Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (7)

[.Mikha'el.]

Cuuuuuute.


No, it's just.. I see this person so infrequently. Makes it kind of tough.

When I see him, I feel like ----- >

Hopefully, it's someone from real life, not CF.

 

[white dove]

Lol what makes you say that, Petra?


Edit: It would be odd to run around like that if I saw someone from CF... *wonders what that would look like*

 

[.Mikha'el.]

I am not keen on CF crushes these days.

 

[white dove]

Please explain.

(I agree, somewhat, but please share)

 

[.Mikha'el.]

I have had two unpleasant experiences with romance on CF.

 

[white dove]

I see.


Well, these are my thoughts on them. They can be helpful to a certain extent because to see the things that you desire in someone else (even feeling excited to interact with someone who possesses the qualities you're looking for) can offer you hope if you don't find those combinations everyday. Sometimes, what you're looking for is not so easily accessible. It can encourage you: yes, such people DO exist. And sometimes, though rarely, these can develop into actual relationships.

Yet, other times, by having those interests in people who are merely online and nothing more might stunt a person who otherwise might suffer in regard to real-life interactions (or social skills). It is too easy for things to be blown way out of proportion, misunderstandings to occur, etc.. By not having someone physically in front of you can alter the way that you treat them and they, you. Feelings can be unneccesarily hurt. I've seen young ones who encouraged their families to go on family vacations, centering around meeting someone they've interacted with online. I won't lie and say that I've never considered meeting a few people here and there (a CF reunion from '05/'06 is something I would definitely love to see happen, but that isn't even remotely realistic). But, sometimes, you just have to accept that online crushes are merely that. Crushes. And some of them can never go further than that.

*just as real-life ones don't always go further

 

[ido]

LoIt would be odd to run around like that if I saw someone from CF... *wonders what that would look like*

I'm guessing it would look something like this:

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Lol what makes you say that, Petra?


Edit: It would be odd to run around like that if I saw someone from CF... *wonders what that would look like*

That is exactly why I doubt your crush is from CF. I very much doubt you would be able to say you don't see him too often.

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Soon I will a crush on Megan Fox again haha.

 

[white dove]

Megan Fox....... yowza.

 

[GoodNewsJournalist]

Megan is not as beautiful as Melissa, and I am going to train myself to only have eyes for Melissa.

 

[HoosierCanuck]

*peeks in....looks around nervously...*

ummm....I really hope I'm not developing any crushes but ummmm......er........hmmmm......

 

[sweetlambofgod]

spill

 

[Inkachu]

There's a guy here that I WISH would have a crush on me. As usual. They're never interested.

You guys are missin' out. Seriously. Nobody makes cold cereal like I do.

 

[white dove]

I'm guessing it would look something like this:

Sweetheart, I may be a little free-spirited in some ways, but I highly doubt I would run around nekkid like that.


Or would I?








No wait... I wouldn't.

 

[Quoth]

I had a crush for about five minutes recently, but thank God I was able to talk some sense into myself and avoid any serious long-term injury.

 

[Tink]

I had a crush for about five minutes recently, but thank God I was able to talk some sense into myself and avoid any serious long-term injury.

According to your signature, you're only 18 years old.... O.O

 

[Quoth]

According to your signature, you're only 18 years old.... O.O

I'm 24...I have been a Christian since August 30, 1990.

 

[pixies27]

yes I do idk if he knows though

 

[Tink]

I'm 24...I have been a Christian since August 30, 1990.

Oh. :o