Using the tools the best way they have been taught includes women in very short skirts being "extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist"?
I was refering very specifically to those Catholics that regularly and voluntarily go to Eucharistic adoration. While I am sure there are exceptions, I feel pretty confident in saying taht the girls in short skirts are not voluntarily taking time out of their day on anything close to a regular basis to woship Christ in the Eucharist. So, if you were asking a real question up there then, No, that is not an example of using the best tools because wearing a short skirt to Church (or anywhere, in my opinion) defies common sense. But yes, it happens all the time, I would agree with you that I see this nonsense more in a RCC parish in the US than in an Orthodox Parish in the US.
Using the tools the best they know includes having the priest sit down during communion while the "extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist" distribute communion?
This perhaps is a bit more to my point. I agree that the Eucharistic ministers is, at best, VERY abused in the Catholic Church. 1) there's a reason it's called "extraordinary" but you and I would both readily agree that no one would have ANY idea it were to be a practice reserved for "extraordinary" circumstances. 2) I believe it should be done away with completely, but I guess that's a different thread.
However, post Vatican II Catholics who are very devout might have no idea that a Eucharistic Minister is an abuse of a Catholic economia. My point is not that this practice (as an example) or the practice of only fasting for 1 hour (as the original example) is good in and of itself. They aren't. But we have to be careful to place blame and intention. EXTREMELY pious individuals don't wear short skirts to Church. BUT, they might follow bad form that was taught them (like the practices mentioned) because what made them pious in the first place (humility and listening to and learning from your priest, etc.) is what made them accept that fasting only 1 hour and being a Eucharistic minister is a good and pious practice.
Rome's definition of extraordinary and mine are two totally different things.
Agreed. But that's not the issue at hand. All of us agree that Vatican II brought about a lot of issues that have caused great spiritual distress on the RCC... and you know that better than I. Even an outsider like myself can see that.
I am sorry, you have a very romantic view of how the Roman Catholic Church is and exists today.
I disagree. I tend to be nuanced on my view at times to focus on the positive because this forum does plenty to be negative about the RCC. if everyone is saying waht's wrong about the RCC, that's great. But I don't think I need to repeat it. It's said. However, if not a lot of people are pointing out what is good about the RCC or Catholic individuals despite their Church's foibles, then I see that as a worthy issue to take up.
I also disagree in that I think our experiences are just as real. They are just different. no doubt, yours is more expansive and deeper. However, although I don't claim to have seen nearly as much as you have, that doesn't mean you've experienced everything I have.
Let's keep in mind that most of what my Catholic experience is based on is within the last 10 years, in which there has been an enormous resurgeance of young Catholics (my age and younger) thirsting for a more Catholic Catholicism. My experience is based on two years spent in Spain, one of which I became very close to a neo-catecumenal group, including a priest, who played major roles in my not living my life like every other foreign student using the year to "sow their oats". Honestly, if it were not for the Catholic Church (and yes, I was Orthodox then) in my weakness I would have probably made a LOT more mistakes than I already had. My experience is also based on a small student fellowship of serious Catholics who refused to meet at the Campus parish because (at the time) it was more liberal than what you describe here below (rainbow flag... the whole gammot.) and out of that small group, three went on to become priests and one is now a nun. No exaggeration.
Then thirdly my experience is based off of going to baptisms or whatever reason brings me to a Catholic Mass on a random Sunday and, yes, I see the priest turned around, the protestant hymns, the Eucharistic ministers and all of that that both you and I cringe at.
Now, the neo-catechumens and the fellowship group are not refelctive of the majority of Church-going Catholics. However, they are reflective of a movement in their respective cultures that is looking for a deeper, truer Catholicism that the craziness/abuse/use (however one sees it) of Vatican II that ensued soon after its implementation. And from what I understand that ressurgeance is about 15 years old. I don't know what precipitated it, but you see more Catholics voting pro-life and Republican, you see the results like the recent surprise election of the President of the USCCB and so on.
I mention both of these things because they were very, very common occurences for me to see all throughout my youth and while in college and even seminary.
I don't doubt it for a minute because I have seen it too... and I still do.
I fail to see how either of those facts shows that Rome uses the best tools it has!!!
And here is the crux of the issue. I never said ROME does. I said specifically DEVOUT CATHOLICS use the tools given to them in the best way that they can. If I know nothing about building a house and my mentor gives me a coconut for a hammer and I do the best I can wtih that... does that make ME absurd or my mentor? Clearly its the latter.
In the end, my larger point was simply that, interestingly enough, as much as we may disagree with Eucharistic Adoration, those who tend to go voluntarily on a regular basis, tend also to be the type that don't wear mini-skirts to church and use the most pious tools given to them by their church. many of them simply are unaware that fasting from the night before is actually THE Catholic practice whereas the hour before is what was meant to be the minimum (an economia).