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I have seen the same obscene argument (i.e., that rape victims are expected to resist. Thus, in failing to successfully to do so, they are responsible for the consequences.) used to support the notion that rape victims should be held responsible for any pregnancy that occurs (i.e., so they should not have access to abortion). It is an utterly reprehensible, which reveals far more about the moral integrity of those who use it than it does about the reality of rape.

Why? You are quick to voice an opinion but do not back it up. Where is your reasoning? But what should I expect from someone who obviously supports genocide.
 
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Why? You are quick to voice an opinion but do not back it up. Where is your reasoning? But what should I expect from someone who obviously supports genocide.

Why?!? Why do I believe that it is obscene to blame rape victims for not effectively resisting their attackers?!? How silly of me to think such things. Obviously, crime is not caused by criminals. It is caused by victims who don't resist their attackers effectively enough. So, when a 250 pound man forces himself sexually onto a 100 pound woman, it is not the man's fault committing the crime, but rather the woman's for . . . what? Not being physically strong enough to resist? Should we also blame children for sexual abuse, too? So when a 30 year old man tricks a 7 year old girl into complicity with his sexually deviant desires, it is the child's fault for not having had enough life experience to know that what the man wanted was wrong? Should we blame shooting victims for not being fast enough to run from the bullets that were fired at them? And by your reasoning, we should not even think of locking up criminals -- instead we should lock up the victims for making it possible for the criminals to commit their crimes. After all, if there was nobody available to be victimized by violent crime, it would be impossible to do it. By the reasoning that you seem to support, all of these are reasonable conclusions.

And, it is equally obscene for you to claim that I support genocide. I assume that this is what you say about people who support abortion. If so, I think that it a bit over the top. Nonetheless, such an accusation would be misguided and is not responsive to anything that I have stated. I believe that abortion is wrong, and that we as a society should strive for its elimination. But, at the same time, I must object when I see "Christians" making obscenely insensitive and absurd arguments to support their position on any given issue. And, I cited an example of how the disgusting "blame the victim" mentality has been used in other contexts.
 
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The homosexual act is an abomination to the Lord.

There is certainly no evidence of this whatsoever.

there are many countries where homosexuality is illegal.

True: Saudi Arabia, Iran, Iraq, Pakistan, Egypt, Malaysia and most likely nations in between them.
 
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Referring to abortion as "genocide" shouldn't it be "murder" but this thread is about Sodomites and getting their demands met. It worked in Canada and look at what's happened, a church was turned in for a sermon about Sodom and Gomorrah when the authorities got involved the congregation had to move across the border into the United States, "The Reason" in Canada its considered a hate crime to talk about how God destroyed those cities for their wickedness, now everything has gone in reverse, the Christians lose their rights and the Sodomites gain theirs. :sorry:

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And how do we go about accomplishing this? Constitutional amendment? Or do we wait for the Supreme Court to interpret this right into the Constitution? Short of a change in the Constitution or in the interpretation of the Constitution, I don't know that there is a legal basis for such a federal law.

Well - I don't think it needs an amendment. (unlike all the people who want to "protect" marriage...as if that means anything at all!)

Maybe we should just outlaw ALL marriage...that would represent true equality.


How exactly do we define what is and is not a "basic right" that "should NEVER be put to a vote"?

I don't know - how would YOU like to define those terms?

I think it's absurd to put my happiness (read - my marriage to one man for 24 years) in the hands of the supposedly educated, unbiased American public.
 
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Dies31 said:
Why?!? Why do I believe that it is obscene to blame rape victims for not effectively resisting their attackers?!?

That is better because now I can actually understand your point of view and point out a few misconceptions. A major misconception you have is that the resistance has to be effective. If a woman screams it is resistance and its effectiveness depends on whether anyone one hears and responds. Women have done so and have scared off their attacker or attracted attention that has stopped the attack. It also makes it a bit hard for the man, i.e. Kobe Bryant, to claim it was consensual sex as is too often done, at least if witnesses step forward. On the other hand if she doesn’t scream you are left with a he says, she says situation. You can take his word and possibly let guilty get away with their crime or you can take hers and possibly prosecute the innocent.

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And, it is equally obscene for you to claim that I support genocide.

You are correct that it is true that everyone who supports legalized homicide through abortion supports genocide. I realize you try to redefine who is a human being, but how is that different than what the Nazi’s did? Any competent biologist will tell you that from the state of development known as a zygote onward the offspring of a homo sapient couple is a living organism known as a human being. The wholesale killing of human beings without a justified reason is called genocide. So Yes I call a spade a spade.
 
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Yeah - I have a problem with victimizing the victim...it's deplorable, and it doubles the crime.

I believe most cultures that allow it also have the parents of the child or at least the father have the final say. I have a bit of trouble judging other cultures as I am not sure our solutions to the same problems are any better and they may be worse.
 
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Referring to abortion as "genocide" shouldn't it be "murder" but this thread is about Sodomites and getting their demands met. It worked in Canada and look at what's happened, a church was turned in for a sermon about Sodom and Gomorrah when the authorities got involved the congregation had to move across the border into the United States, "The Reason" in Canada its considered a hate crime to talk about how God destroyed those cities for their wickedness, now everything has gone in reverse, the Christians lose their rights and the Sodomites gain theirs. :sorry:

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Do you have a link to the news story about this?
I'd love to read it.
 
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The legal system of the country at hand it may be relevant to the question at hand as it is a reason why to or why not to oppose homosexual civil unions. You are unable to actually back up your conclusion as it is a dogmatic. I on the other hand did back up my argument.

Okay, since you deem it to be (however minimally) relevant to the O.P., I will make one last comment. You claim that you backed up your statement "all lawyers are liars" with an argument. But from what I can tell, the only "support" that you have given to your argument is that you do not know how a lawyer can be honest and successful. This is not logical support for your argument, but rather another conclusory statement that is not all that different from your initial conclusion. Piling conclusion on top of conclusion does not make a logical argument, unless you first provide some logical basis for each of your conclusions.

Finally, you stated that lawyers "oppress" you by allowing criminals to go free. Okay, this seems like an attempt at a logical argument, but it such a misinformed statement that I figured that it was not worthy of derailing a thread over. But, here is brief logical response to your statement.

First, not all lawyers are criminal defense lawyers. Some are prosecutors (whose job it is to protect you from criminals). Most lawyers are not involved in the criminal justice system at all. Thus, to blame all lawyers for the perceived abuses of a small minority of them is to paint an entire profession with an excessively broad brush stroke, which is exactly what I accused of doing from the outset.

Second, let's assume, arguendo, that criminal defense lawyers are representative of all attorneys. Even (especially?) criminal defense attorneys play an important role in defending your liberties. In protecting the rights of the worst of us, they protect the rights of the best of us. The framers of the U.S. Constitution inserted certain rights into our Constitution, including the right to resist unreasonable searches, the right to due process, and the right against self-incrimination. Why did they include these right next to the right to free speech and religion and such? Because, they were keenly aware, based on their experience, of the ability of oppressive governments to violate the dignity of everyday people by doing the very things that our Constitution now protects us from. These same rights are the basic building building blocks of many types of legal defenses in the criminal justice system. When the police build their case by violating the suspect's Fourth Amendment rights, then a lawyer's job is to have thrown out the evidence gained from this violation. A good judge will oblige the defense attorney in this scenario precisely because it is necessary to do so in order to keep the police from also violating the rights of the innocent. If there were no consequences for such constitutional violations, the police would have no reason to abide by the Constitution, and the Constitution would be worth no more than the paper it is written on. Fortunately, comparatively speaking, police in our country do their job in a way that respects that dignity of the innocent. This is due, in large part, to the fact that failure to do so, at least to the extent that it involves violating the constitutional rights of others, will result in the guilty not being brought to justice. And, because the police, by and large, want the guilty to be punished and, because the police understand this consequence of serious constitutional violations, it is quite rare they commit violations that result in allowing the guilty to go free. And, when a guilty person is allowed to go free because of such a violation, it is not the criminal defense lawyer who is at fault, but rather the police for failing to abide by the Constitution. Therefore, in arguing that a defendant's constitional rights have been violated, the attorney is not being dishonest, but rather he is asserting his client's legal rights and in doing so is creating a strong incentive for the government to repect your constitutional rights.

Finally, as to your objection that I failed to provide reasoned argument to your statement that a lawyer cannot be honest and successful at the same time. You have yet to provide any basis for this statement. So, how can I even begin to dispute it? If I provide you with examples of attorneys who I believe to be honest, you will either not know who they are or you will claim that they are dishonest (which is an accusation that can probably be made of anyone). Unless you can show that the legal profession is somehow inherently dishonest, it is impossible to discredit your reasoning, because you have provided none. Thus, all I can do is provide an equally conclusory statement that there is nothing inherently dishonest about the legal profession, so there is no reason to doubt the ability of an attorney to remain honest. I have now provided one example to demonstrate my point that lawyers protect your rights, but you have not provided any basis for me to accept your statement that one cannot be successful and honest in the legal profession. It seems that, if there were a logical basis for this statement, you would have provided it by now.

Now, this really is derailing the thread, so if you would like to continue to discuss, please start a new thread out of respect for the OP and those who would prefer not to participate in this tangential issue.
 
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Well - I don't think it needs an amendment. (unlike all the people who want to "protect" marriage...as if that means anything at all!)

Maybe we should just outlaw ALL marriage...that would represent true equality.

So what I read is that you would try to interpret that right into the Constitution via the 14th Amendment (equal protection). Some state supreme courts have made a similar arguments under similar provisions in their own states' constitutions. I don't know that this is a strong argument under the Federal Constitution, though. The counter argument is that all unmarried people have the right to marry an adult of the opposite sex of their own choosing, and so all of our rights are protected by the law. Perhaps, it can be argued that it violates equal protection to limit the right to persons of the opposite sex. But, couldn't it likewise be argued that it violates equal protection to limit the right to unmarried persons, thus opening the door for polygamy? And, in that case, isn't it conceivable that some people will choose to have large networks of people of both sexes to whom they relate to as a "spouse"? What benefit would there be to marriage in this instance -- wouldn't it rather complicate things, and completely belittle the meaning of marriage? Please keep in mind that I am not arguing against same sex marriage here, only against interpreting that right into the Constitution via the 14th Amendment.

Without amending the Constitution, because of the way the Constitution is written, I think that that is the only means to create a law allowing same sex unions at the federal level, and I think that it is particularly problematic. My point in my previous post is that the way our government is organized (in the US) does not provide a sound basis for a federal law like the one that you are proposing.




I don't know - how would YOU like to define those terms?

I think this response points to the dilemma that I was getting at. Other than those rights that have already been enumerated in our Constitution, there is really no objective basis to determine what qualifies as a right that transcends the democratic process. You say that marriage to whomever you choose, regardless of gender, is a fundamental right. Others say it is not. Who gets to decide who is right? You, because you are generally more liberal with the definition of "rights"? The other person because they have thump the Bible well? It's quite a sticky thing to suggest that there exist rights that have not heretofore been recognized as such, but which nonetheless are fundamental enough to transcend the democratic process.

I think it's absurd to put my happiness (read - my marriage to one man for 24 years) in the hands of the supposedly educated, unbiased American public.

I agree. You should love, cherish, and be happy with your partner regardless of what the American public thinks. God bless you both.
 
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That is better because now I can actually understand your point of view and point out a few misconceptions. A major misconception you have is that the resistance has to be effective. If a woman screams it is resistance and its effectiveness depends on whether anyone one hears and responds. Women have done so and have scared off their attacker or attracted attention that has stopped the attack. It also makes it a bit hard for the man, i.e. Kobe Bryant, to claim it was consensual sex as is too often done, at least if witnesses step forward. On the other hand if she doesn’t scream you are left with a he says, she says situation. You can take his word and possibly let guilty get away with their crime or you can take hers and possibly prosecute the innocent.

Nice try. The word "rape" implies some amount of resistance on the part of the woman. In this circumstance to say "by resistance, I didn't mean that it had to be effective" is tantamount to saying "by rape, what I really meant was consensual legal sexual intercourse," because that is what rape without any attempt at resistance would be. I will note, one exception to the above statement, which is that rape can also refer to exploitative sexual conduct, such as where the victim is a child or is mentally incompetent to consent to sexual intercourse. In such cases, it is certainly possible that the victim can be raped without hint of resistance, because the nature of the crime (and its moral repugnance) revolves around the inability of the victim to understand the need to resist. It would seem that, even according to your elaborated explanation (which for the reasons stated above comes across as nonsense), such victims should be blamed for their crimes.

All that said, the last thing I would ever do if my wife, my mother, or my sister were raped (God forbid) is to say, "Well, I guess you should have resisted better."



You are correct that it is true that everyone who supports legalized homicide through abortion supports genocide. I realize you try to redefine who is a human being, but how is that different than what the Nazi’s did? Any competent biologist will tell you that from the state of development known as a zygote onward the offspring of a homo sapient couple is a living organism known as a human being. The wholesale killing of human beings without a justified reason is called genocide. So Yes I call a spade a spade.
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Genocide:the deliberate and systematic extermination of a national, racial, political, or cultural group.

The killing of human beings without a justified reason would be called murder, not genocide. Genocide is a particularly heinous form of murder, but not all murder is genocide. Whether abortion is murder is another discussion for another forum (i.e. 'debates on abortion.'), but I stand by statement that it is a bit harsh to equate it with genocide (unless, of course, "unborn" qualifies as "a national, racial, political, or cultural" status).
 
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Okay, since you deem it to be (however minimally) relevant to the O.P., I will make one last comment. You claim that you backed up your statement "all lawyers are liars" with an argument. But from what I can tell, the only "support" that you have given to your argument is that you do not know how a lawyer can be honest and successful. This is not logical support for your argument, but rather another conclusory statement that is not all that different from your initial conclusion. Piling conclusion on top of conclusion does not make a logical argument, unless you first provide some logical basis for your conclusions.

Finally, you stated that lawyers "oppress" you by allowing criminals to go free. Okay, this seems like an attempt at a logical argument, but it such a misinformed statement that I figured that it was not derailing a thread over. But, here is brief logical response to your statement.

First, not all lawyers are criminal defense lawyers. Some are prosecutors (whose job it is to protect you from criminals). Most lawyers are not involved in the criminal justice system at all. Thus, to blame all lawyers for the perceived abuses of a small minority of them is to paint an entire profession with an excessively broad brush stroke, which is exactly what I accused of doing from the outset.

Second, let's assume, arguendo, that criminal defense lawyers are representative of all attorneys. Even (especially?) criminal defense attorneys play an important role in defending your liberties. In protecting the rights of the worst of us, they protect the rights of the best of us. The framers of the U.S. Constitution inserted certain rights into our Constitution, including the right to resist unreasonable searches, the right to due process, and the right against self-incrimination. Why did they include these right next to the right to free speech and religion and such? Because, they were keenly aware, based on their experience, of the ability of oppressive governments to violate the dignity of everyday people by doing the very things that our Constitution now protects us from. These same rights are the basic building building blocks of many types of legal defenses in the criminal justice system. When the police build their case by violating the suspect's Fourth Amendment rights, then a lawyer's job is to have thrown out the evidence gained from this violation. A good judge will oblige the defense attorney in this scenario precisely because it is necessary to do so in order to keep the police from also violating the rights of the innocent. If there were no consequences for such constitutional violations, the police would have no reason to abide by the Constitution, and the Constitution would be worth no more than the paper it is written on. Fortunately, comparatively speaking, police in our country do their job in a way that respects that dignity of the innocent. This is due, in large part, to the fact that failure to do so, at least to the extent that it involves violating the constitutional rights of others, will result in the guilty not being brought to justice. And, because the police, by and large, want the guilty to be punished and, because the police understand this consequence of serious constitutional violations, it is quite rare they commit violations that result in allowing the guilty to go free. And, when a guilty person is allowed to go free because of such a violation, it is not the criminal defense lawyer who is at fault, but rather the police for failing to abide by the Constitution. Therefore, in arguing that a defendant's constitional rights have been violated, the attorney is not being dishonest, but rather he is asserting his client's legal rights and in doing so is creating a strong incentive for the government to repect your constitutional rights.

Finally, as to your objection that I failed to provide reasoned argument to your statement that a lawyer cannot be honest and successful at the same time. You have yet to provide any basis for this statement. So, how can I even begin to dispute it? If I provide you with examples of attorneys who I believe to be honest, you will either not know who they are or you will claim that they are dishonest (which is an accusation that can probably be made of anyone). Unless you can show that the legal profession is somehow inherently dishonest, it is impossible to discredit your reasoning, because you have provided none. Thus, all I can do is provide an equally conclusory statement that there is nothing inherently dishonest about the legal profession, so there is no reason to doubt the ability of an attorney to remain honest. I have now provided one example to demonstrate my point that lawyers protect your rights, but you have not provided any basis for me to accept your statement that one cannot be successful and honest in the legal profession. It seems that, if there were a logical basis for this statement, you would have provided it by now.

Now, this really is derailing the thread, so if you would like to continue to discuss, please start a new thread out of respect for the OP and those who would prefer not to participate in this tangential issue.
I can’t anything to this at all. Well done!
 
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Without amending the Constitution, because of the way the Constitution is written, I think that that is the only means to create a law allowing same sex unions at the federal level, and I think that it is particularly problematic. My point in my previous post is that the way our government is organized (in the US) does not provide a sound basis for a federal law like the one that you are proposing.
It didn’t require a federal law or changes to the constiution to grant legal recognition to interracal marraiges.
 
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Referring to abortion as "genocide" shouldn't it be "murder" but this thread is about Sodomites and getting their demands met.

Next thing you know blacks will want to take away the rights of good Christina people who ONLY want to burn crosses in crosses in the yards of minorities. Or worse…*gasp*…those blacks will want to use the SAME drinking fountains as good honest hard working whites!...Oh the humanity….wont somebody PLEASE think of the children?!?!?! :swoon:

It worked in Canada and look at what's happened, a church was turned in for a sermon about Sodom and Gomorrah when the authorities got involved the congregation had to move across the border into the United States, "The Reason" in Canada its considered a hate crime to talk about how God destroyed those cities for their wickedness,
I never get tired of hearing this bit of false witness.

now everything has gone in reverse, the Christians lose their rights and the Sodomites gain theirs. :sorry:
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You still have the right to hate gays and lesbians and all the other minorities that are around.

What rights are you pretending you will loose if everyone is equal?
 
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It should be LEGAL nationwide.

And the basic rights of people should NEVER be put to a vote.

It should be put to a vote because it is NOT A BASIC RIGHT. I prefer to live in a democracy or a republic where people have a voice about the laws that govern them.
 
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It didn’t require a federal law or changes to the constiution to grant legal recognition to interracal marraiges.

Well, I guess it depends on how you define "federal law", but I would argue that it did require a change to federal law in the form of constitutional interpretation. Certainly federal law includes case law, doesn't it? And, the change that required the states to recognize interracial marriages came through case law interpreting the Constitution (the EPC if I remember correctly), didn't it? I would say that that is a change in federal law, but I suppose that depends on how you define the term. Nonetheless, I think that interracial marriage was recognized as a federal right through one of the means that I discussed above: interpreting the Constitution so as to read it as granting that particular right. I find this prospect somewhat problematic in the case of gay marriage in ways that were not so problematic in the case of interracial marriages, but it is late, so I will not elaborate now for the sake of keeping this post short and getting to bed.
 
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