Okay..I am not sure whether that question is right..It is like this...
There are times in life when you come across people whose actions you cant agree to or accept..who repeatedly put you down,who repeatedly harm you ..
You can pray for them and not hate them
But you dont like them ...I mean these are the kind of people you wont trust ,or be friends with....Is this possible with Christians
Is it right for us to do this ..I mean is this Christ like ..
I am in such a situation.I am careful making friends -I definitely cant like everyone -there are certain things about certain people that I don't like and I disagree to -I know I am not perfect either....but I am nice to them and infact I am also friendly and helpful to them..even though they have harmed me ...
One of my friends was telling me -that is unChrist like if we don't like people...if we are not very friendly..that maybe true in my case -cause I am not very cheerful with people-I really do keep a distance -especially from people who spread gossip,who tell lies in office....my friend tells me that I look so un Christlike and mean...
Do you think I should change ...again I would like to point out I am courteous and helpful when the situation comes -not thar friendly..and love is definitely not bubbling inside of me..though I do pray for their welfare...
How can I change??
All advice and point welcome
There are times in life when you come across people whose actions you cant agree to or accept..who repeatedly put you down,who repeatedly harm you ..
You can pray for them and not hate them
But you dont like them ...I mean these are the kind of people you wont trust ,or be friends with....Is this possible with Christians
Is it right for us to do this ..I mean is this Christ like ..
I am in such a situation.I am careful making friends -I definitely cant like everyone -there are certain things about certain people that I don't like and I disagree to -I know I am not perfect either....but I am nice to them and infact I am also friendly and helpful to them..even though they have harmed me ...
One of my friends was telling me -that is unChrist like if we don't like people...if we are not very friendly..that maybe true in my case -cause I am not very cheerful with people-I really do keep a distance -especially from people who spread gossip,who tell lies in office....my friend tells me that I look so un Christlike and mean...
Do you think I should change ...again I would like to point out I am courteous and helpful when the situation comes -not thar friendly..and love is definitely not bubbling inside of me..though I do pray for their welfare...
How can I change??
All advice and point welcome