Baptized in the water and Holy Spirit - gives us the born again experience, because we are reborn to Christ's resurrection and not just the flesh.
Context of the whole of scriptures.