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Justaman0000

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so where are all these ex-gays then?

No one can seem to find them

heres a link to one, thats a good start seeing I googled it and found it instantly. I would give you a hundred more but seriously i don't have the time for that but im sure you will if you persue looking for them. It's a good testimony please read it.
Testimony Homosexual Deliverance
 
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But when you say the same thing about our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters it somehow does make it so. Why is that?




Where... and it is acceptable behavior that is not dealt with by banishing or killing... and no, I do not think gays should be killed or banished...
You made this assertion before…and were asked to back it up. So far you haven’t






In 1 Corinthians 6:9 is says, malakos nor arsenokoitEs will not enter into the Kingdom of God.

malakos = catamites = a boy or youth who is in a sexual relationship with a man.

arsenokoitEs = sodomites = One who engages in sodomy, thus, anal or oral copulation with a member of the opposite sex, or copulation with a member of the same sex.
There is nothing to support either translation. And historically these words were nto translated this way.

So clearly, the Bible says its wrong.
Racists happily quote the bible…and sadly the verses they use don’t have the transnational problems your have…so therefore racism must be acceptable…right?



I treat everyone the same way, the way I would like to be treated, thus, I do not mistreat gays. I do not agree with their life style, I do not accept it as being normal, but I never mistreat anyone.
Do you like having your life reduced to a “lifestyle”
Do you like being called abnormal?
 
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thats the problem, people have singled these people out just because they're different. Not only that they have belittled them by calling them a minority and sticking them in a nice little group. Prejudice in its worst form because its excepted. So why even call homosexuals or anyone a minority. I thought we were talking about people in general.
Because they are a minority. A minority that is discriminated against.

why pretend they are not a minority?
 
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But somehow gays and lesbians are less equal than others

says who? just because someone indulges in detestable practices doesn't mean someone is less. We are still to love everyone and do to others as we would have them do to us. that sounds pretty equal to me.

The point being that racists happily use the bible and invoke the name of God to justify their

Ok so you know its wrong, and so does everyone else that isn't brainwashed by what they take out of context to satisfy their own hatred.

So why does believing that homosexuality is immoral make homosexuality immoral but the same doesn’t’ hold true when applied to other minorities?

believing it is immoral doesn't make it immoral. Its immoral because God the almighty finds it detestable in his own eyes.


I thought God treated everyone as equal? How does detestable fit into equal?

because all people in this world are given life. good people have bad things happen to him and vise versa. Bad people have good things happen to them. God will reward everyone according to what they have done whether good or bad. God lets the sun rise on the good and the evil and he lets the rain fall on the wicked and teh righteous. God also offers the same salvation through faith to all people of the earth. And he rewards all who diligently seek him.


 
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heres a link to one, thats a good start seeing I googled it and found it instantly. I would give you a hundred more but seriously i don't have the time for that but im sure you will if you persue looking for them. It's a good testimony please read it.
Testimony Homosexual Deliverance
Oh yeah Matt Manning. He also claims that he was HIV positive but was “cured” through prayer….however he wont actually produce records to show he was ever diagnosed HIV positive.
 
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Ok so you know its wrong, and so does everyone else that isn't brainwashed by what they take out of context to satisfy their own hatred.

So it’s wrong when the target is non-whites…but why isn’t it wrong when the target is gays and lesbians?

believing it is immoral doesn't make it immoral. Its immoral because God the almighty finds it detestable in his own eyes.
This is exactly what racists say.



because all people in this world are given life. good people have bad things happen to him and vise versa. Bad people have good things happen to them. God will reward everyone according to what they have done whether good or bad. God lets the sun rise on the good and the evil and he lets the rain fall on the wicked and teh righteous. God also offers the same salvation through faith to all people of the earth. And he rewards all who diligently seek him.
Did you even read my question?
 
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All biblical laws…sorry

Yes old testament laws given to bring order to a whole new nation that had no orginization. They were given to make a holy nation of people and bring dicipline and order. Many of they were practicing idolatry and some of the idols and false Gods worshipped had very detestable practices and rituals. These laws were given to counteract the ways that they lived before God pulled them out of egypt.


Leviticus 21: 17-21 list 7 handicaps that may not approach the alter of God
The blind,
The crippled (which I take to mean anyone with an amputation as ell
hunchback,
dwarf,
the blind,
anyone who had testicular cancer
anyone suffering from eczema (not really a handicap thou)

wrong, it was the descendants of Aaron that had these imperfections that could not go to the alter. Not everyone, just the levite priests that had these imperfections. Just as God demanded perfect animals without any blemishes to be sacrifice so he demands that no one with an imperfection sacrifrice it.




Leviticus 19:27

This could have been because that people cut their hair a certain way as some sort of practice or ritual to a foriegn God. Jacob had everyone change their clothes, take out there earings, and get rid of their idols in Genesis 35:2-4. Earrings don't seem harmless now but then they were worn then probably for some religous or magical belief. And change their clothes? I wonder what they dressed like that they had to change their clothes, but i'm still sure it was for a good reason, just like moses told the israelites not to cut their hair at their sites. I still don't know why some people just take little things like this out of context without thinking about them and stretch it into a BIG exageration.
 
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So it’s wrong when the target is non-whites…but why isn’t it wrong when the target is gays and lesbians?
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Target? I didn't make a target out of anything. And if anyone goes out into this world with hate for a homosexual and makes a target out of them then thats wrong. Do you think im some racist, gay hating, southern white boy sitting here? In fact you don't even know me, but all the answers I have given have been with wisdom from God, and everything answered has been from his point of view and not from the eyes of men. Whether you want to believe that or not is up to you. Again, it doesn't matter what mans point of veiw is about a subject, it matters what God thinks.
 
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If you want to talk racism Bigbadwlf then please give us some example of the verses used in the racists defence. and heres another good site with some other testimonies to some "ex-gays" as you say. Hope 4 Homosexuals Happy reading.
 
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Yes old testament laws given to bring order to a whole new nation that had no orginization. They were given to make a holy nation of people and bring dicipline and order. Many of they were practicing idolatry and some of the idols and false Gods worshipped had very detestable practices and rituals. These laws were given to counteract the ways that they lived before God pulled them out of egypt.

You just said “none of that is true”

So why the backpeddling?
 
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Target? I didn't make a target out of anything. And if anyone goes out into this world with hate for a homosexual and makes a target out of them then thats wrong. Do you think im some racist, gay hating, southern white boy sitting here? In fact you don't even know me, but all the answers I have given have been with wisdom from God, and everything answered has been from his point of view and not from the eyes of men. Whether you want to believe that or not is up to you. Again, it doesn't matter what mans point of veiw is about a subject, it matters what God thinks.
And racists happily use the “wisdom of God” as well… but for some reason you don’t seem to like it when they do what you are doing. Why is that?
 
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But when you say the same thing about our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters it somehow does make it so. Why is that?
You made this assertion before…and were asked to back it up. So far you haven’t
There is nothing to support either translation. And historically these words were nto translated this way.
Racists happily quote the bible…and sadly the verses they use don’t have the transnational problems your have…so therefore racism must be acceptable…right?

Do you like having your life reduced to a “lifestyle”
Do you like being called abnormal?

Why do you care what I, or anyone else thinks... For I clearly said that while I do not like the way you live your life, if you have FAITH in JESUS, your sins are forgiven, and your salvation secured. For NO ONE IS SINLESS! The one who was, is your salvation.

Do you have FAITH?
 
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If you want to talk racism Bigbadwlf then please give us some example of the verses used in the racists defence. and heres another good site with some other testimonies to some "ex-gays" as you say. Hope 4 Homosexuals Happy reading.
Its really sad that something called “hope 4 homosexuals” relies on lies and the promotion of hatred

Just some of the lies presented:
There is no evidence that sexual orientation is inborn (there is quite a bit of evidence. There is however no evidence that sexual orientation can change)
Homosexuals are not a minority group (I guess pretending gays and lesbians aren’t a minority makes bigotry OK)
Homosexuals have shorter life expectancies (one of the more famous … infamous? Lies of the religious right)
There is “overwhelming evidence” that homosexuality stems form “traumatic childhood experiences”(…there is no such evidence)

Of course groups like this wouldn’t have much business if they didn’t lie

But it leads me to question why should I accept any of the vague testimonies …you notice no one ever says ‘I was homosexual and now I am heterosexual…its all spin and fluff and meaningless phrases… there when the site itself is filled with blatant lies.
 
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If you want to talk racism Bigbadwlf then please give us some example of the verses used in the racists defence. and heres another good site with some other testimonies to some "ex-gays" as you say. Hope 4 Homosexuals Happy reading.

That homosexuals are being told that they are REQUIRED by God/Jesus to change from being who they are is quite chilling. Inflicting the notion on others that a change of sexual orientation is the ONLY WAY to 'make it' with God is a HUMAN concept ...CERTAINLY NOT A 'GOD' CONCEPT!!

Moreover, we constantly hear from Christians that 'being gay' is something that one chooses. And yet, they also claim from the other side of their mouths that (Christian) THERAPY is required in order to change one's (unchosen) homosexual orientation. Which is it? Why is reparative (?) therapy required to change one's choice?

Thinking out loud: Should not reparative therapy be available/administered to homophobes and bigots (THEY, after all, have 'the problem') more so than a homosexual who is quite contented (if allowed to live unhassled by homophobes and bigots) with being who he/she is?

Hmmm . . .end of thinking out loud.
 
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Hopefully in the honor of God, in which I would not disagree with...

Do you have FAITH?

Do you have FAITH?

What does that mean in the case of one's belief or not in the veracity of the scriptures? I mean really ...? Is having faith that the Bible writers are beyond reproach in regard to their reporting for God the determining factor as to who is and who is not 'saved'?
 
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the fact that they have sex with the same sex.

Not all homosexuals and bisexuals are sexually active.

Not all sexually active bisexuals have sex with the same sex.

David.
 
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