how did the universe become to be / who or how was it created???
- serious question
Wiccan started off with a good general answer.
In the days when Big Bang theory was first being put forth, there were other scientists who held to an alternate theory, the Steady State theory. Steady State is kind of rooted in old Greek philosophical ideas, that the universe had always been, would always be, and had neither beginning nor end - not spatially or in time. It was the work of Hubble, amongst others, that provided the observed evidence that Steady State was wrong - the expansion of the universe, for example, could be accounted for by Big Bang (and in fact was predicted by that theory as a consequence), but Steady State had no answer for it. There were attempts to reconcile it with evidence, but it didn't take long for it to be abandoned and BB accepted as correct.
So given that - what happened at the Big Bang? That's still something being worked out. We know a great deal now about what happened in the early universe not long after it began - say, after the first three minutes of its existence (at which point most or all of the physical laws that govern our universe today also governed that early universe). Beyond a certain time, however, we can't yet really discover much. There is a certain time in the early universe before the first atoms formed. Atoms are mostly empty space, and the space around them is mostly empty space even with other atoms around. So it's fairly easy to see "through" such points in space-time. But prior to atoms forming, there's far less empty space - physical laws that allow for atoms now were not in operation, so it was possible for space to be far less empty - you could pack particles into a much denser space. In essence that makes a kind of barrier in our vision - we literally can't see past a certain point in space-time because it's just not physically possible to. (Yet, anyway)
Before that, it's likely there was no such thing as matter - matter had not formed yet. Energy was all there was - and that energy then became the energy that formed into matter (as General Relativity holds it does). That energy was bound up in a tiny, tiny bit of space-time that then expanded, rapidly, and continues to expand today as our universe, our space-time.
Just as matter and energy are bound together, one able to become the other, so are space and time. Space and time do not exist separately from each other in our universe. So, if the universe was, at some point, bound up into an infinitesimally small space, a space the size of zero, then time also was at zero - with zero space, there is zero time. Once space began to expand, so did time.
Essentially that means it's nonsense in science to ask "what happened before the big bang" because there was nothing that COULD happen before the big bang. Time, as we understand and experience it in this universe, did not exist. (Language gets confusing here because we cannot help but say things like "time didn't exist back then." Back then? That implies time! How can time exist within time? It can't, and that's just a fault of our language - but not of physics.)
If there were any space other than our universe, it is outside our universe and not bound by the laws of physics of this universe. If there were any time other than our universe, it's not part of the time we experience in our universe. So yes, there COULD be a "before" the big bang, but that before is necessarily a completely different "time" than the time of our universe, and not connected in any way.
Now, whatever caused the big bang to happen is also necessarily outside the realm of our universe's physics. If something could 'cause' the 'effect' of the big bang, but time of our universe did not exist except as an effect of that cause, then that 'cause and effect' had to be a chain of events that occured in a different space-time - an extra-dimension, maybe. But it cannot be considered a cause and effect within our own sense of time.
That generally means that whatever it was that *caused the Big Bang is something outside our current understanding of physics and science in general. That doesn't mean we can't possibly know or develop theories about it... it just means it's much harder to get any evidence of it.
Could it be a 'who' instead of a 'what'? Sure. But such a 'who' is equivalent to a 'what' because it's just as incomprehensible, being outside the realm of physical understanding.