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Source? How do any of these three destroy lives, people and relationships?
Thankyou for asking. I will in the space available and so as not to bore your with intermingable notes, explain things as I have experienced and see them.
Pornography is a substitute for reality. Many who look at it project the unreality of it onto others and expect the unreality to become the reality. Ted Bundy, who raped and killed about 10 women said that it all started when he got hooked on pornography. The unreality of what he saw became the motivating factor in the way that he dealt with women.
As a result, he apprehended women to satisfy his craving to experience what he saw in porn magazines and once he had his way with them, killed them as they were no longer useful to him.
Domestic violence can be result of pornography. Again the man has unrealistic expectations that porn has given him and then wants to act out what he has seen. His wife does not want to satisfy his abnormal craving so violence happens as a result as a means for the man to subdue and sumit his wife to his fantasies.
In many cases of rape, the motivating factor is pornography. Most porn gives the impression that the man is the dominator and the women is the slave. A man who feels inadequate and feeds on porn will abuse another woman sexually as he believes that is a way to cover up his inadequacy.
Recreational sex is destructive as it gives the impression that it is a case of easy come, easy go. I have heard some young men say that when they go out their main objective is to find a woman that they can get laid with.
This gives them a negative attitude of women and they become people who are to be used for their pleasure. The end result is that they are unable to maintain any meaningfull permanent relationships because it is all determined by the type of the sex that is provided.
When the man gets bored with his wife because sex is not like it is in the porn books and CDs, he ups and finds him another girl who can spice up his sex life. As a result marriage is only a convenience for him until he wants out to get more sex or more varied sex.
One young man who said he was going to be a virgin until he was married was asked "but what if she is no good in bed."
He said that as this would be the first girl he had sex with, he did not have to make any comparisons.
As far as homosexuality goes, the main reason that a person is SSA is due to a deficient emotional relationship with their father (boys) and their mother (girls).
This produces a spirit of rejection which clouds the person's ability to form and maintain normal relationships. Because he/she has this rejection, they develop a defensive attachment to prevent themselves from being hurt again, but at the same time because they are desperately needing love and acceptance, there is a reparative drive in them that wants to form a close relationship with another person of the same sex.
All these emotions working against each other lead to the person disliking themselves and they spend most of their time admiring people that they would like to be.
A SSA person is not looking for sex, only an accepting relationship. However, if the sex happens again and again, it is firmly implanted in his mind that sex equals love and acceptance, so there is a constant drive to have sex with as many people as possible to maintain that sense of acceptance.
Unfortunately it becomes self defeating because with their heigtened sex drive brought about by an emotional defficiency, they chase one person after another and fail to establish anything that is long lasting and satisfying. I know there are exceptions to the rule but exceptions do not make the rule.
The bottom line is that they spend a lifetime of rejection and dissapointment, never to find total fulfillment. The rate of suicide amongst homosexuals is not their treatment from society as the homosexual propogandist would have us believe. The main cause is the rejection experienced by other homosexuals.
After spending a night is some venue trying to hook up with someone, which could mean approaching 20 or 30 people and getting nowhere, they arer left with annonymous sex in some dark corner or room with someone they don't know or cannot see.
Not the stuff of a happy and fulfilled life.
I hope that this has given you some insight into the real world which I was required to investigate as part of my university degree and during the time when I worked as a freelance social researcher for various organisations.